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Parent scammed out of £250,000

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scamchild · 05/05/2024 01:13

Posting here for traffic but I guess it is aibu in some sense as I have no idea what to do.

This is the 4th time my parent has been scammed out of a large sum of money. This time an inheritance lump sum.

She's a Covid denier. She thinks banks can't be trusted and will collapse and a complete conspiracy theory freak. I'm wondering if she is mentally unwell given she's done this 4 times.

She's given £250k to "coinbase" and "gold" only it's a "gmail" account. And written in bad English. And various other things. I can't get an answer out of her. How much? When? Why? How? She's confused and seems to think she's only lost a small amount but also says she has nothing left. So £250k is gone. She communicates to scammers on "telegram"

Help me!!!! I literally dont know what to do.

Called bank and they are useless. They will only deal with her. The password she gave me for bank doesn't work! I've called action fraud but have limited info.
She lives a flight away so I can't meet her easily.

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scamchild · 06/05/2024 09:59

She's just told us she thought she was in love with the scammer. She's been buying phones and sending them to Africa. She thought this bloke would come over and they would live together forever living off the proceeds from crypto.

This is the 4th time I know that she's done this.

All the money has gone (an inheritance she received) PLUS we've just found out that it's been going on for years before this so in reality she's been sending this guy money for over 5 years..

It's literally 100s of thousands of pounds. If I had to guess maybe 300-350k.

Police are involved now. But quite useless.

Shes refusing to see a GP.

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PhotoLop · 06/05/2024 09:38

She sounds like she's unwell - has she been tested for alzheimers etc? If not then very lonely and fearful.

I'm not sure you can recover the money if she's willingly handed it over.

scamchild · 06/05/2024 09:35

Bumping as mumsnet hid my thread all weekend! Help!

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