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ringoffiire · 29/04/2024 08:36

Well there have always been people who believe in Islamist extremism in the West. YANBU to be a bit worried but to be honest I don't think this protest is any different to anything that could have happened 20 years ago.

millymollymoomoo · 29/04/2024 08:34

People who say it wouldn’t happen only have to look to Afghanistan, Iran, Iraq, Syria. Look at what life was like there in 1960s etc and you’ll realise if we don’t fight against it it can happen

PumpkinsAndCoconuts · 29/04/2024 08:34

BMW6 · 29/04/2024 03:42

YABU because it is not going to happen is it.

The sign might as well say "End All Wars"

This is not about a German caliphate being in any way realistic. I am aware that it won’t happen.
you know it, I know it and these protesters most likely do as well.

This is a group of 1’000+ people feeling emboldened to publicly support extremely violent and extremist views that deny the human rights and freedom - or the right to simply exist - to many of us, particularly women, Jews, homosexual people…
Which also suggests that they aren’t particularly worried about facing backlash from friends, colleagues and family.
How is that not worrying? What does it tell us about the environments they live in?
And how would this affect people who are regularly exposed to that (be it due to the neighbourhoods they live in, an educational setting, work etc)?

I understand why one might find this disquieting.
and that is without considering the possibility that some of these protestors may actually turn to terrorism and violent extremism.

Treeinthesky · 29/04/2024 08:33

Don't understand it. Surely they left Iraq or Afghanistan as they didn't want to live under the regime and wanted a better life? If they want this then move to Afghanistan?

Solgrass · 29/04/2024 08:33

MrsCrumPinnett · 29/04/2024 08:19

There is a tiny fraction of a fraction of 1% of the population (80 million) of a democratic country calling for a caliphate. I imagine there are similar numbers of extremists calling for the same or worse in any similar country at any time, and probably have been for decades, before the internet enabled you to find out about it.

I have critical faculties which enable me to evaluate risk. So yes, I am more concerned at the moment about the risk posed by right wing propaganda, which has, let’s not forget, already delivered President Trump, and poses a far greater risk to us than a tiny, tiny number of extremists of any stripe who have no prospect of getting into power to achieve what they aim for.

The OP asks if it’s unreasonable to be scared.

She wasn’t assessing risk and the chances of this happening.

She is reflecting that we live in a society where people are calling for extremist actions, in what is a relatively peaceful continent. That should alarm many people. That will also have the effect of frightening some people.

So it isn’t unreasonable to feel scared that there are people who are publicly calling for a caliphate. In the same way that it isn’t unreasonable that people would feel scared if there are groups calling for the closure of British mosques.

Caravaggiouch · 29/04/2024 08:33

They can call for what they like, they’re not going to get it.

theduchessofspork · 29/04/2024 08:32

It’s a worrying time in general

This protest specifically - no.

I’d stop watching Fox ‘News’ it is designed to frighten the anxious

ballytravlr · 29/04/2024 08:32

Well done in giving traction to clickbait!

Mrsdyna · 29/04/2024 08:31

Primroseoil · 29/04/2024 08:28

I do not want to live in a caliphate, what if that idea spreads over here & more protests take place.

It's a matter of time sadly.

Beekeepingmum · 29/04/2024 08:30

Extreme Islamic groups are always threatening these things, just like other extremist groups threatening things. I wouldn't worry too much.

PeopleGetSoAngry · 29/04/2024 08:29

That would be the same Fox news that ran a whole story in the US claiming that the British police refuse to enter Birmingham because its too dangerous?

Primroseoil · 29/04/2024 08:28

PineappleTime · 29/04/2024 03:57

What are you scared about?

I do not want to live in a caliphate, what if that idea spreads over here & more protests take place.

OP posts:
ViscountessMelbourne · 29/04/2024 08:28

DrJoanAllenby · 29/04/2024 08:23

It's going to happen here in the U.K.

Churches are falling by the wayside, derelict and unused. There are over 1,500 Mosques in the U.K. and London has the greatest amount of Mosques outside Turkey!

Some sources say there are nearer 3,000 Mosques -

www.nearestmosque.com/uk

London has added over a thousand Christian churches this century. There's one on every corner round our way.

Christianity may be struggling in rural England (due to the rise of atheism, rather than Islam) but London is increasingly Christian.

KarmaCaramello · 29/04/2024 08:25

@blimeyslimey Yes. People forget we are still fighting for Woman Life Freedom. Still being killed for showing our hair. Yet it’s not a problem that these violent ideologies are being promoted in our own country?

ViscountessMelbourne · 29/04/2024 08:24

Surely it can't be news to you OP that some Muslims believe that the world would be better if it were ruled on Islamic principles by a religiously sanctioned leader: a caliph.

I strongly disagree with this ambition but it's not an unreasonable one if you agree with the premises: it's how you plan to get there that's the problem.

The PP with Nigerian family has much more reason to be afraid of Islamist organisations, tens of thousands of Christians (along with Muslims and atheists and others, but Christians have been specifically targeted) have been killed by armed Islamist groups in Nigeria in recent years.

Cygnetmad · 29/04/2024 08:23

petrified? give your head a wobble. it's never going to happen.

DrJoanAllenby · 29/04/2024 08:23

It's going to happen here in the U.K.

Churches are falling by the wayside, derelict and unused. There are over 1,500 Mosques in the U.K. and London has the greatest amount of Mosques outside Turkey!

Some sources say there are nearer 3,000 Mosques -

www.nearestmosque.com/uk

qwertyqwertyqwertyqwerty · 29/04/2024 08:22

It's a small fringe protest.

You're looking at Fox News.

Yes, yabu to be 'petrified'.

MrsCrumPinnett · 29/04/2024 08:22

Desecratedcoconut · 29/04/2024 08:17

I think that's a pretty rude accusation when a quick advance search shows the op posting on a number of topics around the forum.

So ordinary people don’t ever belong to or get influenced by political parties? Interesting take.

MrsCrumPinnett · 29/04/2024 08:19

Solgrass · 29/04/2024 08:11

But not worth bearing in mind that there’s people in Europe actually calling for a caliphate?

There is a tiny fraction of a fraction of 1% of the population (80 million) of a democratic country calling for a caliphate. I imagine there are similar numbers of extremists calling for the same or worse in any similar country at any time, and probably have been for decades, before the internet enabled you to find out about it.

I have critical faculties which enable me to evaluate risk. So yes, I am more concerned at the moment about the risk posed by right wing propaganda, which has, let’s not forget, already delivered President Trump, and poses a far greater risk to us than a tiny, tiny number of extremists of any stripe who have no prospect of getting into power to achieve what they aim for.

Desecratedcoconut · 29/04/2024 08:17

MrsCrumPinnett · 29/04/2024 08:03

Probably worth always bearing in mind that:

  1. political parties often plop posts on here to test the water
  2. there is a general election looming
  3. polling yesterday showed Reform ahead of the LibDems in third place in GE voting intentions, and likely looking for ways to increase that.

I think that's a pretty rude accusation when a quick advance search shows the op posting on a number of topics around the forum.

Noicant · 29/04/2024 08:17

Sorry I think I should clarify I thought OP was worried about there would be an actual caliphate which is unlikely.

I wasn’t saying that Islamic extremism/ political Islam isn’t problematic for western societies. Because clearly it is.i do think we are quite cowardly as a society about extremism. Those threatening that teacher, that poor woman and the staff at Michaela school should be tracked down and prosecuted.

moggiek · 29/04/2024 08:11

blimeyslimey · 29/04/2024 07:38

I’m interested in all the people accusing Fox News of being biased whilst simultaneously refusing to recognize their own bias.

in the 70s/ 80s animal rights campaigning was more of a Thing. Most campaigners were peaceful but a few were extremists who engaged in direct action of various sorts. Now animal rights was a small movement, so a small percentage of a small movement is not such a big issue. Especially as, as far as I am aware, they never killed anyone.

There are an awful lot of Muslims. They are a huge population. So even a ‘small minority’ of Muslims being extremists is a lot of people. And they are very extreme. Much more so than the 1970s/80s animal rights people.

it is worrying. If you have a large population that produces a minority who kill people, that wants to impose its woman disadvantaging laws on its population living in the West, , that wants to impose its blasphemy ideals on everyone on pain of death. That is a problem.

Are posters here aware that a teacher is still in hiding in the UK ( which means he has lost all his friendship groups and community and home and career, everything, it’s deeply traumatic) who has had his life utterly destroyed, because he gave a school sanctioned lesson on free speech using what happened with the Charlie Hebdo murders as an excuse?

Did posters here hear the Anti Social episode on radio 4 based on the boys who took a Koran into school and dropped it on the floor, and the young autistic boy who did this has received death threats and was utterly incapacitated and suicidal with terror and his mum was filmed crying and begging with apology at the mosque in the Muslim community, like she was at some Sharia court, in a desperate bid to save her son? And the ‘respectable’ Muslim representative on AntiSocial talked of how dear and venerated the Koran was to Muslims and how terrible it was for it to touch the floor. But when asked about the death threats to the teenage child ( who remember was in an extreme and terrified state of mental distress) laughed and said. ‘Oh boys will be boys, that’s just what boys are like’.
Let that sink in.

There is a problem. We should uphold values of tolerance in all communities. We should uphold our rule of law in all communities. We should not let fear or being called names, mean we are to scared to stand up to one group of people over another.

The posters here pretending there is not an issue, sneering at Fox News, are of the same mentality as those who, when whistle blowers were trying to get police and social services to take action to protect the teenage girls being raped and sexually tortured by men from predominantly Muslim communities in Rotherham ( and many other places, and it’s still going on), turned their faces away and doubtless sneered, ‘ did you read that in the Daily Mail?, because they were more concerned with not being seen as racist, in their own eyes and others, than they were about safeguarding children from sexual abuse

It’s not anti-racist to refuse to see a concern in front of you. It’s a failing, not a principle.

Edited

Totally agree with this, and thank you for saying it.

Solgrass · 29/04/2024 08:11

MrsCrumPinnett · 29/04/2024 08:03

Probably worth always bearing in mind that:

  1. political parties often plop posts on here to test the water
  2. there is a general election looming
  3. polling yesterday showed Reform ahead of the LibDems in third place in GE voting intentions, and likely looking for ways to increase that.

But not worth bearing in mind that there’s people in Europe actually calling for a caliphate?

peanutbuttertoasty · 29/04/2024 08:09

Welcome to the future. You’re not wrong.

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