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Teacher bought an ex students only fans?

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ShyPearlMoose · 02/05/2024 23:59

My friend has an x rated members website and has just told me that our old science teacher from secondary school has bought it! The same teacher that there were always dodgy rumours about him being a creep.

Is this worth mentioning to the school or is that over dramatic? It's really weird but she's 22 now and hasn't been at the school for 4 years.
Thoughts?

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bloodyplumbing · 04/05/2024 19:09

Autumntimeagain · 03/05/2024 07:46

But surely every 'only fans' account has been someone's 'student' at some time?

Sure, it's repugnant, but in my view, everyone who subscribes to 'only fans' is repugnant 😬

It's also repugnant to set up an only fans account IMO!

bloodyplumbing · 04/05/2024 19:07

renthead · 03/05/2024 06:41

The teacher is disgusting, but how do you know he even remembers her, or looked her up? Teachers have hundreds of students.It could be a complete coincidence.

I think this 'concern' is a bit rich coming from your friend. If she is really that concerned about safeguarding, perhaps she should think twice about this vile line of work / side hustle.

Why is he disgusting if he doesn't know she's an ex pupil?

The woman involved is getting paid for what she's doing, so wants men to pay?

He's appeasing her want?

bloodyplumbing · 04/05/2024 19:00

Deepdivesueandyou · 03/05/2024 01:07

She's selling, he's buying. No-one is glowing here, but no laws broken - shame him means to shame her.
Icky all round.

This!

Isn't it what she wants?

jengachampion · 04/05/2024 18:59

A teacher from the Educating series dated some ex students and had schoolgirl fantasies and was barred from teaching so I’d think it was worth telling the school

tiggergoesbounce · 04/05/2024 18:59

So your friend has an -Only Fans page where she wants people to pay to perv at her.
And when they do - she worries they are a perv ??

She is 22- what's the concern sorry I didn't read it all.

ImNotARegularMumImACoolMum · 04/05/2024 18:55

Report it to the school, it’s likely that they’ll have a very specific policy about following ex-students on social media, never mind that it’s an x-rated site!!

Mtlso · 04/05/2024 18:45

Before doing anything, I’d check with the ICO if you’d be breaking the law. Also ring your LA safeguarding team anonymously.

Newerversion · 04/05/2024 18:40

If he has registered his credit card to the school address then it will be a school credit card, I highly doubt even the most dim of people would do that! This seems a little far fetched to me.

Johnthesensible · 04/05/2024 18:30

Are you serious. Pot calling the kettle black. Unbelievable.

RachyRoo24 · 04/05/2024 18:30

Still creepy I feel

PropertyManager · 04/05/2024 18:29

Candy999 · 04/05/2024 18:26

lol people going on about the OF girl like she’s a serial killer 🤣 by the sounds of how prude some of you seem I wouldn’t be surprised if their was a lot of MN husbands on there.

In all seriousness he hasn’t done anything illegal and I am pretty sure their is probably some GDPR guidelines she should be more worried about by exposing him. Just put it down to him being a creep and forget about it.

Its not only fans now, OP has revised that, it's her own website and she models for page 3.

Candy999 · 04/05/2024 18:26

lol people going on about the OF girl like she’s a serial killer 🤣 by the sounds of how prude some of you seem I wouldn’t be surprised if their was a lot of MN husbands on there.

In all seriousness he hasn’t done anything illegal and I am pretty sure their is probably some GDPR guidelines she should be more worried about by exposing him. Just put it down to him being a creep and forget about it.

PropertyManager · 04/05/2024 18:25

ScartlettSole · 04/05/2024 18:22

Maybe but even if he was on site at a boarding school surely he'd have a home address for his bank? Im just no buying this story at all

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Yep, it is drifting into the realms of fiction, and the facts are changing - and as far as I'm aware (occasionally buying red top paper) the page 3 thing was put to bed years ago now.

ScartlettSole · 04/05/2024 18:22

PropertyManager · 04/05/2024 18:20

Unless its email address rather than postal - postal would make no sense unless its a boarding school and he lives there...

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Maybe but even if he was on site at a boarding school surely he'd have a home address for his bank? Im just no buying this story at all

PropertyManager · 04/05/2024 18:20

ScartlettSole · 04/05/2024 18:05

Just read the updates (see all doesnt work on my phone 😕)
Im not really believing this post. I seriously doubt hes used the school as his billing address, surely the card he used would throw up the postcode being incorrect?

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Unless its email address rather than postal - postal would make no sense unless its a boarding school and he lives there...

berksandbeyond · 04/05/2024 18:09

I’m not sure that someone on only fans gets to take a moral highground tbh.
Maybe a wake up call that there will be all sorts of creeps wanking over her, could be a future interviewer, could be her dads mates, that’s the risk you take

PonyPatter44 · 04/05/2024 18:07

Load of tosh. Page 3 doesn't exist any more. No way on God's green earth did someone register using a school address. It's either completely made-up or someone is trying to get the creepy teacher in trouble.

ScartlettSole · 04/05/2024 18:05

WhatIfHesWrittenMine · 04/05/2024 18:00

OP has updated to confirm it's not OF and that the woman is using her real name

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Just read the updates (see all doesnt work on my phone 😕)
Im not really believing this post. I seriously doubt hes used the school as his billing address, surely the card he used would throw up the postcode being incorrect?

Doubledenim305 · 04/05/2024 18:02

Gross she's selling her body.
Gross he's buying it.
He's a teacher and in charge of young people. Definitely report for information only.

WhatIfHesWrittenMine · 04/05/2024 18:00

ScartlettSole · 04/05/2024 17:58

I doubt hes saught her out as most only fans use stage names.

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OP has updated to confirm it's not OF and that the woman is using her real name

ScartlettSole · 04/05/2024 17:58

WhatIfHesWrittenMine · 03/05/2024 06:06

Teachers are not allowed to seek out former pupils online. The problem is with him, not her.

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I doubt hes saught her out as most only fans use stage names.

busymomtoone · 04/05/2024 17:57

Your friend is 22 and hopes / presumably does make money from “ Only fans”. Does she imagine the people ogling her are all under30, handsome and successful?! It’s yucky that it’s a former teacher of hers - but possibly he didn’t know before signing up. Either way she takes the money and takes her chances - presumably she could block him if she wishes. It’s legal for her to be on there and legal for him to view - morality and dignity evidently don’t come into it ( on either side)

WhatIfHesWrittenMine · 04/05/2024 17:53

Hateam · 04/05/2024 17:48

I don't believe that content creators on OF get to see their subscribers' addresses.

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Apparently it isn't OF, but a website with a payment portal. If it's something like Patreon, the creator sees the address.

Hateam · 04/05/2024 17:49

hb83 · 04/05/2024 17:43

I wonder if he has a wife? Perhaps a more creative justice would be more effective? 🙂

I wonder if she had a husband.

Hateam · 04/05/2024 17:48

I don't believe that content creators on OF get to see their subscribers' addresses.

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