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To hate unrealisic Vinted sellers?

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Dealornoheel · 01/05/2024 08:53

Ok hate is a strong word but still

I am quite active on Vinted, with a toddler I am used to buying and selling a lot of items fairly frequently, I always price to sell, usually pitching items £1 or so less than the cheapest other listing of the same or similar item, I’ve never had an item listed for more than 48 hours.

Now DD is getting older and her size isn’t changing as much I’m now looking at nicer items to buy on the platform, and I’m just so surprised about how unrealistic some sellers are.

Example, I had a Ralph Lauren summer dress favourited for a while, it’s been listed for 17 months, I offered £3 less than asking and it’s been rejected. I am always tempted to message them asking if they understand the concept of an item only being worth what someone is willing to pay. Imagine having an item for sale for nearly a year and a half and not thinking to yourself ‘maybe it’s priced too high’

Then you have the people charging more than the item is even selling for new! And it’s not an antique or rare item, a pair of leggings etc.

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Mnetcurious · 01/05/2024 18:11

Yep! When I’ve made a fair offer (eg £17 for a £20 item) and they’ve rejected it but I can see there are plenty of others for sale and/or theirs has been listed forever I always roll my eyes. It’s easy to just press decline but if they send a pass-agg message such as “no way, it’s worth the money“ then I like to reply with an equally pass-agg but arguably polite “ok, good luck!“

FiloPasty · 01/05/2024 18:02

I take offers on most things but some of the kids clothes I’m so attached to, I know they need to go but I can be odd about the price, probably lots of other people a bit over attached.

lidolemon · 01/05/2024 18:02

I've found that when I've accepted offers from buyers, 90% of them don't see it through and I never hear from them again. That has put me off accepting offers and most of the time I now don't I think a Vinted offer should be binding, like ebay.

Ticktapticktap · 01/05/2024 17:59

Yabu. I've had stuff listed for sale for 6 months and then sell for the price I set. Some people aren't in a rush to sell

AgathaMystery · 01/05/2024 17:57

Totally agree.

There is a dress I fancy online. It’s £70 in the sale- BNWT obviously. Vinted seller wants £80, it’s worn and has a rip.

LOLZ

Freakinfraser · 01/05/2024 17:55

I just don’t see the issue, if they dint want to sell it for the price you want to buy it. So? You don’t own vinted, it’s not doing you any harm it being in there, just move on.

DisappearingGirl · 01/05/2024 17:51

I think my issue is time. So I might put a few kids clothes up for £2 or £3 each. Happy for people to buy them or not. But I don't have time to be messaging back and forth. It's not that I begrudge them the 50p off or whatever, I just don't want to be constantly messaging on the app! Also if multiple people make offers you've got to respond to them all individually. I can't be arsed for the sake of £2.

I realise this goes against how a lot of people use Vinted though i.e. they like to feel they've got some money off.

CrispieCake · 01/05/2024 17:45

Think about it from the seller's perspective. If I'm being offered less than £3 for something, I really can't be arsed to:

  • Locate it in the bags/boxes of stuff I have to get rid of.
  • Print the label and package it.
  • Make a trip to the corner shop just to send that item.

I do accept offers for less on stuff but it tends to be when the buyer wants to buy a bundle or when I've sold some other stuff that I have to find and package as well, so it's not going to be any extra effort to send something else as well.

But if it's just one item and a few pounds, then it's not really worth the time.

Ek1234 · 01/05/2024 16:59

I price my items at what I'm happy for them to go for. If I get a reasonable offer then sometimes I will accept, however if I don't want to accept an offer I don't see the problem, they're my items to do with what I want. For me it's a lot of effort to walk to the library to print off a label to then go to the parcel shop for one or two pounds. If my items don't sell, they go to charity shops.

wintersgold · 01/05/2024 16:10

But maybe they're not desperate to sell. They might be happy to let it sit there for however long until either they give in and lower the price, or someone's willing to pay it. It's entirely their business and I don't understand why you're upset about it

CuttingMeOpenthenHealingMeFine · 01/05/2024 16:09

Fredthefrog · 01/05/2024 14:19

I think people love to feel they've got a bargain. I'm selling kids clothes and would rather charity shop or recycle then quibble over 50p on £2 top so I've decided not to take offers but happy for bundles. It's too much of a faff for me.

Same.

Im just trying to clear out my kids clothes that don’t fit, I price cheap anyway because I want quick sales and will do bundles but because I price so cheaply I don’t generally do offers unless something has hung about for a while. I wouldn’t personally have stuff hang about more than a few weeks because it would annoy me.

Decafflatteplease · 01/05/2024 16:01

I sell lots on vinted, I have a "vinted bag" under DC bed. I usually accept offers as I'm just happy to get stuff out the house and the locker is just round the corner so it's worth it even for £1 as all those £1 adds up!

usernother · 01/05/2024 15:44

I won't sell if a buyer offers me a really low amount because by the time I've packaged it, travelled to the nearest in post locker only to find it's full, then have to drive to the next one, it's not worth my bother. I'd rather stick it in a charity bag and put it outside my front door.

BrightYellowDaffodil · 01/05/2024 15:43

I get annoyed by buyers who just seem to want to knock £1 as a point of principle. Either buy it or don’t, it’s not a game to “win”.

The most annoying one is people who offer (a fair offer) which I accept and then they want to revise their offer down further. Nope.

Like others, I list items then leave them in the cupboard. If they sell I pop them in a bag and drop them off at the Inpost locker near work. Otherwise, they go to the charity shop. Not everyone is desperate to sell - I don’t really care one way or the other, they’re just different forms of recycling.

fatphalange · 01/05/2024 15:33

I think it's fine. It's theirs they can valuate it as they wish. If it doesn't sell then obviously they aren't that fussed or need the money that badly that they lower the price to shift it.
I always get great bargains on Vinted, I only use it to buy not sell. I can't relate to being entitled to other people's things because I'd only want to part with such and such amount of money 🤷‍♀️

MrsPelligrinoPetrichor · 01/05/2024 15:32

There are 4 items I've asked measurements on , just the lengths, I will buy them as soon as they've got back to me but sellers rarely do and they're still for sale. Odd

Also why the hell accept an offer then no communication and the time expires to send it?

Vastlyoverrated · 01/05/2024 15:26

Someone said, why is this annoying? I guess it's because you spend time on the site, evaluating different items, deciding if you want something, and if the person doesn't want to haggle or has a fixed offer in mind, it's a bit tiresome trying to bid and guess that information on a site set up for haggling (offers), but that's a limitation of Vinted, not the sellers as such.

Mrspatmoresspoon · 01/05/2024 15:24

Vinted does seem to attract a special kind of nutter - I once got some after sale negative feedback cos the buyer had slipped in the boots I’d sold her! I didn’t bloody manufacture them

Beezknees · 01/05/2024 15:23

I price items at what I want to get for them. I'm not desperate for the money so I don't care if they don't sell for a year! I'd be open to reasonable offers though but I wouldn't let a £100 item go for a tenner if it was in great condition.

Alwaysalwayscold · 01/05/2024 15:11

I do like be vinted but it's a test of patience at times.

I recently had someone buy an item (priced too cheap really but was having a clear out) and then text me the next day asking if she could cancel the order and re-buy it at a lower price. I accepted the cancellation and declined her new offer, also ignored her messages asking why I wasn't accepting them. It sold again and hour later.

Treaclescourer · 01/05/2024 14:59

Heatherbell1978 · 01/05/2024 14:56

I price to sell so just ignore a lot of offers as I know I'll get full price. I posted a brand new pair of Nike trainers for £40 which were £80 new online (genuine and long story as to why we had them). Immediately inundated with offers ranging from £10 to £25 and then a few hours later sold them at full price. Two of the cheaper offers messaged me after to basically say 'oh that's not fair they've gone as I wanted them and would have paid £40'. Erm okBiscuit

That’s different though, as the example given here is items clearly not priced to sell since they were still on the site after nearly a year and a bit

Heatherbell1978 · 01/05/2024 14:56

I price to sell so just ignore a lot of offers as I know I'll get full price. I posted a brand new pair of Nike trainers for £40 which were £80 new online (genuine and long story as to why we had them). Immediately inundated with offers ranging from £10 to £25 and then a few hours later sold them at full price. Two of the cheaper offers messaged me after to basically say 'oh that's not fair they've gone as I wanted them and would have paid £40'. Erm okBiscuit

tellmewhenthespaceshiplandscoz · 01/05/2024 14:56

supercalafragilisticexpealidocious · 01/05/2024 14:43

I honestly can't imagine being bothered to package the item, get it to the post office or drop off location and deal with the buyer for less than £1?!

This

OneInEight · 01/05/2024 14:55

More annoying is ebay buyers who make ridiculous offers that barely cover fees and postage costs. Depends whether your motivation is just to get rid or whether you want / need to make money.

Jazzjazzyjulez · 01/05/2024 14:51

the worst is when they send a bit that is lower than 40% off via message. Yeah no bother, I am going to sell this £60 cardigan for £25....

Someone offered me bids in increments of 10p for a pair of £5 jeans. needless to say i would rather give them away than accept any bid from some one that annoying.