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Selfridges refusing to refund £875 shoes- help!

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Shoedisastor · 01/05/2024 11:14

I ordered a pair of Louboutins on selfridges online to wear for my wedding day. This is the second pair I’ve ordered online. The first were from flannels. Ordered them tried them on, on carpet, way too big in size so I sent them back and they refunded me a couple of days later. They didn’t have the size down in stock but Selfridges did so I ordered from there. They came I tried them on, again on carpet and didn’t love them on me so took them back to the Selfridges store. The staff were really helpful and suggested I try them on in a different colour and I loved them and asked to exchange mine. They said since my shoes were an online purchase they need to go back online. Since it was only 2 weeks till my wedding I bought the new pair in store (as the tailors need me to be wearing my shoes for the final fit of my suit) and I repackaged my shoes and sent them back to Selfridges. A few days later they’ve contacted me to say they’ve rejected my return as the shoes are damaged (red sole). Ive emailed back (and called) and explained that I only tried my shoes on carpet and sent them straight back! I packaged them up in their original packaging, dust bags and packing intact exactly as they arrived to me. As I did with the first pair I returned. They were pristine when they left me. Am I going to have no choice but to accept these shoes back? (That I won’t wear and don’t suit me)

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Rosscameasdoody · 01/05/2024 23:29

Treaclescourer · 01/05/2024 11:41

This isn’t true

They only have to accept returns if faulty

The onus is on the OP to return in pristine condition

This is wrong. If they sold them online or through mail order they have to abide by distance selling rules which state that your right to cancel an order starts from the moment you place your order, and doesn’t end until seven working days from the day after you receive your goods. And if the goods were not received in pristine condition they can’t be returned as such so the onus is on the retailer to prove the customer damaged them.

Grimchmas · 01/05/2024 23:17

I know I'm missing the point entirely but why do CL make shoes with soles that are so fragile? Is it part of showing off wealth if your louboutin soles are still red? Is it the other way around and visible wear is a desirable thing?

Genuine questions as this is waaaay outside of my experience.

GoldenTrout · 01/05/2024 23:14

exomoon · 01/05/2024 21:21

But the shoes obviously haven’t been worn outside. So the shop needs to prove what their issue is.

OP's own photos provide the proof, you can see the damage. It's completely irrelevant whether it happened indoors or outside.

StormingNorman · 01/05/2024 23:13

WalkingaroundJardine · 01/05/2024 21:56

She bought another pair in the correct size in store. Very odd thing for someone who caused the damage themselves but didn’t want them anymore to do.

It’s also very strange that the Selfridges shoes don’t have the warning sticker on them like the ones directly purchases from the maker. Concerning in fact.

Did you mean to reply to me? Your reply doesn’t have anything to do with what I wrote.

weeks112 · 01/05/2024 22:55

did you send them back within 14 days, if you did you have protection and are allowed to test the item as you would if you bought the item in store, check out dsr now cc regulations, if you sent them back past 14 days then its a different matter gov.uk and also solicitors

Accepting returns and giving refunds: the law

When you do and do not have to offer a refund, repair or replacement, unconditional refunds for online purchases, and penalties for deceiving customers

https://www.gov.uk/accepting-returns-and-giving-refunds#:~:text=Sales%20of%20this%20kind%20are,of%20receiving%20the%20goods%20back.

Shoedisastor · 01/05/2024 22:39

Newposter180 · 01/05/2024 22:20

Selfridges did this exact same thing to me with a pair of Louboutins. Similarly tried on, on carpet, for all of 5 minutes before I decided they were too big. I tried to fight it (I am actually a lawyer!) but they sent them back and my MIL signed for the parcel otherwise I would have probably rejected it and returned to sender.

Crikey 😩

this my concern that they will try and send them back.

Im just hoping I can properly speak to someone in customers services tomorrow- will continue to chase!

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MuchasSmoochas · 01/05/2024 22:30

I ordered a dress from Selfridges last week. It arrived in a crumpled mess. Tried it on and it was so creased, looked like a sack. Sent it back same day, refunded 2 days later. Actually thinking I was lucky, it did look pre worn and they could have blamed me. This is making me think again re Selfridges. Hope they see this thread and things work out for you OP. Is there any way you can refuse delivery?

StarlightLime · 01/05/2024 22:28

Clafoutie · 01/05/2024 22:26

I’m really not sure that is true?

It's not. It's nonsense.

Clafoutie · 01/05/2024 22:26

eise · 01/05/2024 22:16

Paypal will ALWAYS give you back your money.

I’m really not sure that is true?

bloodyplumbing · 01/05/2024 22:24

Newposter180 · 01/05/2024 22:20

Selfridges did this exact same thing to me with a pair of Louboutins. Similarly tried on, on carpet, for all of 5 minutes before I decided they were too big. I tried to fight it (I am actually a lawyer!) but they sent them back and my MIL signed for the parcel otherwise I would have probably rejected it and returned to sender.

I'm having a similar thing where than company, can't link post I've just made.

Why didn't you go to small claims court, may I ask?

BPquestion · 01/05/2024 22:22

Of course the most galling thing is that the staff were wrong. Online Selfridges purchases can be returned and refunded in store!

StarlightLime · 01/05/2024 22:20

eise · 01/05/2024 22:16

Paypal will ALWAYS give you back your money.

Based on what, exactly?

Newposter180 · 01/05/2024 22:20

Selfridges did this exact same thing to me with a pair of Louboutins. Similarly tried on, on carpet, for all of 5 minutes before I decided they were too big. I tried to fight it (I am actually a lawyer!) but they sent them back and my MIL signed for the parcel otherwise I would have probably rejected it and returned to sender.

chaticat · 01/05/2024 22:19

exomoon · 01/05/2024 21:43

But they’e not damaged, so the shop needs to prove what is wrong with them that a non discerning party can’t see.

They are. They aren't "Box fresh" you can see the marks. They can't resell them like that at full price. They shouldn't have sold them to OP like that either. But there's no point trying to argue they aren't damaged.

eise · 01/05/2024 22:16

Shoedisastor · 01/05/2024 11:36

I bought them with PayPal

Paypal will ALWAYS give you back your money.

Helen1625 · 01/05/2024 22:10

Sorry if this has already been stated (I haven't read every single reply) but on their website it says the warning sticker must still be attached to the sole. Do these shoes have a warning sticker on?

I definitely wouldn't let this go without a fight. Paypal dispute, credit card dispute, letter to Head Office, I'd be kicking up a fuss.

For that kind of money, they should be perfect and if you haven't damaged them then they must have been faulty when they were sent. You have followed all instructions (tried on on a carpet) and if that advice has resulted in the sole getting marked, then that's surely on them?

Good luck, let us know how you get on. I'd be so cross if I were accused of something like this, it sounds to me like a tactic to get out of refunding you!

nothingsforgotten · 01/05/2024 22:08

I think it's shocking that they won't refund your money. If the soles are so delicate that wearing them on carpet damages them then they shouldn't be selling them online - and how do they get on when people try them on instore?

If they really won't budge I would sell the shoes, you should get a good price so won't have to suck up a huge loss. I would also be contacting Selfridges and telling them how disappointed you are in their customer service, and that you will be telling everyone you know about it (you already have told a lot of people, and it would certainly put me off buying anything from them), and I would also be posting bad reviews wherever I could.

ChanelMum · 01/05/2024 21:58

Wow this thread is really eye opening about Selfridges! I’ve shopped with them for years. I’ve never had any issues at all but it sounds like I’ve been very lucky.
I generally prefer Harrods now because of the reward points. Although Harrods are not without fault either!

WalkingaroundJardine · 01/05/2024 21:56

StormingNorman · 01/05/2024 20:32

How does she prove she received them marked though? She said she didn’t check the soles as she was more concerned with fit. No check = no photos

She bought another pair in the correct size in store. Very odd thing for someone who caused the damage themselves but didn’t want them anymore to do.

It’s also very strange that the Selfridges shoes don’t have the warning sticker on them like the ones directly purchases from the maker. Concerning in fact.

Mirabai · 01/05/2024 21:55

It’s eye opening about Selfridges - speaks volumes about their business values.

I’ve bought from Netaporter and Matches online and never had this problem.

Iregretitall · 01/05/2024 21:53

So glad I don't shop with them and hope this thread goes viral

Muthaofcats · 01/05/2024 21:50

I can’t actually see the issue in the photos? They definitely don’t look worn?

I found selfridges to be really tricky and crap customer services too - I ordered an expensive package of clothing which was shown as delivered but nowhere to be seen.

I called and queried it and they told me it was for me to raise a dispute with the courier rather than them (not legally true). I did and the courier rang me to say it had been delivered and couldn’t say more. I rang selfridges again and again they said until I’d raised a formal dispute with the courier company they would do nothing.

eventually I found the package (left in a bin!) which I did not consent to so didn’t need to pursue.

But selfridges total lack of regard for the law (the responsibility remains with them until delivered unless you opt for delivery to a ‘safe place’ which I hadn’t) and refusal to help me really put me off ever ordering from them again.

ArchesOfsunflowers · 01/05/2024 21:47

Tbh after this thread I really think they will be selling less of these!

MsMuffinWalloper · 01/05/2024 21:45

whistleblower99 · 01/05/2024 21:38

This seems to be a common thing for Selfridges - reading this thread? Maybe this needs looking at as it’s avoiding consumer rights obligations. I wouldn’t order anything from there now!

I had similar with a lost mobile of mine somewhere very public - they were trying to tell me it wasn't there when I could see it was on locate my device. Someone in their lost property dept then tried to get me to send the PAC code, presumably so they could sell it on! I complained to their HO as someone was clearly doing this with purpose. I got it back 2 days later.

I guess it must be tempting if expensive things are sent to you daily to try your luck? Horrible to have to prove and fight for it though.

exomoon · 01/05/2024 21:43

chaticat · 01/05/2024 21:21

It's not about them being worn outside. It's about them being damaged

But they’e not damaged, so the shop needs to prove what is wrong with them that a non discerning party can’t see.

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