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Should kids go on holiday abroad every year?

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TillyTooms · 27/04/2024 19:21

To grow up well rounded or is it just a nice luxury to have?

Before having kids I imagined we'd be jetting off every year like I did pre kids however having a neurodivergent child has meant I'm not able to work as much as I could previously and our income has seen a reduction.

We have a comfortable income and can do days out and pay for my daughter's hobbies but not enough to jet away every year.

I know this sounds like a stupid question but I just feel like I've let them down somehow.

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AuntieStella · 27/04/2024 19:25

Total luxury

Sunnydays0101 · 27/04/2024 19:25

Actually, imagine asking if kids should abroad every year - some don’t even gave a UK holiday.

Caffeineneedednow · 27/04/2024 19:24

It's a luxury. My kids go to my mother's house a couple times a year which is a 45 mi ute flight and in another country but if my parents lived closer my kids would never have been abroad. Our only other holidays is a couple long weekends camping a couple hours from our house

thanKyouaIMee · 27/04/2024 19:24

I'm sure you can grow up well rounded either way!

I went on annual foreign holidays, still do a few times a year now. I'm not sure I've ever noticed that I'm more well rounded than anyone else, especially not based on my holidays tbh.

Your DD will grow up well rounded by having loving supportive parents who take an interest in them 😊

Beamur · 27/04/2024 19:24

Of course not. Totally a luxury.
For many people - It's also a choice and preference. We have literally only done it once as a family in nearly 20 years and I have been abroad with DD but not DH twice.
I'm not keen on flying and we love the UK.

Sunnydays0101 · 27/04/2024 19:23

Of course it’s a luxury. How could you think otherwise ??

ChickpeaPie · 27/04/2024 19:22

Of course it’s just a nice luxury

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