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To be shocked by what DD told me about her workplace?

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whatinthenameofcrapisthis · 24/04/2024 18:29

DD(17) has a part time job at Greggs around her college hours. She told me today that they (the staff) regularly find used needles in the toilets from people injecting drugs, and that it's well known that particular people spend a long time in the toilets doing that. The same people also often shoplift sandwiches and drinks. I asked DD what the policy is for dealing with this, ie do they contact the police, and she said "we don't ring the police, we just report the drug use via a specified number", ie a drug hotline for Greggs itself (?), and that some staff have protective equipment to pick up needles. I was so baffled by this.

Surely used needles being left in toilets is a matter for the police? Greggs staff are not paid enough to have to deal with this surely? I told my daughter she should not be doing this.
Granted it's not the best area where the store is that she works at, lots of poverty and crime etc, but still... This has really shocked me!

AIBU to expect my teen daughter who is paid minimum wage in Greggs not to have to handle used needles?!

OP posts:
CurlsnSunshinetime4tea · 25/04/2024 02:45

hopefully they have proper needle disposal containers for those who are diabetic or take other injectable medications.
and yes janitorial staff or those with janitorial duties should have education on how to discard of items not properly disposed of, how to close the injectables container, how to store the container and when biohazards are picked up etc etc etc.

my son worked for a large factory bakery and the lunch room was fully stocked with pastries/bread etc so that the staff didn't need to take product.
related but not, the public toilet down the hall from my workplace office was a known meet up spot for sex.

Topsyturvy78 · 25/04/2024 02:02

When I was about 15 a friend of mines sister left her partner. She stayed with her parents until she was offered a flat. So we went round to help her clean and decorate and found a used needle under the sink. Luckily her DC weren't there. They were only about 2 and 4. We absolutely stripped that place to bits to make sure there was no more.

Topsyturvy78 · 25/04/2024 01:55

TeaPleaseX · 24/04/2024 20:36

When my dh worked at Sainsbury’s he got called down from upstairs as someone had actually shit on the floor for no reason.

Toilets were open and free and clean. But no they just shat in the middle of the aisle and walked around doing their shopping.
It gets worse...
They was barred and actually came back in a week later to ask to be unbarred 😩. No shame at all.

I remember someone doing this in B&M it was a woman. She wiped her arse on some baby clothes.

Topsyturvy78 · 25/04/2024 01:40

BabySnarkDoDoo · 24/04/2024 18:43

Do some Greggs have cafes? I don't think I've ever been to one with a customer toilet. If it's just a takeaway I didn't think they needed to provide toilet facilities. I agree it's not something your daughter should have to deal with. If they're shoplifters as well why doesn't the manager ban them?

Our 2 local ones have closed both were taken away only after opening a bigger premises with a cafe and toilets. We also have a newish 1 about 10 miles away with a cafe toilets and drive through. In the same town there's a smaller one with a few tables and chairs but they don't have to provide toilets.

Lilysienna1 · 25/04/2024 01:00

TopBitchoftheWitches · 24/04/2024 23:21

I was told by a police officer it isn't illegal to take drugs, it is to be in possession of them 🤷🏻‍♀️

I was coming here to say exactly this.

NoisySnail · 25/04/2024 00:25

This is reality if you work in hospitality. Not just Greggs.
The risks of disposing of needles is small anyway. You use a litter picker and put it in a sharps bin. You never touch the actual needle.

aridiculousargument · 25/04/2024 00:10

youspinmerightround22 · 24/04/2024 21:12

The language on this thread is abhorrent. Druggies/junkies, crack heads. These are real human people. The majority who have suffered incredible trauma which has led them down the path they are on. Very few people actively chose to wake up one day and have an addiction to drugs. Yes some addicts are arseholes but they would be arseholes either way.

👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

penjil · 25/04/2024 00:02

whatinthenameofcrapisthis · 24/04/2024 18:37

DD says they do supply this yes, but DD herself hasn't been specifically trained on dealing with this.

I'm just shocked that this is something she has to consider working in a sandwich shop/bakery. Maybe it's the area, it's well known as not being the best part of the city (we live on a different side).

Well, now you know how the other (lower) half live.and what they have to put up with on a day to day basis.

But thank goodness you live on the other side!

MintyFurball · 24/04/2024 23:42

I’d encourage her to find a new job fast. I used to clean in a few hotels, never saw anything like this and I preferred cleaning the bathrooms to changing bedding.

MintyFurball · 24/04/2024 23:40

My 17 yr old DC and friends aren’t dealing with this. They work in supermarkets with no public toilets, tutoring companies and swim teaching. DC has one friend who works in a Greggs but they are going to med school so maybe they don’t care.

Genevieva · 24/04/2024 23:27

They need to lock the loo and only make it available to customers who ask when buying food.

changeme4this · 24/04/2024 23:24

People are just disgusting.

VJBR · 24/04/2024 23:23

youspinmerightround22 · 24/04/2024 21:12

The language on this thread is abhorrent. Druggies/junkies, crack heads. These are real human people. The majority who have suffered incredible trauma which has led them down the path they are on. Very few people actively chose to wake up one day and have an addiction to drugs. Yes some addicts are arseholes but they would be arseholes either way.

Sorry But that’s what they are. What would you call them?

SD1978 · 24/04/2024 23:22

There isn't anything for the police to do, they need to lock the toilets if they don't already and make them customer use only. As long as they have been trained in safe disposal, and she isn't being expected to remove them it's out the training, there isn't anything else to be done. I've not been in the UK in a few years, but here (AUS) they have needle disposal bins in the toilets in high risk areas, and they are cleaned out by a company like sanitary bins are. Maybe something like that?

TopBitchoftheWitches · 24/04/2024 23:21

I was told by a police officer it isn't illegal to take drugs, it is to be in possession of them 🤷🏻‍♀️

Lassiata · 24/04/2024 23:20

whatinthenameofcrapisthis · 24/04/2024 18:29

DD(17) has a part time job at Greggs around her college hours. She told me today that they (the staff) regularly find used needles in the toilets from people injecting drugs, and that it's well known that particular people spend a long time in the toilets doing that. The same people also often shoplift sandwiches and drinks. I asked DD what the policy is for dealing with this, ie do they contact the police, and she said "we don't ring the police, we just report the drug use via a specified number", ie a drug hotline for Greggs itself (?), and that some staff have protective equipment to pick up needles. I was so baffled by this.

Surely used needles being left in toilets is a matter for the police? Greggs staff are not paid enough to have to deal with this surely? I told my daughter she should not be doing this.
Granted it's not the best area where the store is that she works at, lots of poverty and crime etc, but still... This has really shocked me!

AIBU to expect my teen daughter who is paid minimum wage in Greggs not to have to handle used needles?!

What else is new, OP? This has been going on forever.

StarlightLime · 24/04/2024 23:15

Blahdymcblahdyface · 24/04/2024 18:41

What are the police going to do ? Yes, it’s not pleasant but you do sound very naive

How profoundly depressing that op is considered to be naive.

CatOnTheLap · 24/04/2024 23:13

A couple of PPs have mentioned putting sharps bins in the toilet.

My DP is a tradesman who has worked in the local needle exchange….and still finds used needles in the toilets. This is a place that you are allowed to dispose of needles and not get asked questions, yet still people put their needles in the toilets not the sharps boxes.

It doesn’t give me a lot of faith that the drug users in OP’s daughter’s workplace toilets would actually use the sharps box if one was provided.

PassingStranger · 24/04/2024 23:12

How disgusting. Same thing apparantely used to happen at the job centres toilets, they got rid of them, penalising people who might genuinely want or need to use them.
Men use to meet other men in toilets for sex too, spoiling it for genuine people.
How vile, people wanting to use public toilets for these activities. Couldn't give a shit about anyone else could they?
Find someone else.

Scarletttulips · 24/04/2024 23:10

The language on this thread is abhorrent. Druggies/junkies, crack heads. These are real human people. The majority who have suffered incredible trauma which has led them down the path they are on. Very few people actively chose to wake up one day and have an addiction to drugs. Yes some addicts are arseholes but they would be arseholes either way.

Are you volunteering your children to clear up after them?

DD works in a nice jobs where they are expected to take in used needles, they get free boxes to put them in, most people rock up with them in their pockets and expect DD to take them off them.

She refuses as she doesn’t have the correct training or safety equipment.

MuseumAssistant · 24/04/2024 23:06

whatinthenameofcrapisthis · 24/04/2024 18:37

DD says they do supply this yes, but DD herself hasn't been specifically trained on dealing with this.

I'm just shocked that this is something she has to consider working in a sandwich shop/bakery. Maybe it's the area, it's well known as not being the best part of the city (we live on a different side).

I work in a quaint little museum and we have to occasionally pick up needles and used condoms from our grounds.

We don't need training, we just use a litter picker and put the needles straight into a sharps box.

EnglishBluebell · 24/04/2024 23:05

If it's in a high crime, dodgy area then why on earth are you allowing her to work there....?!

ClareBlue · 24/04/2024 23:05

downbutnotouttake969 · 24/04/2024 22:05

Oh dear you have been blinded by middle class privilege and now your daughter has to see the reality for some people you are surprised and worried.

Wake up and see the world around you outside of your protective bubble of his is life in the UK.

Without the protection of your privilege this is life for many many people trying to survive when the ruling classes that you want to be part of are - well the in the simplest terms liars bully's and thieves

What a load of sanctimonious rubbish. The vast majority of people who struggle day to day to feed themselves do not steal, do not inject class A drugs and leave needles with blood products on them for someone else to clean up. People like you normalise this behaviour by saying it's the real world. It's not. It might be for some, but that doesn't mean anyone who is shocked by it is some elite, entitled, middle class person disconnected from reality. There is no shame in working, paying taxes to fund all the services everyone demands and making society actually function. Then along come sneering people like you saying people who do this are all privileged and blinded to real life.

babyproblems · 24/04/2024 23:02

I mean I don’t think Greggs are a Good employer.. I’m not surprised what they expect staff to do. The police equally pay terrible pay and are chronically understaffed. What would you expect them to do?? Arrest the drug users and then what? There’s almost no social services or mental health services left.
Im a bit shocked you are so shocked at it all.. surely you’ve seen what has been happening politically in the UK over the last 15 years and the total lack of public services. And the erosion of employee protection. Who do you think cares about staff at Greggs on minimum wage? And drug users? Certainly not a Tory government. Come on op

slore · 24/04/2024 22:52

Unfortunately police don't bother to turn up for minor crimes, or even mid-level crimes sometimes.

Agree about code locks, also Greggs should put a medical waste bin in the loos for the junkies to keep it contained.

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