Posting for traffic. Dm takes ds(he's 4 and ND) once a week to her house to give me time alone with the new baby and just for fun and cuddles. Dh picks him up on way home from work. Today she dropped Ds off which was unusual, and told me she was flying down the road, looked back and saw ds door was wide open. She said she immediately pulled to the side and shut the door. She swears her childlocks were engaged and the door was shut and locked when leaving her house.
I'm willing to accept human or mechanical err once the car is looked at. Beyond that, is there something besides a straight jacket that will help ds? We have all the talks we can about safety, but with his inability to understand the dangers around him, what can I do? That's not figurative I literally am willing to do anything reasonable people suggest. I'm considering everything from bungee cords to good carpet tape. And thats even if he opened the door on his own, but I'm just assuming he did for safetys sake. I'm also wondering how a newer vehicle(2020)lets you open the door while driving. And if she didn't really shut the door shouldn't it have dinged incessantly?