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DH called me an arsehole

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IneffableCuriosity · 05/05/2024 19:56

DS had an accident in the kitchen-poo everywhere. DH ended up (I have no idea how) with a massive 💩 on his foot (sock on)
He started screaming and I couldn’t help it, I started laughing. The situation was so ridiculous. He then lost his temper at me and shouted and called me an arsehole.

I posted the other day that he called me an “irritable shit” in a fight and have told him that name calling is unacceptable.

AIBU and was I in the wrong for laughing?

For context I have ADHD and can sometimes laugh at inappropriate moments.

I am suffering from severe PMDD right now and am extra sensitive.

OP posts:
pictoosh · 05/05/2024 20:03

My dh screams at poo as well...it's a ridiculous overreaction and I find it hilarious. He does not.
I have ADHD too.
Hmm....

MalcolmTuckersSwearBox · 05/05/2024 20:02

You're both overreacting in the heat of the moment.

IneffableCuriosity · 05/05/2024 20:01

fieldsofbutterflies · 05/05/2024 19:59

If I got shit all over me and DH started laughing, I'd call him an arsehole too.

Thanks, I’m seeking some perspective on the situation. I can see how he was stressed in the moment 💩

OP posts:
fieldsofbutterflies · 05/05/2024 19:59

If I got shit all over me and DH started laughing, I'd call him an arsehole too.

Footzok · 05/05/2024 19:57

Id have found it hilarious too but to be fair id probably also call my partner an arsehole in those circumstances

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