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Neighbours oxygen tank

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Tevion1213 · 27/04/2024 17:37

I'm not one to complain and I am usually tolerant but the distinct popping noise from upstairs neighbours oxygen tank is irritating me so much. They are on 17 hours of oxygen so it's going all through the night. I know it's a medical need and don't know how to deal with this.
Its 3 pops followed by a final louder one and it's constant. Anybody please

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123anotherday · 27/04/2024 19:40

@Tevion1213 there may actually be a problem with his oxygen concentrator ( which could mean an actual issue with the oxygen delivery!) so you are doing them a favour if you go and mention it or manage to catch any visiting health professionals .

Heartbreaktuna · 27/04/2024 19:22

Wax ear plugs from boots. They are completely noise cancelling, I wear them every night.

rwalker · 27/04/2024 18:58

What an incredibly difficult situation but we all need sleep to function
you can have all the sympathy and empathy in the world but that won’t help you function on a day to day basis with interrupted sleep

I think the best you can do is ear plugs ,white noise machine , background noise or sleeping downstairs

I don’t think OP is a twat she just needs some sleep she’s not marching round cutting the plug off it

LadyKenya · 27/04/2024 18:56

The walls sound paper thin, and rubbish, that is the problem.

Tevion1213 · 27/04/2024 18:54

EdgarsTale · 27/04/2024 18:48

God, you sound heartless. They’re obviously in a really bad way.

Get better soundproofing or move somewhere decent? You’re lucky they’re not actually being anti social & playing loud music etc.

If I was heartless I'd have been around there complaining by now.

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TwattyMcFuckFace · 27/04/2024 18:50

Why are some thick people not understanding that the OP is asking for advice on the noise, rather than being heartless/lacking empathy etc?

It's not a long thread, so pretty easy to read what she's saying?

EdgarsTale · 27/04/2024 18:48

God, you sound heartless. They’re obviously in a really bad way.

Get better soundproofing or move somewhere decent? You’re lucky they’re not actually being anti social & playing loud music etc.

TheDogsAFloofyFool · 27/04/2024 18:43

Newname71 · 27/04/2024 17:44

White noise or a fan. DS works 10pm til 2am and will game to wind down before bed. I can’t sleep if I can hear noise so use the fan to dull the sound. The fans annoying at first but I can’t sleep without it now.

Agree 💯
Ive had a fan in the bedroom for 20+ years and can’t sleep without it. If it’s too quiet, I imagine I can hear things😱
Sorry for you OP, it’s tough if it’s disturbing your sleep, but such a sensitive issue. I guess you’ve tried moving furniture etc?
Try the fan, it might just work xx

Tevion1213 · 27/04/2024 18:39

I've every sympathy with somebody on oxygen no way to live his wife obviously puts up with it. Their TV has been loud, at times but I can tolerate that and I've even had to listen to the air in the pipes when they flush the toilet which sounds like the titanic coming in but the oxygen noise tops the lot.

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SleepingStandingUp · 27/04/2024 18:38

flapjackfairy · 27/04/2024 18:24

my son uses an oxygen concentrator at night and yes it is noisy so.i get what you are saying. We put his outside his room on the landing and I wear ear plugs and keep the door shut. I couldn't sleep otherwise tbh as they make a series of hisses and clunk's On the plus side they belt out the heat so are great for drying the washing . Every cloud and all that .

Can you not have it downstairs and piped up? We have ours in the hallway so there's always a door between us and it 🤣

StormingNorman · 27/04/2024 18:32

I’m not a cow and feel for the person who needs oxygen. OMFG though! That noise has got to be some kind of torture.

It is a housing problem. Flats should be better soundproofed. Nobody wants to hear their neighbours.

betterangels · 27/04/2024 18:28

Sadperson1 · 27/04/2024 18:23

I am pleased that you haven’t, I guess the subject is quite close to my heart, it can be incredibly hard for the person on oxygen and the family caring for them. The post just seemed to lack empathy. Lots of people have given you good pointers on how to manage your own sleep, I hope that they help.

Agree. I was probably harsh too, but seeing someone you love struggling for breath. It will just never leave me.

Healingfrommothernarc · 27/04/2024 18:27

I listen fo 432hz music or sleep music on YouTube through headphones, when my neighbours are loud and I'm trying to sleep. Hope this helps xxx

flapjackfairy · 27/04/2024 18:24

my son uses an oxygen concentrator at night and yes it is noisy so.i get what you are saying. We put his outside his room on the landing and I wear ear plugs and keep the door shut. I couldn't sleep otherwise tbh as they make a series of hisses and clunk's On the plus side they belt out the heat so are great for drying the washing . Every cloud and all that .

Sadperson1 · 27/04/2024 18:23

Tevion1213 · 27/04/2024 18:05

I haven't gone around there sounding off you know im not the devil

I am pleased that you haven’t, I guess the subject is quite close to my heart, it can be incredibly hard for the person on oxygen and the family caring for them. The post just seemed to lack empathy. Lots of people have given you good pointers on how to manage your own sleep, I hope that they help.

Barleycat · 27/04/2024 18:22

Yanbu it would drive me mad too. I have a white noise maker from amazon, its brilliant and very small and portable. You should try something similar.

Mynewnameis · 27/04/2024 18:20

I'm very noise sensitive and macks silicone earplugs are the best I've tried and comfortable

betterangels · 27/04/2024 18:19

It's likely keeping them alive, so you should get over yourself. I'm sure they're not having the best time.

TheTartfulLodger · 27/04/2024 18:18

My mum had an oxygen machine at the end. It shouldn't be making all that noise.

LadyMacbethWasMisunderstood · 27/04/2024 18:17

My DM was on oxygen at home for the last 9 months of her life. There was a very slight hiss (or maybe more of a whirr) if you listened really carefully. But other than that nothing at all. And you could only hear it if the house was otherwise quiet. So I do wonder if there is something amiss here, something not being maintained correctly.

My advice as to what you do depends I think on whether your neighbour is terminally ill or has a long standing chronic condition. If the former I really would not say anything at all. I do not think there is any way you could frame your approach that would go over well. Ear plugs is the way to go. There are some good ones out there.

If your neighbour has a chronic, long term condition, I can, just about see that you might be able to broach the subject on the basis of could the oxygen be put on some padding, are they sure it’s working properly? It would still be a very difficult conversation though.

Are you a generally good neighbour? That might make a difference to how any approach is received.

Roomination · 27/04/2024 18:16

You said your neighbour has been on oxygen for a while, but now it’s for most of the day. Have you been aware of the popping noise before now, or is it a new thing? It’s possible to both really feel for someone’s ill health and suffering, and to also be driven up the wall by the noise of a piece of their essential equipment.

If you’ve not heard this particular sound before, I’d see if you can carch the delivery guy or a visiting HCp, and ask if they either know if this is usual and if not, who you can contact to see if the equipment can be checked/adjusted/changed.

If there’s nothing to be done and this is a normal sound, then I agree all you can do is wear earplugs, play white-noise etc. What a sad and difficult situation. All the usual advice for neighbour noise, doesn’t apply in this case. I hope you find something to help and hope your poor neighbour is doing as well as they can

Tevion1213 · 27/04/2024 18:12

I've lived with fish tank noise a humidifier but something about this noise sets me off

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TonTonMacoute · 27/04/2024 18:11

Sorry, but this is just one of those things.

You have to make your mind up that it’s not going to irritate you, find something to mask it until stops bothering you.

At the moment you are listening out for this noise but in time your brain learns to filter out the noise and you stop noticing it.

TheWonderhorse · 27/04/2024 18:09

The poor neighbours have to hear it too. I wouldn't say anything personally, and in the evening I'd mask it with the TV and overnight get ear plugs.

Does it freak you out a bit OP? I could understand that, and I find medical machinery a bit unnerving sometimes, and can imagine it maybe playing on my mind if I woke in the night.

takemeawayagain · 27/04/2024 18:09

Some real sanctimonious twats on this thread, the OP said she understood it was needed medically. She obviously isn't expecting the person not to have their oxygen.
That constant noise would drive me mad too OP. You could try some loop earplugs.

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