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My Mother Said She Wouldn't Die For Me.

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LostSoul89 · 25/04/2024 09:17

Morning all!

I've contemplated posting this for days but feared I'd look stupid. The back story is, me, my mum and my 18 year old daughter were watching a film the other night where hostages were being held at gun point and two of them were mother and son. The mother begged for her life to be taken to save her sons.

My daughter asked me if I'd do that for her, to which I replied "Of course, no doubt about it DD" . My daughter then asked my mum if she would do the same for me, to which she hastily replied "No". We thought she was joking at first but she was adamant she would put herself first. I got quite upset and said I would rather she had just lied to me.

It's not even the first time she's shown how selfish she is - two weeks ago I was staying at hers overnight and we thought we heard an intruder and she practically pushed me down the stairs to go and check! To add insult to injury - my mum is a fit, young 60 year old and I have disabilities that require a walking stick to walk.

Some people might think I'm being pathetic but I'm so hurt, I can stop thinking about what she said to me. I could maybe understand if I was a douche bag of a daughter but I'm not.

AIBU?

OP posts:
Stoptherideiwanttogetoff24 · 25/04/2024 09:22

It’s hard when you realise you don’t actually have a mum, I’m sorry she can’t be the mother to you that you deserve and well done to you for breaking the generational damage by doing better for your daughter.

123becauseicouldntthinkofone · 25/04/2024 09:20

What a cruel thing to say and do OP. Sorry your mum is a jerk!

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