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To resent doctors who leave the profession?

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Prrambulate · 27/04/2024 21:00

IN PARTICULAR, to take up lucrative management consultancy roles at the likes of McKinsey. I know three doctors among my uni cohort who have left the profession in the early-mid 30s, very close to or having trained at consultancy level for specialisms like ophthalmology, orthopaedics. It seems to be happening more often but that could just be my perception.

It’s frustrating because medical places are significantly capped in the UK, getting a place on a course is difficult, and training these doctors is costly. And then just to lose these qualified doctors at a time of dire need in the NHS is kind of maddening.

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Seaside1234 · 27/04/2024 23:11

Female part-time NHS consultant here. However hard you work, more and more sick patients just keep coming. It's just knackering. It doesn't make you feel like you're making anyone better, which is what we came into the profession to do. The only way to make people better is to make their lives better, to improve the living standards and health behaviours of as many people as possible in this country. By the time they get to a doctor, there's only so much we can do.

I'd love to leave but I support my family as main breadwinner, so main aim is now retirement at 60. It's a job like any other, we aren't special humans, it's just a very highly and specifically skilled job. If the country values those skills, it should pay properly for them. I'm struggling to stay afloat financially with a very modest lifestyle, but I'd rather eat my head than go full-time.

Angelsrose · 27/04/2024 23:10

helpfulperson · 27/04/2024 21:02

Women going part time is also having a significant impact.

All the male GPs I know are part time. Doing the job (GP) full time is frankly not feasible. Part-time for doctors is the same as full time in any other job in the majority of cases.

BronwenTheBrave · 27/04/2024 23:09

My SIL went to a top Cambridge college to study medicine. Got married soon after graduation to a rich accountant and never did a day’s paid work in her life. Was the Cambridge place wasted on her? You tell me.

Hamserfan · 27/04/2024 22:44

Doctor nearing the end of my career - plan to retire in the next two to four years. Expectations and pressures have increased enormously in the 32 years I’ve been qualified now expected to achieve equally good results in 96 year olds as 21 year olds it seems.
I went to uni (from a very poor background) with a full student grant finished my six year course with £1500 overdraft and took out a small personal loan to buy my first ever car. Today’s students can have £100000 in student loans.
You cannot imagine rage pressures inherent in the system unless you have lived them. If people get to the end of medical school or their training scheme (around 10 years in most specialities) and wish to move then that is their right. If society really valued doctors and paid for medical school then society could demand a certain length of service but it doesn’t so 🤷‍♀️ I currently work part time due to husbands serious illness only 36 hours for me!

silverneedle · 27/04/2024 22:34

NHS pay dropped considerably compared to 2009.

To resent doctors who leave the profession?
mumsneedwine · 27/04/2024 22:32

@likepebblesonabeach they also will repay £250k+. Not sure how they are not paying for their own training ??

likepebblesonabeach · 27/04/2024 22:31

I can't really comment on dr's as ours seem to work well but I do get annoyed at dentists who are trained by the nhs then only treat private patients.

mumsneedwine · 27/04/2024 22:31

@AllProperTeaIsTheft there are more doctors being trained than jobs being made available to them. Even though we need them. It's almost like they are trying to make people go private.

AllProperTeaIsTheft · 27/04/2024 22:28

PS as a teacher the 'leave if you don't like it' comments have done really well. We are now 7 staff short, can't even get an applicant from the UK, and classes are having supply teachers long term.

Do the same with doctors, and people will die.

Yes, apparently 40 000 people quit teaching last year. From what people on this thread seem to be saying though, unlike for teaching, there are people wanting to train as doctors but the number of places is capped? That's no good if the poor conditions mean they don't stay though.

mumsneedwine · 27/04/2024 22:28

@Supersimkin2 the pubs shut soon. Hope you get home safely. All

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mumsneedwine · 27/04/2024 22:25

PS as a teacher the 'leave if you don't like it' comments have done really well. We are now 7 staff short, can't even get an applicant from the UK, and classes are having supply teachers long term.

Do the same with doctors, and people will die.

Anniegetyourgun · 27/04/2024 22:23

Oops, looks like I cross posted with one after all.

AllProperTeaIsTheft · 27/04/2024 22:22

YABU. Being a doctor is a job. As with any job, people have every right to vote with their feet if the pay and conditions are not manageable, or not commensurate with the work they do. Same with teachers (I'm a teacher). Calling certain jobs vocations shouldn't mean that the people doing the job have to be selfless and altruistic to their own detriment. It's paid employment.

mumsneedwine · 27/04/2024 22:22

@Supersimkin2 just wow. You, in one comment, show the disgusting problem with the NHS. 'Baby doctor' ? You mean the person holding the bleep at 2am will be the first person to your cardiac arrest ? That baby ?

Anniegetyourgun · 27/04/2024 22:21

You get so many threads on here - most commonly about teachers - where at least one poster is guaranteed to say "if you don't like it, leave". Now here's a thread saying the opposite. I don't think "refreshing" is quite the word, but you know, it's different at least.

Hello? If everyone, or even a substantial minority, left for better work conditions there would be nobody doing those unpopular but indispensable roles - and if we're talking doctors, you can't just drag random bods off the street and hand them a scalpel. Or even a blank script. Well, when I say "can't"... they're part way to it already with physician associates, and don't expect it to stop there.

(Disclaimer: I am not employed in the healthcare industry, for a mercy.)

Supersimkin2 · 27/04/2024 22:21

Do something else if you like - that’s what we’re discussing!

😀

I agree - the brightest and best kind of left the building already, didn’t they.

Supersimkin2 · 27/04/2024 22:17

@mumsneedwine you need an awful lot of people working very hard indeed to pay the £150k each baby doc costs us.

Maybe they get thirsty at work too?

I just can’t see a problem with paying for your own training - everyone else does and they mostly aren’t as well salaried or pensioned.

Not an emotional issue, just boring ol’ social responsibility.

mumsneedwine · 27/04/2024 22:16

@Supersimkin2 I'm not a doctor. I'm a teacher who supports students to become our future doctors.

Give me one good reason why I should continue doing this ? Our brightest and best can earn more elsewhere.

mumsneedwine · 27/04/2024 22:14

@butternutsquashes it takes so little to be informed. And I know that 'junior' doctors are the back bone of our NHS. And are treated like rubbish. £15.33 an hour is what a life is currently worth in this country.

Poptart23 · 27/04/2024 22:14

If they are leaving at age 30 then if it was their first degree they will have been working as doctors for the last 7 years. Is this long enough? How long would be?

The figures that are usually quoted as the cost of training include doctors wages until they are "finished training" e.g. qualified as a consultant or GP. This would usually be at least 5 years after graduating for a GP, or at least 6-8 years for a consultant. Are employees in other industries considered to "owe" their employer for taking a wage? Particularly if they have been paid much less during this time than in other comparable countries or industries?

The cost of training figures also doesn't include costs of exams or professional fees as doctors need to pay these themselves.

At least they will owe the student loans company 5 years of course fees + interest for their study - perhaps they will have opportunity to pay more back if they have found a better salary elsewhere!

Supersimkin2 · 27/04/2024 22:11

Say what you like, doctors are superb at advocating for themselves.

No burnout on that front as this thread shows.

butternutsquashes · 27/04/2024 22:09

@mumsneedwine I have noticed you repeatedly on threads about junior doctors. You are always so supportive and so well-informed and I just wanted to say thank you from one very grateful junior doctor. Flowers

mumsneedwine · 27/04/2024 22:07

Incoming doctors this year. 5 years of Uni. £100,000+ debt. And no job until 2 weeks before due to start. If lucky.

Don't you dare tell me they 'owe' anyone anything.

To resent doctors who leave the profession?
Octavia64 · 27/04/2024 22:02

I burnt out of teaching,

I now have a moderate to serious mental health problem as a result.

If doctors are leaving before they develop serious mental health issues from burnout then at least they will still be able to work in some capacity

I can't. And many others who have burnt out can't.