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MyrtlethePurpleTurtle · 30/04/2024 17:25

SometimesItMightBeNice · 30/04/2024 01:44

The guardian has written some really interesting pieces on the plight of Afghan women in the last couple of months. Sorry can't link, but if you're interested they're on there with a quick Google search. One point I did want to pick-up was your statement that the West is partly responsible for their plight. Can I ask why you say that? my over riding feeling is that when the West withdrew, the Afghans were left with the knowledge, skills, training and billions in funding to overthrow the Taliban but instead they put up zero resistance. Now the Afghan women are pleading for the wests interference again, whilst it's obvious that resistance and change must come from within.

Presumably because we funded the Taliban as a resistance force to the Soviet occupation?

SuziQuinto · 30/04/2024 17:24

MyrtlethePurpleTurtle · 30/04/2024 17:18

I don't think being stoned to death is or has been a punishment for marital rape (the subject of my post) 🤷‍♀️

Edited

My mistake, sorry! Shouldn't read several things at once.

MyrtlethePurpleTurtle · 30/04/2024 17:18

SuziQuinto · 30/04/2024 17:16

But without the stoning to death.

I don't think being stoned to death is or has been a punishment for marital rape (the subject of my post) 🤷‍♀️

SuziQuinto · 30/04/2024 17:16

MyrtlethePurpleTurtle · 30/04/2024 15:53

Hi Much tbe same as tbe UK did until 1991 (which thank goodness has changed)

But without the stoning to death.

MyrtlethePurpleTurtle · 30/04/2024 17:14

Underthinker · 30/04/2024 17:13

Are you suggesting that Hamas want to end the war and are keen to give back the hostages but can't because they were killed by Israelis?

Eh? Don't understand your point

toomuchfaff · 30/04/2024 17:14

Germany population 83m

According to your Fox news story 1100 people attended that rally.

MyrtlethePurpleTurtle · 30/04/2024 17:14

Weallknowfrogsgo · 29/04/2024 22:10

you know in school when you learned about the holocaust and you thought to yourself ‘wow, I can’t believe people let that happen, like the world knew and did nothing about it, I could never’

i think, when our children’s children look back on 2024 they will say the exact shame thing and hang their heads in shame over the genocide of the Gazans and how the world sat by and watched and spoke of ‘both sides’ Never again means never again to anyone

Indeed, and those are the banners some of the Jewish marchers carry when protesting against genocide

Underthinker · 30/04/2024 17:13

MyrtlethePurpleTurtle · 30/04/2024 17:08

Or shot by Israeli army while bare chested and waving white flags. Or under the rubble.

Are you suggesting that Hamas want to end the war and are keen to give back the hostages but can't because they were killed by Israelis?

MyrtlethePurpleTurtle · 30/04/2024 17:10

Livelovebehappy · 29/04/2024 22:02

The post said nothing of the sort. Stop making things up to fit your own narrative. The poster was confirming what many are saying - Hamas are responsible for the current shit show. They refuse to free the Israeli hostages - presumably because most of them have been murdered already.

As the Head of the UN said, October 7th did not happen in a vacuum.

And Indeed - very shockingly (to me) - Haaretz (Israeli newspaper) put the 7th October attack down solely to Netanyahu

MyrtlethePurpleTurtle · 30/04/2024 17:08

Livelovebehappy · 29/04/2024 22:02

The post said nothing of the sort. Stop making things up to fit your own narrative. The poster was confirming what many are saying - Hamas are responsible for the current shit show. They refuse to free the Israeli hostages - presumably because most of them have been murdered already.

Or shot by Israeli army while bare chested and waving white flags. Or under the rubble.

MyrtlethePurpleTurtle · 30/04/2024 15:53

Dibblydoodahdah · 29/04/2024 21:39

How does Sharia law view marital rape?

Hi Much tbe same as tbe UK did until 1991 (which thank goodness has changed)

MyrtlethePurpleTurtle · 30/04/2024 15:41

Weightlosssideeffect · 29/04/2024 20:45

Anything past the centre is ‘far right’ nowadays 🙄

To be fair, tbe centre itself has shifted

JudgeJ · 30/04/2024 14:58

Weallknowfrogsgo · 29/04/2024 22:28

It should as it’s the media outlet of the Christian right wing republicans in the US.

they’ve ran such news as the war on Christmas and Birmingham UK being a Muslim only area of the UK where whites aren’t allowed entry. So yes, anything they claim vaguely Muslim related should be taken with a bucket full of salt

I'm more than aware of Fox, being a devotee of the Daily Show for years! Why is that not on TV now by the way? I really miss it.

Dineasair · 30/04/2024 14:51

TempestTost · 30/04/2024 10:38

I'd be interested to know your thoughts on what is going on outside of the people you know.

My experience with Muslims in my area is most are good people with a strong sense of family and public service. They often tend to see themselves as being more similar to Christians, particularly Catholics, than very secularized people, and are comfortable in society with all kinds of people, albeit they tend to on the social conservative side.

That being said, I also see that there is some kind of radicalization going on in larger cities, there are people who don't seem to be here to integrate in a meaningful way. There have been cases of Muslims in some differernt western countries being involved in conflicts in their home countries.

Personally, I think it may be in large part a problem of numbers. A place can only really integrate so many newcomers at a given time, and they do need to have some motivation to do so. And they need to be able to expect to be able to get healthcare, jobs, etc, similar to the rest of the population, or you will get real resentments. Not all countries have western types of values, whether people are comfortable with that or not, and it is possible to import people who have no interest in them and in fact think they are bad.

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Dineasair · 30/04/2024 14:33

parkrun500club · 29/04/2024 12:58

It's a sensible statement. Politics isn't a straight line from left to right, it's more of a circle, or at least a horseshoe.

Left wing extremists and right wing extremists usually have a lot in common.

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Dineasair · 30/04/2024 14:26

9021Pho · 30/04/2024 09:19

Labelling women’s legitimate fears as hysterical is a tactic as old as time. Any woman should be alarmed at the rise of religious extremism, and shouting ‘Islamophobia’ to shut down debate is pathetic. Especially when it’s done by right-on white middle-aged women who live to virtue signal their luxury beliefs.

100% agree @WomensRightsRenegade

I’m appalled and embarrassed by the complacency and the condescension of some the the PPs on this thread. Someone else called it above, so much sneering at people’s legitimate and evidence-based concerns. It’s like Owen Jones is here 🤮

Im a social democrat and reasonably liberal but I’ve been alarmed at the fundamentalist fervour on the steers of London for the past six months - many of those of those marchers are completely hateful, advocating for the destruction of Israel. A fellow Liberal democracy and one that shares our values and freedoms.

But most chilling was the celebrations we saw on the streets of London, Manchester, Berlin and other western cities hours after the atrocities of October 7th made the headlines. What were these people celebrating exactly?! Let’s see

  • Murder
  • infanticide
  • Rape (children to grandmothers)
  • Sexual mutilation
  • Torture
  • Necrophilia

There was even a terrifying mob outside the Israeli embassy chanting the old genocidal slogan (“From the river….) on the Monday after the massacre BEFORE Israel had began its campaign in Gaza to recover the hostages and take out Hamas. No pause for reflection in terms of what it all meant, they just wanted to stick the boot in and revel in Israelis/ the Jewish community’s pain and suffering.

Be in no doubt, there are actually bigots amongst us with hate in their hearts that wish to do us harm. The really unfortunate thing is that there are extremely credulous westerners (some appear to be on this thread) that want to help them.

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Dineasair · 30/04/2024 14:20

MyrtlethePurpleTurtle · 30/04/2024 14:13

"Religion and race are two different things".

*In your view". (And a somewhat tired Mumsnet trope).

When it comes to Islamaphobia, however, the UN'smdefinition of Islamaphobia states that Islamaphobia is a form of racism.

the UN says a lot of things and the UN sometimes talks a load of vacuous rubbish, like the view that men are women just because they say so.

Dineasair · 30/04/2024 14:17

Papyrophile · 30/04/2024 14:07

@Dineasair and @9021Pho If either of you ever feels inclined to stand for election, please let me know and I will join your party. I have rarely read so much well-informed common sense and balance on a MN current events thread. Brava to you both!

Thank you, but I’m of the view that politics in Itself is inherently corrupting due to the compromises you have to make. In the same way that a stone is worn away by water over time, principles are eroded with constant compromise. Anyway, I’m far too old for that malarkey lol.

MyrtlethePurpleTurtle · 30/04/2024 14:13

passthepenguin · 29/04/2024 20:05

Religion and race are two different things. It’s ok not to agree with a particular religion, it doesn’t make you racist.

"Religion and race are two different things".

*In your view". (And a somewhat tired Mumsnet trope).

When it comes to Islamaphobia, however, the UN'smdefinition of Islamaphobia states that Islamaphobia is a form of racism.

Papyrophile · 30/04/2024 14:07

@Dineasair and @9021Pho If either of you ever feels inclined to stand for election, please let me know and I will join your party. I have rarely read so much well-informed common sense and balance on a MN current events thread. Brava to you both!

MyrtlethePurpleTurtle · 30/04/2024 14:04

MotherofGorgons · 29/04/2024 19:48

I am sure they do. This isnt a Muslim country. Please feel free to insult my religion as much as you want and I shall insult yours. As it should be.

As it should be

Well, yes and no.

There is legislation against stirring up religious hatred: "A person who uses threatening words or behaviour, or displays any written material which is threatening... if he intends thereby to stir up religious hatred".

Additionally, legislation provides that manifesting religious hatred may be an aggravating factor on sentencing for other crimes.

i agree with that legislation

Dineasair · 30/04/2024 13:59

Teddleshon · 30/04/2024 08:59

It enrages me how women in these countries are largely ignored by the west and the left in particular.

Well said Teddleshon 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 The left, particularly the middle class virtue signalling their luxury beliefs, are ignoring the atrocities committed against women in the West, never mind in other areas of the world. The vacuous stupidity, craven cowardice and cruelty of the left has been a shocking and heartbreaking revelation.

MyrtlethePurpleTurtle · 30/04/2024 13:45

mrsdineen2 · 29/04/2024 19:21

Interesting choice of thread for a new poster

By definition, a new poster is new and has to to start posting on a thread. Would it make you feel better if they'd had their first post on a baby na e thread or one about face cream? 😒

MyrtlethePurpleTurtle · 30/04/2024 13:38

FactChecking · 29/04/2024 19:06

I think you’ll find it’s Christians.

  • Around 365 million Christians are subject to “high levels of persecution and discrimination”. This compared to 340 million in 2021 (PDF).
  • 1 in 7 Christians are persecuted worldwide, including 1 in 5 in Africa and 1 in 7 in Asia. This compared to 1 in 8 worldwide in 2021 (PDF).
  • 4,998 Christians were killed for faith-related reasons. 90% of those killed were in Nigeria, where attacks on Christians have become more common since 2020 as part of a wider rise in political violence against civilians. Open Doors estimates the number of Christians killed for faith-related reasons worldwide was 5,621 in 2023, 5,898 in 2022, and 4,761 in 2021.
  • 14,766 Churches and Christian properties were attacked.
  • North Korea, Somalia, Libya, Eritrea, and Yemen had the highest rates of reported persecution against Christians.
https://commonslibrary.parliament.uk/research-briefings/cdp-2024-0017/#:~:text=The%20report%20for%202023%20said,1%20in%207%20in%20Asia.

…Afghanistan took over the top spot from North Korea this year. Open Doors explains that it long was “impossible to live openly as a Christian in Afghanistan. Leaving Islam is considered shameful, and Christian converts face dire consequences if their new faith is discovered. Either they have to flee the country or they will be killed.”

https://www.cato.org/commentary/christianity-worlds-most-persecuted-religion-confirms-new-report

I'm not sure the sources you quote necessarily support your assertion.

The first item (parliamentary) relates solely to persecution of Christians, it provides no comparators as against other religions).

The second item against focuses solely on Christian persecution and is a religious organisation dedicated to persecution of Christians

MyrtlethePurpleTurtle · 30/04/2024 13:31

PinkTonic · 29/04/2024 18:46

Quite and this one shouldn’t have got legal aid either. I wonder why it did 🤔

Because it centred around fundamental human rights (freedom to manifest religious beliefs) and the limits around that and was certified to be in the public interest for the case to proceed. Whilst fact specific, the case provides some helpful clarification on the limits on the freedom to manifest religious beliefs

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