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It's a Plane Etiquette one!! Was I AIBU?

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Belladonna90 · 29/04/2024 19:19

Night flight back from the US.
Cabin crew do meal service at around 4am (UK time) around 11pm (US). I'm hoping not to go to bed when I land (so can beat the jet lag and not stay in US time!). In economy class and have the blanket over my head so I can sleep (need the 'room' to be as dark as possible'). I had my seat reclined in the belief that chicken or beef would not be served at this time. How wrong I was! Cabin Crew passes me with meal trolley (happily doesn't disturb me to ask whether I want a meal...at that time absolutely not!). However, when she is asking the passenger behind me she reclines my seat back up which startled the life out of me as I was jostled back up!! I was so annoyed as I was fast asleep. I can understand for a safety related issue if she needed to do that for example for landing but for a service related issue it seemed completely rude of her. Was I wrong to challenge her and ask why she did that?? She told me for service all seats must be in the upright position....

OP posts:
PatriciaHolm · 29/04/2024 19:21

I think it's completely normal to require seats up when food is being served, that's always been my experience on many night flights. How is the person behind you supposed to eat otherwise?

HampdenRadius · 29/04/2024 19:21

Isn’t it so the person sitting behind you can comfortably use their fold down table? If so, you’re being very unreasonable, sorry.

Needanewname42 · 29/04/2024 19:21

Because its horrible and selfish for the people behind you you have the back of your chair in their face when eating.

OliviaHart · 29/04/2024 19:21

How could the person behind you eat if your seat was reclined? In economy on a lot of flights it is impossible.