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To think that this child needed to go to A&E?

32 replies

Petuniasforsally · 04/05/2024 21:31

I was at a children’s event today. A child fell head first from a height of around a metre onto concrete. I arrived around an hour later and was asked to take a look at the child as I have basic first aid training (though no further medical training). By this time the child had vomited, was struggling to stay awake, seemed quite confused about what had happened & had a noticeably swollen face. I advised the parents to take her straight to A&E but they refused, stating that they had medical backgrounds (though neither of them are doctors) and A&E was ‘pointless’. I did see the child later up & running around but I can’t get it out of my head. This should have been an A&E thing, right?

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AtrociousCircumstance · 04/05/2024 21:53

Fucking idiots. Truly irresponsible. They simply couldn’t be bothered with the hours waiting, which is a pain, but a necessary one.

qwertyqwertyqwertyqwerty · 04/05/2024 21:52

Yes definitely. Not taking a child to A&E in those circs is neglectful IMO.

KikiShaLeeBopDeBopBop · 04/05/2024 21:37

I'd have called 999 myself but I appreciate it's not always easy to stand up to others

RandomButtons · 04/05/2024 21:36

100% A&E for concussion EVEN if they are A&E doctors.

Medical people can be the worst offenders at not getting their kids seen quick enough in my experience. “They can walk, paracetamol and they’ll be fine”.

KikiShaLeeBopDeBopBop · 04/05/2024 21:36

With the symptoms the poor child was displaying, I really really hope they're OK:(

Mannikin · 04/05/2024 21:35

Good grief, yes absolutely A+E.

and I am a doctor.

KikiShaLeeBopDeBopBop · 04/05/2024 21:35

Abso-bloody-lutely. Didn't even need to finish reading your post.
Impact to head + mechanism of injury = 999

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