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Dying of boredom - please share interesting pursuits/ hobbies you have come across.

82 replies

Tryeng · 04/05/2024 11:34

Not married/ no kids. Very early days into new relationship. 30 yo. In London (for now).

I socialise often but I genuinely think I only do this for mental stimulation. Would love to find something else to preoccupy my time.

When I’m at my parents home I enjoy cooking and gardening with them but for some reason they don’t “stick in London”. Would love a dog but don’t have time for one. Do volunteer fortnightly at rescue centre but find it sad tbh.

Thinking about getting back into horse riding. Sailed briefly as a kid but was useless tbh.

i have a Friend whose hobby is to visit waterfalls. Something like that would be neat.

Contemplating Astro-photography. Golf? Maybe furniture restoration.

Money shouldn’t be an issue but I do recognise specialist equipment can be very £££££.

Any ideas?

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SewingIsMySuperPower · 04/05/2024 19:11

As the name suggests, I'm a big fan of sewing! I used to do mainly cross stitch and embroidery, but now I make almost all my own clothes. It can be as cheap or expensive as you choose it to be (even machines can be found relatively cheaply in charity shops if you look). Absolutely loads of online resources. You can use bedding to practice (my first ever item of clothing was made from a picnic blanket!).

It brings me immense joy and has done wonders for my mental health. Huge advocate for creating 😍

berksandbeyond · 04/05/2024 19:01

A language
An instrument
Choir
Knitting / Crocheting

I have an allotment. And I love to read ☺️

MothQuandary · 04/05/2024 18:58

AsYouMightBe · 04/05/2024 13:52

I was about to dispute this (where I live now, if you’re not reasonably good at sailing, you’re endangering your own life taking a boat out), but I imagine it’s a different matter on the West Reservoir (though when I lived nearby, I did once see a dangerous near-miss between a boat and some swimmers.)

I sail on a little Capability Brown landscaped lake in Cheshire. It’s pretty safe. I wouldn’t venture out to sea in my dinghy. I am plucking up the courage to try a big lake, maybe once I’ve got my RYA level 3.

calimali · 04/05/2024 18:28

Abracadabra12345 · 04/05/2024 17:00

How would you get started on that?

Download the app on your phone. It shows you where they are hidden using gps. It's a bit like the Poekmon hunts, but much better as you have physical things to find.

It's free to pay or for about 50p per week you can be a premium member and have more things to find.

HereComesEverybody · 04/05/2024 17:24

@AsYouMightBe I do very similar to you- lots of literary 'research' (only for me) & visit places where my favourite writers lived & are buried.
I am in a reading group. I read a lot & attend online classes / presentations/ lectures. I go to a lot of exhibitions. I love walking tours of cities.
I'm rarely bored.

ehb102 · 04/05/2024 17:17

Clay target shooting. Find a ladies shooting event for starting off or get a private lesson. There's something about a woman with the gumption to pick up a gun that makes her good company.

Time40 · 04/05/2024 17:15

Outdoor swimming, especially in very cold water.

mumda · 04/05/2024 17:15

Urban sketching. Look on Facebook for local groups

StopStartStop · 04/05/2024 17:14

Foraging - wild food, food for free.

Wigeon · 04/05/2024 17:12

@Abracadabra12345 - you just sign up on the website /app: https://www.geocaching.com/play. Think it's £25 a year. Well worth it! You can plan entire walks around where there are geocaches to find.

Other ideas:

My 12 year old DD has just taught herself to crochet via YouTube tutorials and has just crocheted a jumper for herself! (Not her first project).

Reenactment - https://www.historic-uk.com/LivingHistory/ReenactorsDirectory/ - can involve making your own costume, research into your historical period of choice etc etc. If you like Tudors then I can recommend a group!

I've just finished researching the history of the owners and occupants of my Victorian house (we have almost all the deeds), which has been fascinating!

I know you do some volunteering OP - there are so many other opportunities. Trustee, school governor, Samaritan (or other helpline volunteer, eg Childline), magistrate, local litter picking groups etc etc.

Living History societies, associations and reenactors

Over the years we have received many requests from schools, media companies and historic venues for details of re-enactors, in order to help to bring...

https://www.historic-uk.com/LivingHistory/ReenactorsDirectory

Abracadabra12345 · 04/05/2024 17:00

calimali · 04/05/2024 14:43

Geocaching - you will find so many brilliant hidden places in London that you have never seen before.

How would you get started on that?

Abracadabra12345 · 04/05/2024 17:00

Caroparo52 · 04/05/2024 15:48

Giving back through volunteering is very rewarding. Local food bank or the Cinnamon Trust where you walk the dog of an elderly person who cannot get out

My DD volunteers for the Cinammon Trust and loves it

Nameychango · 04/05/2024 16:52

Ceramic painting / pottery - I've always loved going to those cafes where you can paint something, then they glaze and fire it! I'm still tempted to get myself a second hand kiln and get all the unglazed pots and paints! I can lose myself for hours doing it

Caroparo52 · 04/05/2024 15:48

Giving back through volunteering is very rewarding. Local food bank or the Cinnamon Trust where you walk the dog of an elderly person who cannot get out

Ginmonkeyagain · 04/05/2024 15:42

You live in London - the world's your oyster.

In thr years I have loved in London I have done - kickboxing, kung fu, a postgraduate economics qualification, countless walks/exhibiitons/gigs, yoga courses, jewellery making, creative writing, sewing classes, open air swimming, community volunteering.

TroysMammy · 04/05/2024 15:30

SpringLobelia · 04/05/2024 12:27

Oh! I just recalled that when I was a teenage I decided to find the place that sold the perfect chocolate eclair in my city. My very patient father and I went every Saturday to a different place and I wrote up little reviews. (Later I started a food blog when DS1 was born 14 years ago so kind of the same thing).

I fancy recreating that idea with the Dcs. A new little cafe every weekend. (I am very food oriented).

I did this many years ago with custard slices. If you are ever in Swansea, the first bakery inside the market, opposite the butchers, Whitewalls entrance. They came out tops.

DoYouSmokePaul · 04/05/2024 14:45

Get into cryptic crosswords. It’s fun, mentally stimulating, and makes you feel very smug.

buffyslayer · 04/05/2024 14:44

Netball?

leagues4you.co.uk/couch2court/

Justspeculating45 · 04/05/2024 14:44

Parkrun? Volunteering as a Marshall or running.

calimali · 04/05/2024 14:43

Geocaching - you will find so many brilliant hidden places in London that you have never seen before.

RabbitsRock · 04/05/2024 14:40

Martial arts? I took up karate at 45 & absolutely loved it. Fittest I’ve been in my life! I only quit after an injury but that was at work! Made loads of friends, some of whom I’m still in touch with.
Sculpture.
Crystal healing or any other “ alternative” therapy. I did a reflexology course which was very interesting & met one of my closest friends there.
Calligraphy
Maybe try water sports again - you could well be better at them as an adult

Imatorturedpoet · 04/05/2024 14:30

Sorry posted too soon! I also make terrariums with the cuttings. Kits are quite cheap to buy and once you know what you're doing you don't even need a kit. I pick up empty jars in charity shops.

Imatorturedpoet · 04/05/2024 14:29

I buy cuttings of indoor plants on Etsy and then propagate from the plants once they've grown, I now have lots of different interesting house plants and gift the cuttings to friends.

Imatorturedpoet · 04/05/2024 14:25

TroysMammy · 04/05/2024 12:09

Postcrossing, not much effort but posting postcards abroad is quite expensive compared to other countries posting to the UK. It's joyful to received a postcard from overseas and for me exciting when someone has received the card you sent and sends you a message. I haven't been doing it long but I'm already email pals with a lady in Belarus. I have a separate email address for Postcrossing and we email snipits and photos of the area around us.

I love this idea! Love getting post and really don't write enough these days, so will be doing this 😊

lavenderandlemon · 04/05/2024 14:11

Sewing - should be lots of courses in London and it is such a great skill to be able to make clothes that fit you exactly and mend or adjust old clothes.
Pottery - so absorbing to do, and again, really great to make things for yourself and use them.
Painting - I'm an absolutely rubbish artist, but I really enjoy the process, maybe a paint by numbers thing to start with?
Cinema membership - depends where you are in London, but I remember some do a number of free tickets/cheap tickets. Maybe take yourself to see a film at random once a week, something you wouldn't usually see?