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To hate unrealisic Vinted sellers?

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Dealornoheel · 01/05/2024 08:53

Ok hate is a strong word but still

I am quite active on Vinted, with a toddler I am used to buying and selling a lot of items fairly frequently, I always price to sell, usually pitching items £1 or so less than the cheapest other listing of the same or similar item, I’ve never had an item listed for more than 48 hours.

Now DD is getting older and her size isn’t changing as much I’m now looking at nicer items to buy on the platform, and I’m just so surprised about how unrealistic some sellers are.

Example, I had a Ralph Lauren summer dress favourited for a while, it’s been listed for 17 months, I offered £3 less than asking and it’s been rejected. I am always tempted to message them asking if they understand the concept of an item only being worth what someone is willing to pay. Imagine having an item for sale for nearly a year and a half and not thinking to yourself ‘maybe it’s priced too high’

Then you have the people charging more than the item is even selling for new! And it’s not an antique or rare item, a pair of leggings etc.

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ForestForever · 02/05/2024 10:30

I’ve never sold anything on Vinted but I do buy occasionally. I may be wrong but I get the impression that you can’t remove the make an offer function. People have the right to sell their items for the price they wish for. Just because you don’t want to pay it, it doesn’t mean that somewhere along the line someone else wouldn’t consider the price a bargain and buy it. If someone were after a quick sale and were bothered about it not selling immediately then they would accept your offer or lower it. It doesn’t make them “thick” as you so ungraciously like to put it because they rightfully don’t want to accept your lower offer. Maybe you’re not so blessed in the intelligence department yourself because you haven’t worked out what I’ve said for yourself already? I don’t know if it’s intentional, but you come across as entitled. The shoe on the other foot being is that if you really wanted that item enough, you’d pay the extra couple of pounds for it and if not, why are you so bothered by it?

JellyMarks · 02/05/2024 10:27

It annoys me when people send unrealistic offers when something is already priced reasonably, as well as items being priced obviously too high.

however it’s the sellers prerogative to ask for they want and hold out if they want to!

and I have a few things that are high-ish prices because of the sentimental value/quality would only sell them for the right price.

OneWiseBiscuit · 02/05/2024 10:22

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Moglet4 · 02/05/2024 10:10

Mnetcurious · 01/05/2024 18:11

Yep! When I’ve made a fair offer (eg £17 for a £20 item) and they’ve rejected it but I can see there are plenty of others for sale and/or theirs has been listed forever I always roll my eyes. It’s easy to just press decline but if they send a pass-agg message such as “no way, it’s worth the money“ then I like to reply with an equally pass-agg but arguably polite “ok, good luck!“

I also can’t stand the cheeky messages. Had one recently, pretty kid’s dress. I asked what the brand was. Seller replied that it was unbranded but came from a children’s boutique on TikTok. Er…so? I said thanks. There were very specific reasons why I wanted to know the brand. Would have been ok if she’d left it at that but no, she sent 2 messages over the next week telling me that it was a very good quality dress and then another one a few days later about when she could post it. Just irritated me and would put me off buying anything at all from her

Mnetcurious · 02/05/2024 09:28

fashionqueen1183 · 01/05/2024 21:27

What I find weird is people who are selling new items with tags which I can only guess as to where they are getting them from - maybe they work for the retailer etc but anyway one woman has a load of m&d bras. But with postage they’d be more than just going in the shop or online?! They’re priced so high. And you can even see the original price on the tags

I’ve sold BNWT tags items before, either I bought them in the end of season sale and then eg next summer they don’t fit or I just don’t like it anymore. Sometimes I’ve just missed the window to take back to the shop. It’s all legit!

But you do have to price a lot lower than the original price tag though - it’s still got to be significantly cheaper after fees and postage than it would be in the shop otherwise people will just buy from the shop where they can return if it doesn’t fit or if there is some other issue. Some people don’t seem to get this when they list BNWT tags items for only a small fraction cheaper than original price.

tellmewhenthespaceshiplandscoz · 02/05/2024 09:27

So you’d prefer 0 money than some Money?

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If its cost me more in terms of time to pack well then (I get excellent feedback on this on every sale, I do think many buyers value this) time to make the journey to the parcel shop then yes.

KreedKafer · 02/05/2024 09:25

I’m kind of amazed at how people on this thread are genuinely angry that sellers are rejecting their offers. You’re not entitled to have your offer accepted just because you happen to think it’s a fair price. Sellers don’t have to be grateful for your offer. Just because something’s been listed for a long time, that doesn’t mean you’re doing them some sort of favour by offering to take it off their hands. People are well aware that their item will sell more quickly if they make it cheaper, but if they aren’t bothered about a quick sale, that’s entirely up to them. They can do what they want with their own stuff. If it’s not bothering them having the item in storage for ages they don’t need to accept lower offers.

It’s not how I sell - I generally prefer to shift things quickly. But that doesn’t mean everyone has to. Just because you want something, that doesn’t mean the seller is wrong for not letting you have it.

I also don’t get why people are so angry when items are listed for more than they cost new. If you know something listed for £50 is on sale in the shops for £45 then buy it from the shops for £45 instead of picking a row with the seller. Obviously the seller is being ridiculous, but that’s up to them. Just move on.

MiamiWindMachine · 02/05/2024 09:18

But I wouldn't go out of my way to post one item for £1, no. HTH.

But you can only offer a maximum of 40% below asking price - and £1 is the lowest price you can offer regardless of the starting price. Therefore for anyone to offer you £1 means you can’t be listing at more than about £1.60 anyway. Is that worth your time?

CrispieCake · 02/05/2024 09:11

Treaclescourer · 02/05/2024 08:36

So you’d prefer 0 money than some Money?

It's essentially a time versus money equation. Time has a value too and is often undervalued.

For me, it's only worth posting something for £1/£2 if I've sold some other stuff that I'm posting as well. So if I'm already parcelling up a load of other stuff, I'm more likely to accept offers. But I wouldn't go out of my way to post one item for £1, no. HTH.

Akamai · 02/05/2024 09:11

I don’t mind the crazy offers, I mostly reject them.

What amuses is the abuse I get for my prices.

I sold some discontinued items at many times their value (£2 items sold for £35) because that’s what they were selling for. A few people were incandescent with rage!

RelapsedChocoholic · 02/05/2024 09:04

I don’t accept offers as there is no obligation for the buyer to complete the sale when you accept- just a waste of time.

If you don’t want to pay the price listed, then don't.

MiamiWindMachine · 02/05/2024 08:55

Screamingabdabz · 02/05/2024 08:55

I reject offers like that because I’ve offered it at a (reasonable) price and I’m not in a Moroccan market. We are not bartering here. I’d rather not sell than engage in that.

So why do you use a platform set up for just that?

Screamingabdabz · 02/05/2024 08:55

I reject offers like that because I’ve offered it at a (reasonable) price and I’m not in a Moroccan market. We are not bartering here. I’d rather not sell than engage in that.

YoureALizardHarry11 · 02/05/2024 08:49

I’ve never used vinted, but I used to sell on eBay with offers and regularly got people offering 50p or £1 lower than the asking price, and believe it or not sometimes I’d reject them because I’d think ‘what a tight bastard, just pay the extra few pence’ 🤣

I always sold the items in the end whether I accepted offers or not though so that probably makes a difference. I think there’s definitely a middle ground with offers. Too low = cheeky, too close to the asking price = tight penny pincher. If they haven’t sold it for months though then they’re delusional.

Treaclescourer · 02/05/2024 08:36

AylesBuck · 02/05/2024 06:49

I’m one of those. I don’t take offer simply because I’m in no rush to sell. AND I can’t be bothered with the whole logistics of selling if it’s not for a certain price. 🤷‍♀️ If I don’t sell and really need to get rid of the items, I’ll give them to charity, simple.

So you’d prefer 0 money than some Money?

DirtyDensDog · 02/05/2024 08:33

I favourite things just for my own reference. You can turn the notification off in settings on the app so that the seller isn't notified if you favourite an item.

To hate unrealisic Vinted sellers?
MrsPelligrinoPetrichor · 02/05/2024 08:19

BirthdayRainbow · 01/05/2024 22:00

I know but I used it get my hopes up thinking they were about to buy.

Usually when you favourite an item sellers drop the price.

OhmygodDont · 02/05/2024 08:15

I have loads in my favourites. Often because I’m browsing for the children and will then later ask them to remove anything they don’t like and then over the next few weeks likely buy everything else unless I’m waiting to see if they lower the price. Obviously sometimes I then miss out of stuff but if I really wanted it I’d just buy it straight away.

AylesBuck · 02/05/2024 06:49

I’m one of those. I don’t take offer simply because I’m in no rush to sell. AND I can’t be bothered with the whole logistics of selling if it’s not for a certain price. 🤷‍♀️ If I don’t sell and really need to get rid of the items, I’ll give them to charity, simple.

MiamiWindMachine · 02/05/2024 00:56

Supersimkin2 · 01/05/2024 20:34

I had a reseller get hysterically abusive cos a Brora cardi had a ‘hole’ where the seams joined- a gap between stitches.

Got it back, relisted it for double, five stars to me.

Screenshotted her messages, sent to
Vinted.

And they did what? I’m guessing bugger all.

MiamiWindMachine · 02/05/2024 00:47

StedeBonnet · 01/05/2024 20:32

I don't make offers as I find it annoying when people do, just buy it or not. I'm never desperate to sell it and I'm perfectly entitled not to accept an offer if I don't want to. Sometimes I do depending on whether it's made at a convenient time for me to post it out.

That doesn’t make sense.

MiamiWindMachine · 02/05/2024 00:42

Moreorlessmentallystable · 01/05/2024 19:55

You can write it in the description, generally people will not send you offers or do they? I never do if it says no offers.

I would ignore that. They chose to use Vinted - that means they’re open to offers.

MiamiWindMachine · 02/05/2024 00:39

ClonedSquare · 01/05/2024 19:09

I put items in at a reasonable price that's the lowest I'm willing to sell for and rarely accept offers. I don't think I'm "stupid" or "have a bee in my bonnet" as other posters have said. It's just what works for me. Everything sells eventually, or I pass it on to a friend. I don't need to sell things so I'm not in a rush 🤷‍♀️

You’re perfectly entitled to refuse offers - but not to get annoyed that people make offers. You chose a platform that allows this. Simply refuse and move on.

Pleiades2020 · 01/05/2024 22:56

BirthdayRainbow · 01/05/2024 20:37

I've had some offers that were ridiculous but usually I ask if they will split the difference between what I'd like and what they want to pay. Mostly it works. Today I sold something so quickly I can't help wondering if I under priced but tbh they are really happy with their purchase and I've got a bit of extra money.

What frustrates me is people who favourite things but then don't buy.

Favourites are like a wishlist. Also you can favourite things and wait for them to be reduced by the seller. Once they do that put in a lower offer and hope for the best. Often sellers will take the offer.

Treaclescourer · 01/05/2024 22:20

ellecf21 · 01/05/2024 22:12

I'd say that just because you're not willing to pay the list price doesn't mean someone else won't. I listed a bikini last weekend for £50 (Hunza). A very fair price. I had an offer within about an hour of listing it for £35. I went back to the person offering to say that as it hasn't been up long I want to see if I can get closer to asking. About ten mins later someone paid full price! I think they were being particularly cheeky with that offer to be fair as £50 is a good price for what it was.

Comments like this baffle me. The OP has clearly stated in her post that the key factor here is the item hasn’t sold in 17 months.

So it’s completely different to your example

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