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Teacher bought an ex students only fans?

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ShyPearlMoose · 02/05/2024 23:59

My friend has an x rated members website and has just told me that our old science teacher from secondary school has bought it! The same teacher that there were always dodgy rumours about him being a creep.

Is this worth mentioning to the school or is that over dramatic? It's really weird but she's 22 now and hasn't been at the school for 4 years.
Thoughts?

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Hobnobswantshernameback · 04/05/2024 17:47

I'm not sure the imaginary teacher is the perve in this scenario

hb83 · 04/05/2024 17:43

I wonder if he has a wife? Perhaps a more creative justice would be more effective? 🙂

Hateam · 04/05/2024 17:40

I'm finding this increasingly unbelievable.

I think we've been taken for a ride by the OP. I think the OP is a fantasised.

Itloggedmeoutagain · 04/05/2024 17:36

How would she see the billing address anyway? Wouldn't she just get the payment in the bank?

WhatIfHesWrittenMine · 04/05/2024 17:36

WearyAuldWumman · 04/05/2024 17:33

But if the payment hasn't gone through, he can't access her wares, surely? (I have no idea how these things work.)

Also no idea! Nor about the page 3 thing unless that's just a generic term for topless model now

Itloggedmeoutagain · 04/05/2024 17:35

Yes I'm doubting it now too

VickyEadieofThigh · 04/05/2024 17:35

WearyAuldWumman · 04/05/2024 17:25

Using the school address for billing changes things dramatically...though I'm puzzled as to how that's possible. Surely the billing address should be the one held by the bank?

Yes, I don't get that.

WearyAuldWumman · 04/05/2024 17:33

WhatIfHesWrittenMine · 04/05/2024 17:29

Yes, would a payment go through with the wrong billing address? I wondered if he'd put the school address on to signal to her it was definitely him - another creepy aspect to what he's doing, leaving her in no doubt as to his identity?

But if the payment hasn't gone through, he can't access her wares, surely? (I have no idea how these things work.)

WhatIfHesWrittenMine · 04/05/2024 17:29

WearyAuldWumman · 04/05/2024 17:25

Using the school address for billing changes things dramatically...though I'm puzzled as to how that's possible. Surely the billing address should be the one held by the bank?

Yes, would a payment go through with the wrong billing address? I wondered if he'd put the school address on to signal to her it was definitely him - another creepy aspect to what he's doing, leaving her in no doubt as to his identity?

WearyAuldWumman · 04/05/2024 17:27

shoppingshamed · 04/05/2024 16:53

Which papers still have page 3 models, I didn't realise they were still a thing

Aye. This coupled with the claim that the teacher used his school's address is making me doubt the OP's veracity.

WearyAuldWumman · 04/05/2024 17:25

ShyPearlMoose · 04/05/2024 15:41

Hi all. It's not onlyfans but she has her own website with a payment portal to access it. She's a page 3 model so uses her name on it and it's plastered over her social media. The teacher has a very unique name and he's also used the school as his billing address!!! She's got the receipt for his subscription.
I don't shes gonna say anything though, more bother than it's worth

Using the school address for billing changes things dramatically...though I'm puzzled as to how that's possible. Surely the billing address should be the one held by the bank?

WhatIfHesWrittenMine · 04/05/2024 17:06

ShyPearlMoose · 04/05/2024 15:45

DOB on his subscription says he's 47. He was the creepy teacher at school that there were always rumours about him being into the girls. She does make videos in little school girl outfits sometimes but not just that

Yeah, this makes it pretty clear what he is. Sorry that your friend doesn't feel able to do anything about it; it seems that all of your suspicions about him are confirmed. At least he's stupid enough to use the school address; hopefully he will get caught out another way. He shouldn't be anywhere near teenage girls!

Hopebridge · 04/05/2024 17:03

If the school is his billing address maybe it's not really him and it's someone pretending to be him? Just a thought? It would really concern me it was an ex teacher but I don't know where she would stand concerning breaching confidentiality.

shoppingshamed · 04/05/2024 16:53

ShyPearlMoose · 04/05/2024 15:41

Hi all. It's not onlyfans but she has her own website with a payment portal to access it. She's a page 3 model so uses her name on it and it's plastered over her social media. The teacher has a very unique name and he's also used the school as his billing address!!! She's got the receipt for his subscription.
I don't shes gonna say anything though, more bother than it's worth

Which papers still have page 3 models, I didn't realise they were still a thing

shoppingshamed · 04/05/2024 16:50

ConsuelaHammock · 03/05/2024 14:51

I can guarantee he won’t have a clue who she even is!

Can you explain how you can guarantee that?

sanogo · 04/05/2024 16:50

I'm assuming your friend was forced in to having an x rated site because according to MN every woman in porn is forced in to it

Itloggedmeoutagain · 04/05/2024 16:44

So first it was only fans
Now she's a page 3 model using her own name and she's doing videos in a school uniform. When she was at school you all thought he was creepy. I'm not saying for a minute that he's not but yet here she is dressing up as a school girl? Just what kind of clientele did she think she was going to attract?
If she wants to take her clothes off and prance around for money that's one thing, but dressing up as a school girl then getting creeped out by who is looking at her? Doesn't make sense

PropertyManager · 04/05/2024 16:40

wellington77 · 04/05/2024 16:07

Unfortunately I have no idea, it might be worth asking the police maybe, or a lawyer just casually about where you stand with the law.

If he has used the school email or postal address then his actions would almost certainly breach his contract and professional standards.

Other than that he hasn't broken any enforceable rules - the 5 year guidance is more about protecting teachers than ex pupils.

Many of us stay in touch with numerous ex pupils post A level for any number of legitimate reasons, or just to keep in touch.

But this is different because she is running a business, and he is buying her service (content) they are not in touch as such, or carrying on a relationship.

Its no different in essence to my former pupil being my boiler guy, I use his services as a gas engineer, I'm not a friend or social contact - different kind of business of course, but both are perfectly legal.

However, if he has used, as I previously said the schools email address in his registration, that's a sackable offence because it is linking the schools IT to adult material, and regardless of whether that is legal adult material it is still strictly forbidden.

So, there may be a cause for concern. She can legitimately contact the school IT department and advise of her concern, as she has a duty, as a producer of adult content to ensure, as is reasonably practical that minors can't get access. that would not be a GDPR breach IMHO.

Kitkatfiend31 · 04/05/2024 16:30

She is the one with on Only Fans. As others have said are only people in certain jobs allowed to watch these things? What if it was her doctor or local bus driver? If she doesn't like it don't do it!

wellington77 · 04/05/2024 16:07

PenguinLord · 04/05/2024 16:02

I wondered about that, but does a private subscription only one person should know he has be a breach of any rules?
He had more likely breached it rules using his account to subscribe, but would her reporting this not be a breach of something too? (no clue just wondering).

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Unfortunately I have no idea, it might be worth asking the police maybe, or a lawyer just casually about where you stand with the law.

scatterolight · 04/05/2024 16:04

The world is so topsy turvy. It's your friend who is getting her snatch out to any old randoms on the Internet. And now she clutches her pearls Victorian-style about who might be looking? What about the hundreds / thousands of other subscribers? Some of them might be rapists or domestic abusers. Others might be acquaintances or family. They're all wankers by definition. If you can't stomach the clientele perhaps don't do it?

PenguinLord · 04/05/2024 16:02

wellington77 · 04/05/2024 15:46

I’m a state school teacher and In my contract at least it says you have to uphold behaviour which would not put the school into disrepute. I’m not sure if this is the case for all state schools, but I think if he was at my school he would not be living up to this rule. Also my school when I first joined 12 years ago told us teachers to never have anything to do with ex students until 5 years had past- not sure if that’s a rule from the government or not, but I think it’s to do with protecting yourself from allegations of taking advantage of former students, blurring that professional line. I would definitely report.

Edited

I wondered about that, but does a private subscription only one person should know he has be a breach of any rules?
He had more likely breached it rules using his account to subscribe, but would her reporting this not be a breach of something too? (no clue just wondering).

rwalker · 04/05/2024 15:53

Reading updates the whole thing is vile

OF is one thing but dressing up as a school girl

I think you need to rethink your friendship

wellington77 · 04/05/2024 15:46

I’m a state school teacher and In my contract at least it says you have to uphold behaviour which would not put the school into disrepute. I’m not sure if this is the case for all state schools, but I think if he was at my school he would not be living up to this rule. Also my school when I first joined 12 years ago told us teachers to never have anything to do with ex students until 5 years had past- not sure if that’s a rule from the government or not, but I think it’s to do with protecting yourself from allegations of taking advantage of former students, blurring that professional line. I would definitely report.

ShyPearlMoose · 04/05/2024 15:45

DOB on his subscription says he's 47. He was the creepy teacher at school that there were always rumours about him being into the girls. She does make videos in little school girl outfits sometimes but not just that

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