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Is anyone vulnerable still isolating? Covid

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KindredPoodle · 05/05/2024 22:02

My father was told to isolate years ago during the first wave of covid, because some immune suppressant medication he had to take every few years made him temporarily clinically vulnerable.

Years later, he is still following this advice and claims that he still had to isolate for safety . He sees nobody, insists on washing the food delivery in bleach solution, quarantines the post and doesn’t allow my mum to go into anyone’s houses or get close to them. It suits him because he’s naturally antisocial and quite controlling, but it’s destroying her life.

So my question is, is ANYONE else who was told to isolate (back when covid was a big scary unknown threat, and we had no vaccines or knowledge of how to treat it) still isolating? My sense is that very few are, and my dad is doing it out of some combination of fear, mental health and habit

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Sillyjane · 05/05/2024 22:05

Op, what are you looking for, you know full well if anyone still is it is due to other factors,,like your dad. The question is why is your mother choosing to,live like this. As it is a choice she’s making. Not just him

Floralnomad · 05/05/2024 22:03

Your mum needs to ignore him and crack on with her life .