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AIBU to hope that able bodied people will support disabled people against the tory attack on PIP?

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Blackcats7 · 02/05/2024 10:13

I have just been reading posts from many terrified disabled people on a facebook group I belong to.
People are afraid for their lives after the government's recent announcement to stop huge numbers of people with mental health issues qualifying for PIP anymore.
This attempt to scapegoat disabled people has a long history in the tory party and is popular with their traditional core but the attack on PIP is a new low.
Even those claiming PIP for other reasons think they will be the next target and that the tory aim is to pretty much eradicate any support for us with the half hearted usual disguise of "concentrating help on those who need it most" when they know they can't get away with saying what they actually are doing.
Disabled people have votes too (being housebound I thank goodness for postal votes) and I think this current tactic will have a big influence on how those votes are used but my question is how many able bodied people will take this attack on us into account when it comes to the election?
Should this nightmare come to pass there will be blood on government hands because I have no doubt people will die bearing in mind the targets are people with mental health problems and the tory propaganda that they are removing a right to benefit from those who feel a little bit depressed and anxious about life as most people will at some point or another is utter nonsense. Claiming PIP is extremely hard and requires a very high bar to succeed, especially for mental health. Popping to your gp for some anti depressants would not cut it.
So we need your support.
YABU we aren't that bothered or think the govenment is quite right to stop you scrounging bastards
YANBU this is disgusting ableism and we have your back

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KateMiskin · 04/05/2024 12:10

Am hoping Labour will at least not waste money on things like the Rwanda scheme. But they are still going to be scrabbling for money.

LiquoriceAllsort2 · 04/05/2024 09:28

LakieLady · 03/05/2024 12:01

The wait for EMDR for PTSD in my county appears to be in the region of 3 years, if not more. The wait for counselling is over 3 years. The wait for an autism assessment for adults is now over 2.5 years (god knows what it is for children, friend's son waited 6.5 years). There doesn't appear to be any CBT going on anywhere.

Meanwhile, funding for projects that support people with MH problems in the community has been cut to the point that the support they deliver no longer meets people's needs. The mental health drop ins are no longer drop ins, membership is now time limited and you have to commit to doing particular activities, so people are becoming more isolated and have a lot less contact with MH professionals.

Expecting people to get back to work, or to manage on less money, while simultaneously removing one of the things that helped their mental health to improve is beyond cruel.

All this cutting might indicate that we are a little low on money as a country, 100 Billion a year deficit after we have cut these things

It doesn't matter if labour gets in or we continue the Tories wait to see what happens in the next few years.

For the people that say " oh but we can send 5 billion to Ukraine etc ". Like most western governments if they are all willing to do this with all the intelligence that countries use I would say the threat is real so spent it on national security or cutting PIP will be least if our worries.

Zodfa · 03/05/2024 18:38

Nothing I have seen about the PIP assessment process suggests it is easy to game the system. Quite the opposite.

I would turn the whole thing over to doctors but doubtless people would find a reason to complain about that ... because it would probably make numbers of people getting go up, not down.

Were old people happier in the past? Well, one of my grandmothers checked herself into a mental asylum and a grandfather developed a drink problem after the death of his wife of over 50 years, during which he had rarely even spoken of his experiences fighting in the war ...

Overthebow · 03/05/2024 15:47

LadyKenya · 03/05/2024 15:44

Overthebow · Yesterday 15:34

I support Pip getting an overhaul, it’s not fit for purpose and we cant afford to pay for everything for everyone. The limited money we have needs to be targeted at those who genuinely can’t work even part time, and enable them to have a decent standard of living, and not giving money to those who could work and help them in to work instead for example widening the access to work scheme.

Well yes, maybe you might change your mind again.

I stand by what I said, I don’t think I or others like me should be able to get pip, I think those that genuinely can’t work because they’re severely disabled should get the money focused on them. We need to protect those who can’t work, and help those that could do something into work. But I don’t think a households in £100k+ need pip.

LadyKenya · 03/05/2024 15:44

Overthebow · 03/05/2024 15:34

I know, but it feels really wrong when our household income is £110k. We already get child benefit, it feels wrong to get this too. I’ll think about it once we see what the elected party does with it.

Overthebow · Yesterday 15:34

I support Pip getting an overhaul, it’s not fit for purpose and we cant afford to pay for everything for everyone. The limited money we have needs to be targeted at those who genuinely can’t work even part time, and enable them to have a decent standard of living, and not giving money to those who could work and help them in to work instead for example widening the access to work scheme.

Well yes, maybe you might change your mind again.

Overthebow · 03/05/2024 15:34

LadyKenya · 03/05/2024 15:31

Well, it is up to you if you wish to apply for it, or not. Whether you work, or not has no bearing on it. There have been lots of posters explaining that fact.

I know, but it feels really wrong when our household income is £110k. We already get child benefit, it feels wrong to get this too. I’ll think about it once we see what the elected party does with it.

CrocusSnowdrop · 03/05/2024 15:32

If you don't need it it's not worth the stress of applying. Long form detailing all the basic life things you can't do in humiliating detail, gathering together copies of all your supporting evidence from your doctors, sending it all off before the deadline (which is always shorter than it's supposed to be because DWP letters take weeks to appear). Then an assessment with someone asking leading questions trying to catch you out. Then probably a letter telling you you don't qualify on spurious grounds. Then a mandatory reconsideration request to write. Then another letter back telling you they haven't changed their mind. Then an appeal, and maybe even a tribunal.

To be clear though, I wasn't saying that everyone with regular medical appointments should get PIP; it was an example of how it might be used by someone like me who has increased travel costs to get to said appointments, as well as more appointments than the norm (in that it's not just one GP appointment every few years that I'm talking about needing money for)

LadyKenya · 03/05/2024 15:31

Overthebow · 03/05/2024 15:25

No, but starting to think I should. In addition to these conditions I also have diagnosed depression and anxiety which require more appointments and treatment. I don’t need it though, I work and earn a decent salary, we don’t need the extra money.

Well, it is up to you if you wish to apply for it, or not. Whether you work, or not has no bearing on it. There have been lots of posters explaining that fact.

Overthebow · 03/05/2024 15:26

LadyKenya · 03/05/2024 15:13

Have you applied for it?

Meant to quote this!

Overthebow · 03/05/2024 15:25

CrocusSnowdrop · 03/05/2024 15:09

You're not "most people".
You also haven't said that you can't walk or drive to get to said appointments

No, but starting to think I should. In addition to these conditions I also have diagnosed depression and anxiety which require more appointments and treatment. I don’t need it though, I work and earn a decent salary, we don’t need the extra money.

LadyKenya · 03/05/2024 15:13

Overthebow · 03/05/2024 15:07

I have regular doctors and hospital appointments for 3 different conditions. I don’t get PIP.

Have you applied for it?

CrocusSnowdrop · 03/05/2024 15:09

Overthebow · 03/05/2024 15:07

I have regular doctors and hospital appointments for 3 different conditions. I don’t get PIP.

You're not "most people".
You also haven't said that you can't walk or drive to get to said appointments

Overthebow · 03/05/2024 15:07

I have regular doctors and hospital appointments for 3 different conditions. I don’t get PIP.

LadyKenya · 03/05/2024 15:02

They did cope. They got on with things. If they’d all given in to their negative feelings then there wouldn’t have been a workforce and the country would’ve been anarchy. Thank god they had more resilience. We can’t just be a big life support system for the mentally unwell. We all have lives to lead.

Just don't give in to your negative feelings, and acquire some more resilience from somewhere, or other. Who knew that it could be so easy. This information could save the Country ££££, if only people took it on boardHmm

CrocusSnowdrop · 03/05/2024 14:22

And with your launderette example. Launderettes are indeed more expensive and more faff than having your own washing machine. My laundry facility at the moment is a launderette. Except I can't get to it, or carry my laundry to it, or lift it in and out of the machine. So I pay for a laundry service. Hence PIP.

CrocusSnowdrop · 03/05/2024 14:18

And disabled people have lives to lead too, thank you very much.

CrocusSnowdrop · 03/05/2024 14:17

Welovecrumpets · 03/05/2024 13:15

When did I say I was talking about under 25s? Confused

You said "most people have to pay to travel to regular or routine hospital appointments". You didn't exclude the under 25s in that. I was pointing out that while more older people may have regular hospital appointments, very few younger people do.
And again, I can't drive or reliably use public transport. First is illegal for me, second is inaccessible. So not only do I spend way more time than anyone else my age (and probably within 50 years of me) at the hospital, I also have to pay premium rates to get there in a taxi. That's the point of why I spend my PIP on it, and why I need PIP.

Welovecrumpets · 03/05/2024 13:17

Mrsjayy · 03/05/2024 12:48

Don't be obtuse of course they didn't cope. Older ex service men were told they had to be "proud" and "brave" any trauma they had was hidden . That doesn't equate to coping. I'm glad an we have a welfare state that is supposed to help and support people.

They did cope. They got on with things. If they’d all given in to their negative feelings then there wouldn’t have been a workforce and the country would’ve been anarchy. Thank god they had more resilience. We can’t just be a big life support system for the mentally unwell. We all have lives to lead.

Welovecrumpets · 03/05/2024 13:15

CrocusSnowdrop · 03/05/2024 13:05

I'm under 25. I'm absolutely sure that most of my peers aren't attending regular hospital appointments. Demographics, the fact that I'm usually the youngest person in the waiting room by quite some way, and common sense tell you that.

When did I say I was talking about under 25s? Confused

Welovecrumpets · 03/05/2024 13:15

thepastinsidethepresent · 03/05/2024 13:08

They did cope. How many elderly people did you know growing up who were shaking anxious wrecks? I didn’t know any. Trying to make out everything was probably hidden because you didn’t see it makes no sense. They were just tougher people, less introspective and not encouraged to lie in bed and dwell on feelings. With children and no generous welfare state, people were incredibly resilient.

Except that some of the ones who couldn't cope committed suicide. Not exactly a preferable option.

It’s impossible for either of us to say. What I do know is that the elderly people I knew growing up, including my own grandparents, were some of the most well balanced and resilient people I’ve come across. You can try to spin a narrative here but the fact is the country cannot just be a life support system for those with mental illness, people don’t want to work just to pay taxes to support everyone apart from themselves.

thepastinsidethepresent · 03/05/2024 13:08

They did cope. How many elderly people did you know growing up who were shaking anxious wrecks? I didn’t know any. Trying to make out everything was probably hidden because you didn’t see it makes no sense. They were just tougher people, less introspective and not encouraged to lie in bed and dwell on feelings. With children and no generous welfare state, people were incredibly resilient.

Except that some of the ones who couldn't cope committed suicide. Not exactly a preferable option.

CrocusSnowdrop · 03/05/2024 13:05

Welovecrumpets · 03/05/2024 12:40

It might not be their choice. Their spouse might have moved ages away with their children so to collect them means a 6 hour round trip and £££ on fuel every weekend (I know a few in this position). They may have to use a launderette because they live in a tiny flat and have no space to dry laundry without causing damp (also know somebody in this position). And most people have to pay to travel to regular or routine hospital appointments (I do).

I'm under 25. I'm absolutely sure that most of my peers aren't attending regular hospital appointments. Demographics, the fact that I'm usually the youngest person in the waiting room by quite some way, and common sense tell you that.

Mrsjayy · 03/05/2024 12:48

Welovecrumpets · 03/05/2024 12:43

They did cope. How many elderly people did you know growing up who were shaking anxious wrecks? I didn’t know any. Trying to make out everything was probably hidden because you didn’t see it makes no sense. They were just tougher people, less introspective and not encouraged to lie in bed and dwell on feelings. With children and no generous welfare state, people were incredibly resilient.

Don't be obtuse of course they didn't cope. Older ex service men were told they had to be "proud" and "brave" any trauma they had was hidden . That doesn't equate to coping. I'm glad an we have a welfare state that is supposed to help and support people.

TigerRag · 03/05/2024 12:47

Welovecrumpets · 03/05/2024 12:40

It might not be their choice. Their spouse might have moved ages away with their children so to collect them means a 6 hour round trip and £££ on fuel every weekend (I know a few in this position). They may have to use a launderette because they live in a tiny flat and have no space to dry laundry without causing damp (also know somebody in this position). And most people have to pay to travel to regular or routine hospital appointments (I do).

Most people don't have regular hospital appointments. I know very few who do. And those that do have long-term health issues

Welovecrumpets · 03/05/2024 12:43

Mrsjayy · 03/05/2024 12:36

Exactly they didn't cope but they were more than likely shamed or it was brushed under the carpet as oh that's just your father's "way" ! I don't think we need to rush back to that.

They did cope. How many elderly people did you know growing up who were shaking anxious wrecks? I didn’t know any. Trying to make out everything was probably hidden because you didn’t see it makes no sense. They were just tougher people, less introspective and not encouraged to lie in bed and dwell on feelings. With children and no generous welfare state, people were incredibly resilient.