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AIBU to have thrown my morning run away cos I’m sick of being cold

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Overthebs · 28/04/2024 09:31

I’ve seen similar threads re this but I’m just FUMING. It’s MAY and it’s still f*cking freezing cold.
I’ve just got up and gone to the coast, got out the car ran about half a K and turned around and come home in a strop.

Also- the heating has had to be on intermittently throughout April because I’ve got a 8month old.

I feel so friggen down with it, I fight SAD so hard during the winter months, wrap up get hiking even in the pouring rain.

We lived in aus for a few years and it’s just so much better weather wise, you can plan stuff, you can be outside even when you’re feeling sad and shit. Here’s just miserable 24/7 and it’s been winter for 7 months!

OP posts:
BrokenCamberEdge · 28/04/2024 13:52

Why didn’t you just wait until later when the rain stops? That’s what I’m doing, swapped the usual morning for an evening run.

Codlingmoths · 28/04/2024 13:50

Nursingadvice · 28/04/2024 09:35

I can’t relate, I’ve been running all through winter and never once felt cold. I have been going out in a t shirt for at least the last 6 weeks but before that I’d put a jumper on and take it off within 5 minutes. Does running not make you hot?

But yes, it is dragging on a bit now but it’s nothing new. It never warms up before May then everyone complains it’s too hot (me included)

Running doesn’t make me that hot unless it’s hot ie well above 20. When I did a half marathon I had 3 layers on, gave my husband rhe jacket at 10km and took it back to put back on at 15km. Then after distance exercise as I cool
down I get really cold, I need hot drinks and a shower. And I’m in Australia 😆. I used to run with the uni cross country club and some women ran in wool thermals. Cold women like me.

ThomCruise · 28/04/2024 13:50

Although the weather has been appalling. Trail running is out for me at the moment because all trails local to us are now impassable with sludge.

ThomCruise · 28/04/2024 13:47

I would never quit a run because of the cold in April!
I'm not super hard core, but I and the members of my social running club all run in the winter in freezing conditions - and often in driving rain, although that really is shit.
You just need a long sleeve zip up top and some running gloves - in winter though, not April.

Sunshineandpinkclouds · 28/04/2024 13:14

I agree with you - I have run all through winter and the start of spring but today I was defeated by the cold and rain and decided to call it a rest day and do some strength training indoors.

Tomorrow looks nicer where I am and good running weather but sadly I will be stuck in an office.

LoobyDop · 28/04/2024 13:06

Jesus, what is it with the people who descend on threads determined to be superior and make the OP feel shit for ever being pissed off about anything.

pelotonaddiction · 28/04/2024 13:03

RampantIvy · 28/04/2024 12:11

There’s no such as thing as bad weather, just bad clothes.

I'm sick and tired of reading this bollocks. There are only so many days of this shit weather that one is prepared to put up with.

Wading through mud in the right clothes and footwear is just not fun.

That

My friend runs almost daily, he does the obstacle course races and runs off road and even he is sick of the mud, rain and wind
He said it's just draining his motivation as winter has been such a slog

RampantIvy · 28/04/2024 12:56

but temps under 10 degrees are perfect for a run.

Vigorous exercise in cold weather hurts my lungs.

Octomingo · 28/04/2024 12:51

I'm always cold. Sitting in 4 layers today in the sunny room, even though the sun's out. I have reynaud's too. Supermarkets set it off the worst.

If the op is running on a wirral coast, then I ran the opposite coast yesterday. The wind was bitter. I prefer running in the cold, but not the wind. I tend to be in shorts and vest from about march onwards though, because I warm up fairly fast once I get going. It's the only time I wear fewer layers than dh. Having said that, I got reynaud nipple yesterday and couldn't get warm when I got home.

OfDragonsDeep · 28/04/2024 12:49

Same here Op, hate hate hate it.

inamarina · 28/04/2024 12:42

ladybirdsanchez · 28/04/2024 09:43

I'm a runner and I actually like it when it's colder, so I can't agree with you on that one. The rain gets me down, but temps under 10 degrees are perfect for a run. And it's the 28th April, not May!

Same here. I prefer running when it’s cold, I find it much easier than when it’s too warm.
I actually don’t mind rain too much either, as long as it’s not pouring down.
Apart from that I fully agree about the miserable weather though, it’s been going on for way too long now. Really sick of it feeling like November.
It’s supposed to get warmer from tomorrow on, so fingers crossed!

MsLuxLisbon · 28/04/2024 12:24

I'm with you OP, I hate the cold! Or rather, I like cold crisp days in winter, but not in Spring! I remember when there was a heatwave in March and I was all for it, there was even a hot February a few years back which was similarly glorious. I actually thought that climate change would mean that this country got a lot hotter, which I was looking forward to. I don't believe that 'climate change' has anything to do with it, we just live in a miserable cold country and I'm sick of it.

WithACatLikeTread · 28/04/2024 12:19

I have Raynaud's. I hate being bloody cold.

newyorkhotel · 28/04/2024 12:18

RampantIvy · 28/04/2024 12:11

There’s no such as thing as bad weather, just bad clothes.

I'm sick and tired of reading this bollocks. There are only so many days of this shit weather that one is prepared to put up with.

Wading through mud in the right clothes and footwear is just not fun.

Me too and try jogging in wellies- you end up running like Mr Blobby.

There is absolutely such a thing as bad weather FGS

RampantIvy · 28/04/2024 12:11

There’s no such as thing as bad weather, just bad clothes.

I'm sick and tired of reading this bollocks. There are only so many days of this shit weather that one is prepared to put up with.

Wading through mud in the right clothes and footwear is just not fun.

notprincehamlet · 28/04/2024 12:06

Once I got caught in a hail storm while out running and when I got home I noticed that all the letters in the logo on my t shirt had rearranged themselves. I think they were trying to spell out help.
As you were.

bakewellbride · 28/04/2024 11:43

Running really warms me up, I much prefer running in the cold to the heat and it's not May yet.

fieldsofbutterflies · 28/04/2024 11:41

GingerPirate · 28/04/2024 11:32

Why put so much importance to the weather?
It is what it is.
Full stop.

Because going out for the umpteenth time in howling wind, horizontal rain and cold temperatures is bloody grim.

Yes, you can't change it but that doesn't mean you can't find it unpleasant and miserable.

ALunchbox · 28/04/2024 11:39

I like running in the cold but don't like the rain. Never go running in the rain.

GingerPirate · 28/04/2024 11:32

Why put so much importance to the weather?
It is what it is.
Full stop.

WithACatLikeTread · 28/04/2024 11:27

WingsofRain · 28/04/2024 10:05

Being cold and feeling at one with the elements is the best part of outdoor exercise, YABVU to moan about the weather. You are going to have months when it’s going to be far too hot to run coming up.

Will we?

Sahara123 · 28/04/2024 11:21

Meadowfinch · 28/04/2024 10:00

Yanbu. I haven't been running this weekend either. I'm sick of needing layers just to open the door.
I'm off to Scotland tomorrow on a business trip and I'm staring at clothes I've been wearing for months. I'm so bored with them. It's just grim.

I went to the same event last year and strolled around in linen trousers, a little linen jacket and sandals.

This year it's jeans, sweaters and a waterproof ☹️

I NEVER complain it's too hot 😀

I think your event last year was probably the unusual weather! I’m in central Scotland, yesterday I was sitting in the garden reading a book ! Yes it got nippy when the sun went in but that’s normal for April in Scotland. As a previous person said I won’t be putting plants out for a couple of weeks more yet just in case , and that’s perfectly normal. It’s just a normal Scottish spring here .

PiggieWig · 28/04/2024 11:07

I understand your fury. I’m not a runner but I like going to the gym at 6am and open water swimming at the weekends. It’s been such a long, cold winter that I’ve skipped way more than I have any other years.
Its so hard when you have SAD (I do too) to get up and motivated, even though rationally you know you’ll feel better for it.

JuanTabo · 28/04/2024 11:04

I’m so glad it’s not just me! I’ve become an evening runner, which almost always means being too tired to go as far as I want and need. Sometimes I don’t run at all but only walk and not briskly.

quizzys · 28/04/2024 11:04

Sorry to tell you all, but I'm in Dublin right now and it is absolutely gorgeous weather. Am sitting on a bench by the sea in Dalkey (Bono lives there) and people watching. Sunglasses on, SPF on, layers peeled off. I can't believe it!

Heading back into town in a bit to see friends, afternoon in their garden with food and drinks and umbrellas up seems to be the plan.

But it's to rain tomorrow AGAIN.

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