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happypickle · 03/05/2024 06:37

Off the back off another thread and doing a few searches of the benefits calculator, it seems the sweet spot for a lot of families will be to be renting, have a low/medium earning (typically) husband and an unemployed mother who stays at home. This seems to yield the highest return for UC, no childcare expenses and a happy mum who gets to stay at home and be there for her children.

It doesn't seem to be fair that UC system supports this whilst middle earners will be expected to both work full time in order to pay their mortgage and pay extortionate child care fees to probably be in a worse financial position than those on UC.

I know the theory is that long term, the working couple will be better off as they will have better pensions and career progression. But is that really the case?

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LegoDaffodil · 03/05/2024 16:34

ChardonnaysBeastlyCat · 03/05/2024 16:24

You don’t even have the grace to apologise.

I did nothing wrong!
What a way to derail posts on a goady thread!

Beezknees · 03/05/2024 16:29

FredericC · 03/05/2024 16:16

The person whose rent is more gets the benefit of living in a nicer/bigger/better maintained property/in a more desirable area with more amenities, though. Housing isn't priced randomly. I'm sure the person who is in a £300 flat would love to be able to live in a £1500 flat without spending any extra money. It's just nonsense.

That's not necessarily true at all. Plenty of areas in the south east are shite and still expensive. I had to go to Barking not long ago and it was dire, wouldn't live there if you paid me. But the rent there costs more than double what mine does in the east midlands.

ChardonnaysBeastlyCat · 03/05/2024 16:24

LegoDaffodil · 03/05/2024 15:39

I thought that by making the next poster’s comment in bold it was obvious, and as you didn’t recognise the comment as your own I assumed (wrongly) that you’d check back on which comment I’d c&P’d.
I apologise that you clearly didn’t understand that.

You don’t even have the grace to apologise.

FredericC · 03/05/2024 16:16

Doodahday88 · 03/05/2024 15:53

What they mean is that if you compare someone who gets £1000 in housing element over someone who gets £300 in housing element if both get to live in a one bedroom flat, then the person with the £1000 doesn’t feel the benefit of that extra £700. They aren’t walking around with £700 spending money. The only person benefitting is the landlord.

The person whose rent is more gets the benefit of living in a nicer/bigger/better maintained property/in a more desirable area with more amenities, though. Housing isn't priced randomly. I'm sure the person who is in a £300 flat would love to be able to live in a £1500 flat without spending any extra money. It's just nonsense.

Doodahday88 · 03/05/2024 15:53

FredericC · 03/05/2024 15:31

I'm not sure what people mean when they say people 'don't get that money' re rent, because it goes to the landlord. Surely you could say anyone doesn't 'get' the portion of their wage that goes towards paying their rent? Of course they get that money, and it enables them to pay rent, and have somewhere to live. Am I missing something?

What they mean is that if you compare someone who gets £1000 in housing element over someone who gets £300 in housing element if both get to live in a one bedroom flat, then the person with the £1000 doesn’t feel the benefit of that extra £700. They aren’t walking around with £700 spending money. The only person benefitting is the landlord.

LegoDaffodil · 03/05/2024 15:39

ChardonnaysBeastlyCat · 03/05/2024 13:06

So you are quoting incorrectly and instead of an apology you decide to post an eye roll emoji?

Lovely.

I thought that by making the next poster’s comment in bold it was obvious, and as you didn’t recognise the comment as your own I assumed (wrongly) that you’d check back on which comment I’d c&P’d.
I apologise that you clearly didn’t understand that.

FredericC · 03/05/2024 15:31

I'm not sure what people mean when they say people 'don't get that money' re rent, because it goes to the landlord. Surely you could say anyone doesn't 'get' the portion of their wage that goes towards paying their rent? Of course they get that money, and it enables them to pay rent, and have somewhere to live. Am I missing something?

Kalevala · 03/05/2024 15:08

ConsuelaHammock · 03/05/2024 14:55

I agree and then you sell your house to pay for your care while those who lived in rented accommodation with a sahp get exactly the same care as you for nothing. The system is broken.

You could gift the house to your children as long as you expect to live seven years. Many people will never move to a care home.

ConsuelaHammock · 03/05/2024 14:55

I agree and then you sell your house to pay for your care while those who lived in rented accommodation with a sahp get exactly the same care as you for nothing. The system is broken.

MintsPi · 03/05/2024 14:46

User79853257976 · 03/05/2024 12:53

But if her DH already earns a middling amount they won’t get UC.

It doesn't even need to be a middling amount. My DP works 40 hours a week. I work 16. I earn 50p above minimum wage. He earns just under a £1 more. We total about 32k before tax. We have 1 child we get child benefit for and that it is.

The people who receive UC are usually renters, relatively low paid lone parents and those with disabled children.

If you have a mortgage, are in a couple and your children are (thankfully) not disabled it is very unlikely you would get lots of UC apart from help with childcare costs.

ChardonnaysBeastlyCat · 03/05/2024 13:06

LegoDaffodil · 03/05/2024 12:56

I was quoting the post after yours 🙄

So you are quoting incorrectly and instead of an apology you decide to post an eye roll emoji?

Lovely.

LegoDaffodil · 03/05/2024 12:56

ChardonnaysBeastlyCat · 03/05/2024 12:54

A proportion of this is lifestyle as well. A lot of people want things they simply can't have unless they work more hours. You cut your vloth accordingly.

Where exactly have I stated this? Nowhere, that’s where.

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I was quoting the post after yours 🙄

ChardonnaysBeastlyCat · 03/05/2024 12:54

A proportion of this is lifestyle as well. A lot of people want things they simply can't have unless they work more hours. You cut your vloth accordingly.

Where exactly have I stated this? Nowhere, that’s where.

User79853257976 · 03/05/2024 12:53

LittleBooThang · 03/05/2024 06:46

Everyone has the same choices. You are free to quit working to SAHM too.

But if her DH already earns a middling amount they won’t get UC.

LegoDaffodil · 03/05/2024 12:51

ChardonnaysBeastlyCat · 03/05/2024 11:39

Why are you talking about the unemployed?

UC is paid mostly to low paid workers. It’s a pyramid that’s about to collapse because there are more people taking out than there are contributing. This is what you don’t understand.

Your thinking is that it’s better for you to tax the contributors than to tax the businesses and make the businesses pay fairly. It keeps you in coffee, paid for by someone else.

Isn’t this exactly what was pointed out to you?
If businesses paid fair wages they’d put prices up to compensate.
There either has to be some sort of control over businesses paying low wages so they can benefit with huge profits (and same to rental house landlords) or those on low wages need to be supported, unless you’re happy for those in low wages to struggle even more?

A proportion of this is lifestyle as well. A lot of people want things they simply can't have unless they work more hours. You cut your vloth accordingly.

Tell me about this lifestyle please? Have you relied on benefits? There are a hell of a lot of people who have opinions on the incredible lives that those on benefits have - I relied on benefits, and I assure you it’s not easy at all, and it’s even more difficult to come off them!

Domino20 · 03/05/2024 12:50

ilovesooty · 03/05/2024 06:52

The benefit bashing on here gets less subtle every day.

Culture wars in anticipation of election.

LittleBooThang · 03/05/2024 12:47

happypickle · 03/05/2024 06:53

No I don't as I have a mortgage and UC won't cover mortgage housing costs.

Yes you do. We have a mortgage and claim. They don’t cover the mortgage, but that doesn’t stop me being a SAHM and claiming UC.

You absolutely could do it too.

Gruffallowhydidntyouknow · 03/05/2024 12:33

A proportion of this is lifestyle as well. A lot of people want things they simply can't have unless they work more hours. You cut your vloth accordingly.

ChardonnaysBeastlyCat · 03/05/2024 11:39

Why are you talking about the unemployed?

UC is paid mostly to low paid workers. It’s a pyramid that’s about to collapse because there are more people taking out than there are contributing. This is what you don’t understand.

Your thinking is that it’s better for you to tax the contributors than to tax the businesses and make the businesses pay fairly. It keeps you in coffee, paid for by someone else.

Willyoujustbequiet · 03/05/2024 11:15

TuesdayWhistler · 03/05/2024 11:12

Thank you.

That answer tells me 2 things about you.

You do t know what you're talking about - this is causing ignorant Rage

You have no interest I learning what you're talking about - which means nothing I say, not anyone else for that matter, will change your mind.

Good.

For anyone else wondering.

For someone earning £30k a year that pays tax will pay about £2000 of that tax towards welfare.
About £7 of which will go to unemployed.
So raging about how much you pay towards the unemployed when it's less than 2 Starbucks a year... Is a bit silly.

Of the remaining of that 2000 a year btw
Pensions get around £750 a year
Disability gest about £350 a year
Family and children get about £150 a year
Housing gets about £100 a year

Figures taken from about 5 minutes googling.
🤪

And with that, I'm done with the ignorant Rage and I'm going for a Costa.. 😋

Mic drop lol

TuesdayWhistler · 03/05/2024 11:12

ChardonnaysBeastlyCat · 03/05/2024 10:50

You seem to confuse me with the tax office or maybe with Google.

Thank you.

That answer tells me 2 things about you.

You do t know what you're talking about - this is causing ignorant Rage

You have no interest I learning what you're talking about - which means nothing I say, not anyone else for that matter, will change your mind.

Good.

For anyone else wondering.

For someone earning £30k a year that pays tax will pay about £2000 of that tax towards welfare.
About £7 of which will go to unemployed.
So raging about how much you pay towards the unemployed when it's less than 2 Starbucks a year... Is a bit silly.

Of the remaining of that 2000 a year btw
Pensions get around £750 a year
Disability gest about £350 a year
Family and children get about £150 a year
Housing gets about £100 a year

Figures taken from about 5 minutes googling.
🤪

And with that, I'm done with the ignorant Rage and I'm going for a Costa.. 😋

ChardonnaysBeastlyCat · 03/05/2024 10:50

TuesdayWhistler · 03/05/2024 10:47

Question.

Someone earns £30k
How much of their yearly tax goes to Unemployment & in work benefits?

You're talking like every worker pays 40% of their pay to UC claimants.

So Please give us the actual figure.

You seem to confuse me with the tax office or maybe with Google.

TuesdayWhistler · 03/05/2024 10:47

ChardonnaysBeastlyCat · 03/05/2024 10:35

Bless me indeed.

Who are these services you mentioned subsidised by? The magic money tree?

Question.

Someone earns £30k
How much of their yearly tax goes to Unemployment & in work benefits?

You're talking like every worker pays 40% of their pay to UC claimants.

So Please give us the actual figure.

ChardonnaysBeastlyCat · 03/05/2024 10:46

Doodahday88 · 03/05/2024 10:29

Bless you, I don’t think you understand. You will be benefiting because in your life, unless you live fully off grid, you will be receiving subsidised goods and services that cost less because the state tops up the wages of the low paid.

Some examples

  • delivery drivers
  • supermarket staff
  • nurses and other lower paid health professionals including some junior doctors
  • teaching assistants
  • road repairs
  • Pharmacy assistants
  • Any kind of food production lower paid staff
  • bar and restaurant staff
  • retail staff
  • care workers
  • child care workers
  • cleaners
  • charity workers
  • taxi drivers
  • performers
  • cultural staff e.g theatre box office staff

What you don’t understand is who is benefiting.

What about the huge dividends paid out to shareholders? Take Thames Water for example.

Their low paid workers are topped up by benefits, their dividends go where?

happypickle · 03/05/2024 10:45

'I think the point this poster was making is that if you’re against UC being used to top up wages, then the only answer would be to increase wages which would probably mean everyone paying more.'

If they remove wage top ups, the economy will find its own price point. Rental prices will be reduced to what people can afford instead of being inflated by benefit top ups.

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