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To hate unrealisic Vinted sellers?

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Dealornoheel · 01/05/2024 08:53

Ok hate is a strong word but still

I am quite active on Vinted, with a toddler I am used to buying and selling a lot of items fairly frequently, I always price to sell, usually pitching items £1 or so less than the cheapest other listing of the same or similar item, I’ve never had an item listed for more than 48 hours.

Now DD is getting older and her size isn’t changing as much I’m now looking at nicer items to buy on the platform, and I’m just so surprised about how unrealistic some sellers are.

Example, I had a Ralph Lauren summer dress favourited for a while, it’s been listed for 17 months, I offered £3 less than asking and it’s been rejected. I am always tempted to message them asking if they understand the concept of an item only being worth what someone is willing to pay. Imagine having an item for sale for nearly a year and a half and not thinking to yourself ‘maybe it’s priced too high’

Then you have the people charging more than the item is even selling for new! And it’s not an antique or rare item, a pair of leggings etc.

OP posts:
tellmewhenthespaceshiplandscoz · 05/05/2024 09:51

I reckon 90% of my sales are from buyers who pay full and don't even favourite first

rossogingerale · 04/05/2024 20:20

I bloody hate some vinted buyers being so fucking cheeky! I was selling a branded bra, unworn with tags on and I listed it for a 3rd of the normal price as just wanted to get rid of it and they sent me an offer £10 less of the asking price and when i declined that offer, they messaged to say I wouldn't sell it at the price it was advertised was as they had sold a similar bra for the price they offered me. Well would you believe it a few days later someone bought the bra for the advertised price!

surreygirl1987 · 04/05/2024 20:12

HousingHeadache · 04/05/2024 18:15

Why do you assume these people are thick? That's rather short-sighted. You seem to be presuming that they are all desperate to sell their items quickly.

I sell a fair bit on online marketplaces, and a lot of the things I list fall into the category of "I don't really need this, but it's a good quality item and it could serve a purpose at some point, so I only want to let it go if I can get a good price for it". I'm very happy to hold onto these items if no one wants to pay the price. But I'm making them available in case there are people who want them. More often than not these things do sell - they just take longer.

Another way of looking at it: I expect you would be willing to sell pretty much anything you own, for the right price. The more you value an item, the higher the price would need to be for you to sell it. Why shouldn't people be allowed to list things they value, on the off-chance that someone wants it for the price they are willing to sell at?

Well said.

surreygirl1987 · 04/05/2024 20:11

Dealornoheel · 01/05/2024 09:51

Yes! I’ve done the same with a pair of kids shoes, they’re on for more than the shoes are new atm and they just will not budge - so I just wind them up a bit every few months.

It’s baffling how thick some people can be

Jeez. I can't get that worked up about it. I guess they'd rather not sell than drop their price. And so what?

Queenfierce · 04/05/2024 18:36

Yes some sellers are like this but it's up to them let them hold onto their items does it matter why let it bother you that much brush it off and move on

Dollenganger333 · 04/05/2024 18:35

Mirabai · 04/05/2024 11:24

I don’t like Vinted for buying anyway it’s all scruffy stuff. My fav places are eBay, Vestiaire Collective & Depop.

I bought some brand new Aztec Diamond Equestrian stuff for my dd for half its retail price!

HousingHeadache · 04/05/2024 18:15

Dealornoheel · 01/05/2024 09:51

Yes! I’ve done the same with a pair of kids shoes, they’re on for more than the shoes are new atm and they just will not budge - so I just wind them up a bit every few months.

It’s baffling how thick some people can be

Why do you assume these people are thick? That's rather short-sighted. You seem to be presuming that they are all desperate to sell their items quickly.

I sell a fair bit on online marketplaces, and a lot of the things I list fall into the category of "I don't really need this, but it's a good quality item and it could serve a purpose at some point, so I only want to let it go if I can get a good price for it". I'm very happy to hold onto these items if no one wants to pay the price. But I'm making them available in case there are people who want them. More often than not these things do sell - they just take longer.

Another way of looking at it: I expect you would be willing to sell pretty much anything you own, for the right price. The more you value an item, the higher the price would need to be for you to sell it. Why shouldn't people be allowed to list things they value, on the off-chance that someone wants it for the price they are willing to sell at?

Catza · 04/05/2024 17:35

Akamai · 01/05/2024 10:47

YABU. I hate that eBay and Vinted buyers are becoming so entitled. She doesn't have to sell at a price YOU want.

I had some Spanx leggings for sale, new without tags. I put them for sale on both Vinted and eBay and on Vinted I got offers for £20 and then a couple of months later someone offered £65 on eBay, which I accepted.

Why should I sell for less to please a buyer?!

I completely agree. I have a small business selling artisan items and people message me all day with silly offers which I don't even dignify with an answer. I would rather an item didn't sell at all than sell it to someone for less than it costs me to make because "it is only worth what I am prepared to pay for it" or because "I can get it cheaper in IKEA. Go and shop in IKEA then.

LetMeGoogleThat · 04/05/2024 14:57

It goes both ways tho, I've had a buyer offer £10 under on a bag, counter offered to meet her in the middle only for the emails to start. It looks very used, the phone pocket is too small blah, blah.... fine, love then don't buy it...I don't need the criticism.

Booklover75 · 04/05/2024 14:28

DirtyDensDog · 02/05/2024 08:33

I favourite things just for my own reference. You can turn the notification off in settings on the app so that the seller isn't notified if you favourite an item.

Great tip thanks! I often favourite a few things to show to my fussy kids. Then get annoyed by multiple emails with offers front those I've favourited.

Mirabai · 04/05/2024 11:24

I don’t like Vinted for buying anyway it’s all scruffy stuff. My fav places are eBay, Vestiaire Collective & Depop.

Mirabai · 04/05/2024 11:21

I always accept offers. I price items with that in mind on the basis that buyers will want to offer under ask. It’s like houses really. Everyone wants to feel like they got a good deal.

As a buyer some sellers accept my offers and some don’t. I love a seller who gives me a good price on a good quality item and I give them ace feedback.

tellmewhenthespaceshiplandscoz · 04/05/2024 11:15

God yes the buyers who try and barter you down to a daft price then can't be arsed to press the ok button to pay you. Even though when you check their profile they are on the app constantly with ample opportunity to do so

jengachampion · 04/05/2024 10:53

On bigger items I will write ‘no offers’ in the description. If I’m already offering a perfect condition £150 dress for 30, don’t offer 20.

But yes some people don’t seem to factor in security and shipping fees which in some cases mean sellers are expecting buyers to pay more than full price for second hand.

PoppyCherryDog · 04/05/2024 10:46

Agree! I’ve been looking for a second hand baby bjorn bouncer on Vinted recently and loads of them are £150+ as soon as one came up for £50ish I snapped it up.

At £150 for £50 more I could get one new in the exact colour I want.

When I sell stuff I always price to sell as otherwise it hangs around taking up room.

CuriousMum27 · 04/05/2024 10:42

Vinted on the whole is great. What is annoying is having a top for sale at £2 with 25 favourites on it but no purchase! It’s £2!

Then the buyers who make you wait for your money rather than just say everything is ok!

Once had a pair of joggers I bought that were listed as very good condition. They had a hole in the knee. Vinted’s policy is you pay to return it for a refund which is ridiculous that you’re out of pocket for something that’s not your fault.

And the trainers and footie boots that people list as vgc- covered in mud!!! At least clean them before listing ffs!

MiamiWindMachine · 04/05/2024 10:10

Sjh15 · 04/05/2024 08:21

Sometimes I’ve listed something super cheap, and when I get an offer on those items that riles me! If I’m listing a pair of brand new Clarks toddler shoes for £3, I don’t want an offensive offer of £2! Works both ways.

It’s not offensive. It’s within the agreed parameters.

BirthdayRainbow · 04/05/2024 09:25

I'm thinking I'm doing it all wrong. I have a lot of stuff for a pound as it is about needing it to go than making a lot of money. Last week I took a lot off then relisted in a bundle of three things. One person made a stupid offer but I thought it's a sale so accepted. Then nothing. I looked her up and lots of feedback that they don't complete sales so I've blocked her from seeing my stuff and of course then buying.

Otherstories2002 · 04/05/2024 08:56

Dealornoheel · 01/05/2024 09:51

Yes! I’ve done the same with a pair of kids shoes, they’re on for more than the shoes are new atm and they just will not budge - so I just wind them up a bit every few months.

It’s baffling how thick some people can be

You need to get out more.

Doxxy17 · 04/05/2024 08:31

booktokbear · 01/05/2024 13:33

Most of my items are low priced, say £3, to accept offers just isn't worth the effort. I'd rather give it to charity.

This. £3 is my limit. If I'm getting less than £3 its going to charity. Its not worth the hassle of going to the shop. I always think about all the CO2 burned getting it across the country for £1 when things are so low lol.

DottyLottieLou · 04/05/2024 08:28

@Pintoo

Middle aged, not middle class.

DottyLottieLou · 04/05/2024 08:26

Sounds like it's the buyers acting entitled here rather than the sellers. It's not worth the hassle of posting for some offers, easier to take to charity shop.

Sjh15 · 04/05/2024 08:21

Sometimes I’ve listed something super cheap, and when I get an offer on those items that riles me! If I’m listing a pair of brand new Clarks toddler shoes for £3, I don’t want an offensive offer of £2! Works both ways.

Abbyant · 04/05/2024 08:19

I’m plus size and thought I’d give vinted a go last week only to find everything in my size was from shein and being sold for a pound or two less then what it is new on shein so I deleted it.

MrsPelligrinoPetrichor · 03/05/2024 11:53

Rookangaroo4 · 03/05/2024 10:10

My Biggest bugbear is what some people deem “very good” condition when in fact it turns up looking like shit. I couldn’t send anything, no matter how old, that wasn’t clean and ironed. I had a pair of joggers turn up last week that stank of cigarettes. I didn’t say anything as the package smelt as well so could well have been the courier.

I keep getting that , I suspect sometimes it's the packaging as I've had it from Long Tall Sally before for a new item .

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