Posting here for traffic as I have to make up my mind this week. I am really conflicted over the best choice of secondary school for my son. He has been accepted for both but I really can't make up my mind. WWYD?
The state secondary school nearby is excellent, great reports etc BUT huge numbers in the school. There is a bus practically from our door and he would be mixing with friends from the village (which is important as he went to a primary school a little further afield) and its mixed sex.
Or there is a private school about half an hour away (would have to drive), fantastic resources and opportunities, small numbers BUT single sex. It will also be long days (8.30 - 8) even as a day pupil as they have to stay for activities and study every day. Great sports facilities which he loves but its a rugby school and he isn't particularly interested in that but also has a golf pro etc (he's just taken to golf recently). Other school has very good sports facilities and range of sports but not to this level.
My son is a very friendly and chatty boy but also a bit immature for his age. He also has dyslexia and lacks focus so works better in small groups. He really liked both schools when we did the introduction days. We can afford the private school atm but may have to cut back on holidays etc.
I think a private school may give him an advantage later on in life but think the local state school might meet his immediate needs best - WWYD? Any advice welcome.
YABU - send him to the state school
YANBU - send him to the private school