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Abhorrent comments made about a persons height

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DistinguishedSocialCommentator · 25/04/2024 09:30

Calling someone who is below the average height, "pint-sized" is abhorrent
at the very least. A person's height is beyond the person's control and calling them "pint-sized," some may even say it's an ableist comment

Yesterday, during the PMQ's the lead was taken by the deputy heads of both Tories and Labour. Standing in for the Labour leader was Angela Rayner. She called the Tory leader, Rishi Sunak a "pint-sized leader" when she was losing the arugument

This reminds me of clowns at work who had nicknames for other people who did not fit in with their agenda. Often people will make disparaging comments about another when they feel threatened because of their own inadequacies.
Should she apologise for making these disgusting comments?

AIBU to believe these comments were necessary, inappropriate and disgustingly abhorrent.

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/angela-rayner-oliver-dowden-house-of-commons-rishi-sunak-labour-b2533966.html

Angela Rayner aims ‘pint-sized loser’ jibe at Rishi Sunak during PMQs

Deputy Prime Minister Oliver Dowden countered the criticism by mocking the Labour deputy over her housing arrangements.

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/angela-rayner-oliver-dowden-house-of-commons-rishi-sunak-labour-b2533966.html

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CranfordScones · 25/04/2024 10:39

I was surprised at her choice of words. These things are usually prepared in advance, so I don't think it was spontaneous.

If a man had attacked a female MP over a physical characteristic, I think the reaction would have been very different. But he's a Tory, so that's OK.

Basic civility is like freedom of speech - you either believe in it for everyone, or you don't believe in it at all.

IClaudine · 25/04/2024 10:39

MrsSkylerWhite · 25/04/2024 10:38

ExtraOnions · Today 10:30
I love Rayner … I love the way she triggers the right-wing snowflakes. With any luck they will all be so angry they may combust”

Wonders? Can snowflakes combust? Or do they just dissolve into a drippy pool?

Either way, can’t wait to see it happening to many at the GE. So many potentially gratifying Portillo moments. Will be following North East Somerset with hopeful anticipation.

Looking forward to Gullis getting the boot, too.

OneTC · 25/04/2024 10:38

Funnily enough I was at a meeting the other day and the bloke leading it started making jokes about how small sunak was and har har can you imagine, and then he realised/remembered I am really really small and just segued into a different story

tbh if you're small and sensitive about it you're going to be in for a very rough ride

I think most of the discourse in the house of commons is pretty embarrassing though, if they weren't banging out the childish comments they wouldn't have much of anything to do

IClaudine · 25/04/2024 10:38

Did you know Rayner has a four bedroomed house?

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Mrsjayy · 25/04/2024 10:38

Mps being immature and insulting in Westminster who would have thought ! The fact that insulting each other is sport and gets the whooping and jeering going for the session!

MrsSkylerWhite · 25/04/2024 10:38

ExtraOnions · Today 10:30
I love Rayner … I love the way she triggers the right-wing snowflakes. With any luck they will all be so angry they may combust”

Wonders? Can snowflakes combust? Or do they just dissolve into a drippy pool?

Either way, can’t wait to see it happening to many at the GE. So many potentially gratifying Portillo moments. Will be following North East Somerset with hopeful anticipation.

Catlord · 25/04/2024 10:37

I'm not a fan of ad hom attacks when it's things people can't help (background, physicality) as opposed to affectations or oversights (Johnson's hair, Sunak being out of touch, very fine line indeed but some of Rayner's northern schtick).

I can see why Starmer gives so little away.

However, I fail to see the ablism angle. How is Sunak disabled in any way by his height?

I agree it was a comment on the insubstantial nature of his leadership as much as or more than his physical stature which is a fair comment IMO even if expressed in a parliamentary rough and tumble manner.

IClaudine · 25/04/2024 10:36

Dudn't Dorries originally refer to Sunak as pint sized?

MrTiddlesTheCat · 25/04/2024 10:36

Is this the new line of attack seeing as the 'police investigation' was outed yesterday for the full on tory smear campaign it is?

(For anyone who missed it, the police chief behind the investigation was found to have attended right wing fringe events at the tory party conference and is mates with the tory who's been pushing for the witchhunt).

ShadesofPoachedSmoke · 25/04/2024 10:34

He's the Prime Minister, he's supposed to be running the country. He is not a child at school and shouldn't be treated like one. How do you think he can cope with tough decisions, confrontations with people like Putin if a comment about his height is such a big deal. I suppose all Putin needs to say is, "Hello shorty" and he can just take over the country, no need for military action.

Exactly.

OP bleating on about school friends. Really? Political life is extremely tough and to get anywhere near the top you have to have rhino hide skin. That comment wouldn't even make it into the top 1,000 jibes that have been fired across the benches in the last 10 years.

And don't look back through Hansard OP, some previous comments from prePC days will make you faint, you delicate little flower you.

CelesteCunningham · 25/04/2024 10:34

bombastix · 25/04/2024 10:32

@CelesteCunningham / I rate her. The Tories hate her. She is going to beat them. What a life she has had. I suspect they really hate her because she is likely to be radical. I would be too if I had had her life.

Exactly, what I see of her love.

randomchap · 25/04/2024 10:34

bombastix · 25/04/2024 10:27

Boris not tall. He's pretty short. His photos are done to make him look tall. Actually he is just chunky

He's 5 foot 9. I think that's pretty average for the UK.

Definitely not tall, and absolutely a terrible failure of a pm.

LaurieFairyCake · 25/04/2024 10:33

Oh fucks sake!

The Tories have fucked everyone so much and given all the money YOU AND I EARN to their rich mates !!

Who gives a FUCK about a bit of name calling

bombastix · 25/04/2024 10:32

@CelesteCunningham / I rate her. The Tories hate her. She is going to beat them. What a life she has had. I suspect they really hate her because she is likely to be radical. I would be too if I had had her life.

NeverEnoughPants · 25/04/2024 10:32

I didn't realise I was disabled because I'm short!

If you think that's abhorrent, you need to pay more attention to what goes on in Westminster. That's stuff that's way way worse than that. I'm short. I've been called pint-sized, fun-size, shorty and more. None of which has made me react in anything close to the way you have, and none of which made me feel anything close to disabled. The fact that you have had the gall to conflate the two is astonishing.

We can see which side of the political boundary you are on. That's fine. But this just smacks of a desperate attempt to reduce the number of people thinking about voting Labour. That seems to be happening more and more on mumsnet. I think the Tory PR machine needs to work on getting better people representing their party, rather than these frankly bizarre attempts to undermine Labour.

Fwiw, I won't be voting for either Tory or Labour, before I get accused of being biased.

ExtraOnions · 25/04/2024 10:30

I love Rayner … I love the way she triggers the right-wing snowflakes. With any luck they will all be so angry they may combust.

LittleBooThang · 25/04/2024 10:29

Oh calm down.

I am “pint sized”. You can’t be offended by everything ffs.

MrsSkylerWhite · 25/04/2024 10:29

ALovelyCupOfNameChange · Today 10:24
I thought she nailed PMqs yesterday”

So did I. Never been an huge fan.

bombastix · 25/04/2024 10:27

Boris not tall. He's pretty short. His photos are done to make him look tall. Actually he is just chunky

CelesteCunningham · 25/04/2024 10:27

bombastix · 25/04/2024 09:50

But you are all talking about PMQs!

How stupid is Angela Rayner? I think she seems cleverer than might first appear.

Why doesn't she appear clever on first impression?

I don't follow politics closely but to succeed in an arena like that that's dominated by middle- and upper middle class white men, a working class woman will typically be far more intelligent than the typical man in the same role. The backwards and in heels thing.

She's pretty formidable as far as I can see.

MrsSkylerWhite · 25/04/2024 10:27

So she’s horrendous referring to his height? (a quote from one of his colleagues, incidentally) but you can decide after hearing her speak for 5 minutes that she’s “unstable”?

Hypocrite. Again, please explain why you believe your username is appropriate. It certainly doesn’t appear to be so from some of your gibberish on this thread.

Iwasafool · 25/04/2024 10:27

DistinguishedSocialCommentator · 25/04/2024 09:58

Really.

Ask my friend, freind at school that was mocked for their lack of height every name under the sun. That friend of mine laughed it off at school. Then meeting this school fried by checne when out of hols we started talking about school and the person told me they fear coming into school and taking sick time off when they were not sick - it still happened now but that person now works for themselves and doing well but admitted it still hurts when they hear or know people are cing names etc

He's the Prime Minister, he's supposed to be running the country. He is not a child at school and shouldn't be treated like one. How do you think he can cope with tough decisions, confrontations with people like Putin if a comment about his height is such a big deal. I suppose all Putin needs to say is, "Hello shorty" and he can just take over the country, no need for military action.

ShadesofPoachedSmoke · 25/04/2024 10:27

It's PMQs. It's always been a bear pit of insults to get the back benchers riled up. Makes AIBU look like a tea party.

This just tells me you don't watch the Common often. Surprising, for such a Torybot.

And the Tories are by far the worst for retreating to personal insults when they are unable to deal with the question.

ReignOfError · 25/04/2024 10:27

It’s a quote from Nadine Dorries. I imagine Dowden knew that, which makes it a perfectly barbed comment.

fatshamedbyfamily · 25/04/2024 10:26

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