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To believe that my cat is trying to tell me something bad?

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WhatTheHellIsGoingOnnn · 02/05/2024 22:55

My cat has been acting up tonight, she's usually a very quiet kitty and will please herself and most of the time we don't k ow she's here! Tonight she had been meowing non stop, crying and yelling, obviously I've tended to her needs and I can't think of a reason she would be acting like this, shes also being very clingy and won't leave my side either..I've fallen down a Google rabbit hole and I already have make anxiety and OCD amongst other mental health issues. Google has just come up with the delight of cats can sense impending death, heart attacks and cancers and when they sense someone is going to die they will be unsettled and clingy. So now my intrusive brain is worrying that I'm going to die, scared to go to sleep because what is my cat trying to tell me? Deep down I know I'm being totally insane. But is there any truth to googles aims and how likely is it? Currently about to have a breakdown and commit myself to the nearest loony bin. Clearly it's where i belong.

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AvocadoOodie · 03/05/2024 06:38

Eyesopenwideawake · 02/05/2024 23:29

It’s not always about you 🙄

This.

You're up googling because you're convinced she's trying top tell you something about your health (eg cancer) when, in fact, it's most likely that it's because you have neglected her health regarding something that is very likely to give her cancer.

I don't know about cats but I have rabbits and they are almost guaranteed to get uterine cancer if they're not spayed and they haven't had a litter.

On top of that, you keep her locked indoors thereby preventing her from exercising any of her natural instincts.

I'd imagine she's thoroughly miserable.

Forhecksake · 03/05/2024 06:27

I know you say she doesn't go outdoors, but all bets are off when an animal is in season. They become Houdini, so keep 2 doors between her and outside at all times to be safe.

wherearemywellingtons · 03/05/2024 05:37

Omg you’re exactly the same as me. I’d totally worry the same thing. I also have OCD and massive health anxiety. I always worry there’s going to be a natural disaster when I hear several dogs barking at the same time as I heard they can sense them 😂

mapleriver · 03/05/2024 05:32

Unlikely it will happen but please make sure to get your cat spayed, I've been looking after my deceased's mother's unspayed cat and put off getting her spayed, she was crying and acting strangely like yours when she's normally a quiet cat and I just had her in for an emergency pyometra spay

bradpittsbathwater · 03/05/2024 03:36

Keeping a cat indoors is cruel. Get her spayed for gods sake and let her outside.

SnackAttacks · 03/05/2024 03:29

It's not likely to be you.

I know someone who volunteers for a cat charity and they said they'd often try to give advice to people who's cats went missing and they'd never know why. The reason was usually that they were in heat and they'd always find a way of getting out, despite being "indoor cats". Around this time is absolutely when they will act up and potentially slip out when you go out or they'll go out of a window.

I had a male cat who slipped out and went missing just before he was due to be neutered so I know it happens.

The other option would be illness.

YankSplaining · 03/05/2024 03:04

In heat, or else reacting to the smell of some unusual animal outside the house. But probably in heat.

EmilyTjP · 03/05/2024 01:52

Another one to say she needs to be spayed. She’s in heat. Do it asap, it’s in her best interests.

Toddlerteaplease · 03/05/2024 00:56

My cat was also a rescue and unwell when. I got her. She was spayed within 2 weeks of adoption. Your excuse is rubbish. She's nine months old. She will escape.

Toddlerteaplease · 03/05/2024 00:53

She's in heat. She needs spaying asap

passtheajax · 03/05/2024 00:52

Mine were neutered at four months old. Get her done.

And try to look at things from her point of view and how she's expressing her needs as opposed to interpreting her behaviour as an indicator of your health or whatever. Animals can't talk and rely on their owners to detect any health problems they may be experiencing.

LouH1981 · 03/05/2024 00:39

A ghost maybe?!
Marginally better than your own demise.

Seriously though - this is the type of rabbit hole I would fall down and you have my sympathy because it is hard to control so my advice would be to remember most things feel 100% worse at this time of night. Try to distract your mind.

I’m not a cat owner so I can’t give you a sensible answer but I hope you are both ok and definitely get her checked over tomorrow if she still isn’t herself xx

BirthdayRainbow · 02/05/2024 23:35

And watch out for male cats getting in...

TimeInBlue · 02/05/2024 23:35

WhatTheHellIsGoingOnnn · 02/05/2024 23:07

No she doesn't go outside, and never had been, she's a house cat, even if a door has been left open by accident she won't venture outside.

She will now!! She will be desperate to get out so watch very carefully if you open any window/doors because she will become like liquid and escape the smallest gap.

LtJudyHopps · 02/05/2024 23:32

I don’t know where you are but where I am we have thunder and lightening. It could be something as simple as that unsettling her.

Eyesopenwideawake · 02/05/2024 23:29

It’s not always about you 🙄

TimeInBlue · 02/05/2024 23:27

we was told to book her in before 1 years old so we took that as anytime before she's 1

Who told you that? She could have had a couple of litters in that time 😬

Bigcat25 · 02/05/2024 23:22

The vet should also look at her mouth incase she has a painful dental issue. Unlikely at her age, but possible. My cat had has a sore mouth we didn't pick up till his yearly check up. Felt bad, he had already had teeth removed a yr earlier so wasn't expecting it again so soon.

OlderGlaswegianLivingInDevon · 02/05/2024 23:15

You've had your answer, now get her to the vet asap and find out how soon they can neuter her !
She could have and probably should have been done ages ago.

WhatTheHellIsGoingOnnn · 02/05/2024 23:15

Fagled · 02/05/2024 23:11

Every time a female cat goes through heat their chance of developing certain types of cancer increase.

If this is indeed her first, you’ve missed the chance to have her spayed early and potentially entirely eliminate her chances of developing various cancers.

Its imperative cat owners get female cats spayed early.

Edited

Yes I understand that, it's not an excuse but she was a rescue kitten and very unwell when we got her. She came from a really bad house where they weren't looked after, she had her de flead and de wormed and some vaccines I Believe before we got her and we was told to book her in before 1 years old so we took that as anytime before she's 1 hence we didn't realise it was a hurry to take her but I'll call the vet tomorrow.

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LadyGreySpillsTheTea · 02/05/2024 23:13

It’s overwhelmingly probable that she’s on heat and feeling really uncomfortable from it, poor girl. Could you make an appointment to get her spayed as soon as possible? Otherwise she will most certainly get out at some stage and either come back up the duff or get lost while looking for male company. And younger female cats also recover from spays quicker than older adults.

Fagled · 02/05/2024 23:11

Every time a female cat goes through heat their chance of developing certain types of cancer increase.

If this is indeed her first, you’ve missed the chance to have her spayed early and potentially entirely eliminate her chances of developing various cancers.

Its imperative cat owners get female cats spayed early.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 02/05/2024 23:10

WhatTheHellIsGoingOnnn · 02/05/2024 23:00

No she hadn't been yet, she's around 9 months old

It's nothing to do with you, she just wants to go out and get knocked up.

So calm down and book the vet in the morning.

TwattyMcFuckFace · 02/05/2024 23:09

WhatTheHellIsGoingOnnn · 02/05/2024 23:07

No she doesn't go outside, and never had been, she's a house cat, even if a door has been left open by accident she won't venture outside.

She's 9 months old, very probably in heat.

She'll be dashing out open doors and windows pretty soon.

AlexandraPeppernose · 02/05/2024 23:08

Worms