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To think my ex should pack for his holiday?

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Noed · 28/04/2024 13:38

My ex has booked a 7 day holiday in July which he is taking our 2 DC with him.
I know that he will expect me to pack for them and make sure they have everything they need.
I can't afford a holiday this year so I wasn't planning on buying the DC a summer wardrobe but I'm going to have to for their holiday.
I provide all clothes, toothbrushes, toothpaste etc for their weekends at their Dads and I get the bags dropped back with the dirty washing.
He thinks because he pays maintenance this is reasonable and I should be providing everything they need.

Would love to hear your thoughts on this.

OP posts:
Imnotarestaurant · 28/04/2024 13:42

Message him now and say the children will need clothes for their holiday as they don’t currently have any. He has a few months to buy a few sets of t-shirts and shorts.