25 years married, DH is not the celebrating kind. I have my wedding ring (not a plain band) and a matching ring I got made and paid for after having the kids. I don't wear either on my fat fingers so they sit in a box.
I have very few other bits, nothing as valuable.
I don't feel much attachment to any of it only a bit of sadness that it wasn't accompanied by grand emotional words.
Should I pass them on to my DDs, 20 & 17 now or wait till they are a bit older.
YABU yes, madness & hurtful to give to teens
YANBU let the girls enjoy the sparkles now