Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

Stop homeschooling your children.

655 replies

pentagonisapentagon · 26/04/2024 18:11

I run an educational consultancy and exam company. We produce books that most parents in our area of education will purchase. Home educating your children makes us money.

However. STOP. Now I don’t mean those that have children with severe issues (this is a small %, everyone likes to diagnose their children with some form of disorder and it isn’t those I’m talking about) who would benefit out the classroom / often awaiting a better school option.

I mean the parents who are tired with the education system - lots of moans that they can’t take their children for a holiday, annoyed about not being allowed make up, the rules being too hard. You can barely spell, stop trying to teach your children yourself. These children are being FAILED by their parents.

By all means, if you have the relationship, time, ability and means to provide a solid home education system (inc money for tutors which will be needed) - go ahead. Just ensure you’re covering the social aspect.

I am seeing the advice to home school EVERYWHERE. Mumsnet and Facebook filled with the poor advice. It’s detrimental to all parties involved.

I’d love to know others thoughts on this.

OP posts:
tulippa · 26/04/2024 18:19

How often does this happen? I only know one family who home schools and that's because their DC have SEN. They're a well educated couple with plenty of resources.

Apart from that I know very few people who are privileged enough. That is, can afford for one parent not to work, have the resources to be able to home school and actually want to do it.

loropianalover · 26/04/2024 18:17

I agree with your sentiment, people are homeschooling for the wrong reasons in recent years. I have always agreed with the freedom/choice to homeschool but it’s been taken advantage of, I don’t know the solution.

I especially despise those who are using YouTube/social media as an excuse to homeschool, because you can ‘be your own boss’ and ‘you don’t need qualifications to be an entrepreneur’. FamilyFizz on YouTube comes to mind, 4 kids brainwashed, educationally neglected, emotionally stunted.

TheHorneSection · 26/04/2024 18:16

It’s a difficult one. Plenty of kids don’t do well in mainstream education and home schooling is better for them. Is the yummy earth mother trope just a bit of an urban myth? I don’t know but I agree with you if people are homeschooling for those sorts of reasons.

hermitstyle · 26/04/2024 18:15

YABU - and you don’t need tutors ! I home educated my dc and my eldest has done her GCSEs privately and got level 9s - taught by me , not tutors and I only have a handful of GCSEs myself.

GoodnightAdeline · 26/04/2024 18:14

YANBU, everyone seems to be at it these days and mainly for the wrong reasons (fulfilling an insta earth mummy persona or because they don’t like that school won’t let little Johnny run around smashing the place up)

Swipe left for the next trending thread