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To ask how much you spend on your holiday?

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grassseed · 04/05/2024 18:47

How much do you spend a year on your holiday and how much is this as a percentage of your income?

E.g. do you earn £30,000 as take home pay and spend £1000 a year (3% of your take home pay).

I'm just wondering as I earn an above average amount, but when I'm on holiday I feel like I'm scrimping compared to the other people I see holidaying and I'm wondering if these are the super rich or if people spend a much larger proportion of their take home pay on holidays

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ajdhpoqnavd · 05/05/2024 13:05

it appears a lot of people are not actually that squeezed.

You think because there is a thread on MN with 143 responses in a population of millions, on a thread specifically asking what you spend on holidays, that people are not actually "that squeezed" do you go to a hospital and assume every in the country is sick. It's a 3 year old's logic.

Blackcats7 · 05/05/2024 13:00

It’s interesting to know how many people go on regular holidays and how much is spent.
I realise I may be jumped on but as there have been so many threads about disabled people being a drain and having an easy lifestyle of handouts whilst hardworking families are being squeezed by the cost of living crisis I feel the need to comment that it appears a lot of people are not actually that squeezed.

Bluevelvetsofa · 05/05/2024 12:58

Usually one week in the summer in this country, so less than £1000, which we pay monthly.

We have neighbours who have ten or so holidays a year. Usually long haul, for at least two weeks.

Pollipops1 · 05/05/2024 12:54

My dh and I earn 50-60k each ft we spend about 7k-8k on holidays a year that’s usually a week abroad and then a few mini uk breaks

this is representative of my experience

Pollipops1 · 05/05/2024 12:51

This is where I found Mumsnet very different from real life. Maybe it’s an age thing, as we all have big mortgages &/or childcare so despite healthy incomes spending even 10% of income is rare.

how does someone spend 20k on 60k?!

Hatecleaninglovecleanhouse · 05/05/2024 12:48

Single, no dependant kids.

2.5% of take-home in my budget this year. I don't earn a fortune so I do 3 different types of working holiday in the UK for free accomodation - that budget covers travel, some food costs, and spending money.

I'm trying to save up for a proper holiday later this year as I need a break from working full time then working when I'm on leave, but it cost so much more as a solo person, not sure if I'll get there, so not including that in my budget above.

TrickyD · 05/05/2024 12:39

Summer family Caribbean trip £22K, 7 of us we pay. Family ski trip Approx £9000 but adult sons chip in about £2000, two cruises just me and DH, total about £14,000. No mortgage about 25%. We are retired so having an enjoyable old age, and enjoying company of sons and grandchildren.

99victoria · 05/05/2024 12:25

We're semi-retired so we have a household income of about £32k. We spend over a third of that on holidays -usually one long-haul, one sun holiday and a European break plus we go away at Christmas. Usually comes to about £12k pa

But we have paid off our mortgage and don't have any expensive hobbies etc. We run a pretty old car and we don't really buy stuff.

Elphamouche · 05/05/2024 12:21

Next year I expect to spend around £9k plus spending money/food/some activities.

We would usually spend around £8k all in for a big holiday, a weekend abroad and a couple of UK weekends. But we haven’t done so since 2022.

This year we aren’t doing anything either, had to emergency buy a car, paid to get our stairs redone as they weren’t safe and I was pregnant and maternity pay is absolute shite.

We take home around £60k so around 15%

ajdhpoqnavd · 05/05/2024 12:20

@Sendinsanity I was just being nosey, sounds wonderful! At least they've brought free Disney dining back now!

Sendinsanity · 05/05/2024 12:13

ajdhpoqnavd · 05/05/2024 11:31

@Sendinsanity where in Florida do you stay? Or do you do longer? That's a lot of money for only 3 people, even if Florida!

Oh I know, we could definitely do it a lot cheaper but we just go less often for longer. We usually go for 3.5 weeks, just over 2 weeks at one of the moderate disney hotels then a week at the hard rock or portofino. Discovery cove is our other unreasonable expense but loved treat when there too

KnittedCardi · 05/05/2024 12:04

notzoe · 05/05/2024 11:23

Sorry it’s just my opinion. During the summer I often too see videos ‘reminding’ me I only get 18 summers with my kids therefore making me feel guilty for having to work etc and not being able to just go to the beach or whatever every day. It’s great if it’s not your experience though!

Hahahaha. Myself, and indeed all my friends, still go on holidays with their adult children. Can't get rid of them! As they get older, you collect their partners too. These are kids in their mid to late twenties. They then also do extra solo trips with partners and friends, but the concept of the family holiday still persists.

Talkamongstyourselves · 05/05/2024 11:52

Household income is just shy of £41K.

We don't really go on holiday but last year we went to Australia to attend a family wedding so turned it into a 2 week trip. We spent circa 10K for that and we are also having a few weekends away (not abroad), which will probably work out in total to about £4k. Most years it's around £6-7k for weekend trips though.

CeaselesslyIntoThePast · 05/05/2024 11:38

I think what we've learned from this thread is that most people are prone to exaggeration ;-)

CanaryMary · 05/05/2024 11:32

My dh and I earn 50-60k each ft
we spend about 7k-8k on holidays a year that’s usually a week abroad and then a few mini uk breaks

ajdhpoqnavd · 05/05/2024 11:31

@Sendinsanity where in Florida do you stay? Or do you do longer? That's a lot of money for only 3 people, even if Florida!

ohthejoys21 · 05/05/2024 11:26

We rented a boat with crew in South of France, all the “kids” slept on it and we all stayed in a neighbouring hotel and were on the boat in the day. We treated all our extended family which explains the cost.. never again!

Sendinsanity · 05/05/2024 11:25

I'm a single parent and we are only a 3 person family which helps. We go on holiday every 3rd year and have a household income of around 60k. I spend about 20k on our holiday (we go to florida)

notzoe · 05/05/2024 11:23

ajdhpoqnavd · 05/05/2024 09:55

Yea, the whole 17/18 summers thing is bullshit designed to make people (women naturally) feel guilty.

Eh, how's it bullshit? It's just a perspective reminding us actually how little time we have children for, and you make it sound like it's thrown at us all the time, mine is 14 and I've not seen it worded like that before, it's hardly a stick that's been used to beat me with whilst parenting.

Sorry it’s just my opinion. During the summer I often too see videos ‘reminding’ me I only get 18 summers with my kids therefore making me feel guilty for having to work etc and not being able to just go to the beach or whatever every day. It’s great if it’s not your experience though!

notzoe · 05/05/2024 11:10

ohthejoys21 · 05/05/2024 10:25

We spend a lot as dh insists on taking our adult kids with partners. Most we've ever spent on one was 90k but that was for our joint 50th's taking everyone away. Depends what kind of trip it is- obvs a long wkend city break going to be less than a week's skiing. I guess it varies

Omg please tell us about the £90k holiday!! Where? How many people?

UnPushyParents · 05/05/2024 10:52

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grassseed · 05/05/2024 10:45

ohthejoys21 · 05/05/2024 10:25

We spend a lot as dh insists on taking our adult kids with partners. Most we've ever spent on one was 90k but that was for our joint 50th's taking everyone away. Depends what kind of trip it is- obvs a long wkend city break going to be less than a week's skiing. I guess it varies

90k!!! What's your income ?

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VerasChips · 05/05/2024 10:34

grassseed · 05/05/2024 10:06

This is all very interesting!

@VerasChips net income is £72000, currently on a £5000 holiday which is a big splurge for us and 7% of yearly income we will likely want to go away later in the year. We are at a very nice resort but it has tiers and we are the lowest one, we have been upgraded to the highest one and I feel now I wouldn't be able to come back without being on the highest, it would be a bit naf to not have access to the parts for the highest tier which are right next to the lower ones.

Yes- I’d rather go somewhere cheaper than be somewhere and not be able to fully enjoy it.

We have friends who go to Disney land every year- stay in the cheapest accommodation, take food with them, don’t buy treats in the parks or anything- horses for courses obviously, but we saved up and went once, stayed in a lovely place and did everything we wanted to without worrying about the money.

I think holidays are such a subjective thing- my best friend’s kids haven’t ever been on holiday because they struggle for money and she prioritises other things- the children are still happy.

Also, to be honest we spend a lot of money day to day- I don’t mean we are rich, we just have a takeaway, take the kids out, have beauty treatments, have people over for food etc and basically concentrate on having a good time as much as possible- so we probably don’t prioritise holidays as much as a lot of people.

SpicyNoodleSoup · 05/05/2024 10:29

Household income is £110k a year. This year, we have had our family holiday which was a week in Egypt at a 5* hotel, all inclusive for 2 adults and 1 child for £1500.

We normally try to keep it around that amount and look for deals but our child is starting school in September so I suppose it will have to increase but I dread paying so much for holidays when I know it is so much cheaper in terms of time.

ohthejoys21 · 05/05/2024 10:25

We spend a lot as dh insists on taking our adult kids with partners. Most we've ever spent on one was 90k but that was for our joint 50th's taking everyone away. Depends what kind of trip it is- obvs a long wkend city break going to be less than a week's skiing. I guess it varies