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To be shocked by what DD told me about her workplace?

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whatinthenameofcrapisthis · 24/04/2024 18:29

DD(17) has a part time job at Greggs around her college hours. She told me today that they (the staff) regularly find used needles in the toilets from people injecting drugs, and that it's well known that particular people spend a long time in the toilets doing that. The same people also often shoplift sandwiches and drinks. I asked DD what the policy is for dealing with this, ie do they contact the police, and she said "we don't ring the police, we just report the drug use via a specified number", ie a drug hotline for Greggs itself (?), and that some staff have protective equipment to pick up needles. I was so baffled by this.

Surely used needles being left in toilets is a matter for the police? Greggs staff are not paid enough to have to deal with this surely? I told my daughter she should not be doing this.
Granted it's not the best area where the store is that she works at, lots of poverty and crime etc, but still... This has really shocked me!

AIBU to expect my teen daughter who is paid minimum wage in Greggs not to have to handle used needles?!

OP posts:
Yummymummy2020 · 25/04/2024 07:58

Sadly op it is like this in many retail cafe jobs. I have worked in a few and it was just part of my job. Sad and you are not paid enough for what you have to deal with. I used to work in the health service, and this stuff was a reason many people are keen on injecting rooms, to contain all the used syringes and active drug using to try reduce it from happening in random public toilets and on the street. It is awful having to clean it up without a doubt.

HMW1906 · 25/04/2024 07:55

The police aren’t going to come everytime a syringe is left in the toilets somewhere, it won’t just be Greggs toilets that they use it will be multiple places around the town, do you really think the police have enough resources to go around and collect all the used needles every day 🙄. It’s not ideal but it sounds like Greggs has a policy in place and staff who have had training to deal with it. It
doesn’t sound like your daughter is being asked to deal with it yet so I wouldn’t worry about it.
if you’re not happy about it you need to find her another job that’s not in the town centre (or doesn’t have public toilets).

Nextdoor55 · 25/04/2024 07:52

whatinthenameofcrapisthis · 24/04/2024 18:30

I forgot to add that they don't even report the shoplifting culprits to the police anymore it's so commonplace!

This is not an uncommon policy. My DD used to work at Aldi & they aren't allowed to challenge shoplifters & the police aren't interested

suki1964 · 25/04/2024 07:49

notedbiscuits · 25/04/2024 06:26

My colleague worked for Premier Inn in a hotel between two towns on a A road. She has found poo smeared everywhere- curtains, ceiling, bedding, kettle etc. Why would anyone stoop that low to do something like that?

Friends here took over a pub/BnB just down the road from me, about as rural as you get in NI. Spent a fortune doing the rooms up. First weekend let - the occupants smeared shit literally everywhere as well as trashing the room - ripping the bedding up, pulling the curtain tracks off the walls soaking the carpet etc

They sold up because of the trauma of it

Woohow · 25/04/2024 07:29

They'd be better off putting a sharps bin in the toilets so staff don't come into contact with the needles but I guess its not a good look. Really the drug users should be disposing of their own sharps in the container they are given with their needles but it's not the job of a Greggs employee to enforce that!

Trepidfox · 25/04/2024 07:22

Hi OP have you or anyone you know ever worked in retail or restaurants? I'm afraid it is part and parcel of the stuff you have to deal with. The general public can be a absolutely gross at times and that goes from homeless drug users to supposedly responsible parents who allow their kids to do the most outrageous things and expect others to clear up their mess. The drug users accessing the toilets will be well known to the police and emergency services. They should put a lock on the door but then they'll pester people like your daughter to open it up. For balance, I worked at a gym that had sharps bins in the toilets. Although it sounds horrendous, it was better than us as employees having to empty bins with needles from steroid using members who then go on to take selfies of themselves with their tops off and upload to their 'influencer' Society is going to hell 🤣😵

PotatoPudding · 25/04/2024 07:17

whatinthenameofcrapisthis · 24/04/2024 18:39

@KeyWorker
Also they wouldn't need to fingerprint the needles, the shop has CCTV so would show the person who'd spent 20 mins in the toilet before the needles were found. What if a child went in before the staff had discovered them? It's just awful.

But that would just be circumstantial. Spending a long time in the toilet isn’t going to get someone convicted.

Police definitely won’t come out cos a couple of sandwiches have been nicked.

A lot of Gregs don’t have toilets for this reason. They should have a daily door code like a lot of Starbucks and other places.

It absolutely sucks and I don’t condone or accept it in any way, but there’s so little that can be done about it.

notedbiscuits · 25/04/2024 06:34

TeaPleaseX · 24/04/2024 20:36

When my dh worked at Sainsbury’s he got called down from upstairs as someone had actually shit on the floor for no reason.

Toilets were open and free and clean. But no they just shat in the middle of the aisle and walked around doing their shopping.
It gets worse...
They was barred and actually came back in a week later to ask to be unbarred 😩. No shame at all.

Anyone who has/works for a DIY store with bathroom suite displays has had the joy of cleaning out someone’s poo from one of the displays’ toilets!

You got to have something wrong with you if you do a shit where you have no control over who walks past in the time it takes to empty your bowels.

We sold potties and a mother decided to let her DD use it and left the contents in potty on the shelf. Yet the toilet was ten steps away.

whatinthenameofcrapisthis · 25/04/2024 06:31

Oh and I happened to mention that we live on a different side of the city to the high crime area, because... well, why wouldn't you choose the safer area, if you had that choice??? Anyone would surely!? 😂

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whatinthenameofcrapisthis · 25/04/2024 06:30

Hilarious the lengths people will go to, to literally invent a whole narrative about a person online. All I've shared about myself is that I have a 17 year old daughter with a part time job in a bakery, who is exposed to drug use / paraphernalia and shoplifting during her shifts and that it surprised me that Greggs don't bother notifying the police about these things. And now I'm "middle class" and "privileged" and striving to be a part of the "higher classes" or whatever 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Fucking hell. If that poster could seen by background they'd cringe at calling me middle class and privileged.

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whatinthenameofcrapisthis · 25/04/2024 06:27

@downbutnotouttake969

"The ruling classes that I want to be a part of"
😂😂😂😂

What are you harping on about?! 😂

Seriously, you know fuck all about me

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notedbiscuits · 25/04/2024 06:26

MintyFurball · 24/04/2024 23:42

I’d encourage her to find a new job fast. I used to clean in a few hotels, never saw anything like this and I preferred cleaning the bathrooms to changing bedding.

My colleague worked for Premier Inn in a hotel between two towns on a A road. She has found poo smeared everywhere- curtains, ceiling, bedding, kettle etc. Why would anyone stoop that low to do something like that?

whatinthenameofcrapisthis · 25/04/2024 06:25

downbutnotouttake969 · 24/04/2024 22:05

Oh dear you have been blinded by middle class privilege and now your daughter has to see the reality for some people you are surprised and worried.

Wake up and see the world around you outside of your protective bubble of his is life in the UK.

Without the protection of your privilege this is life for many many people trying to survive when the ruling classes that you want to be part of are - well the in the simplest terms liars bully's and thieves

Fuck me what patronising bollcks is this?!

I grew up in adject poverty in a one parent family. I'm in no way middle class or privileged. But thanks for that ridiculously (incorrect) judgemental tone

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whatinthenameofcrapisthis · 25/04/2024 06:23

How profoundly depressing that op is considered to be naive.*

Totally agree

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whatinthenameofcrapisthis · 25/04/2024 06:21

EnglishBluebell · 24/04/2024 23:05

If it's in a high crime, dodgy area then why on earth are you allowing her to work there....?!

She's 17, not 7. I don't police all of her life choices. Nor would that be healthy for her. This was the branch of Greggs that had a vacancy when she was interviewed, she wasn't to know at first how bad it would be. Yes, we knew it wasn't the best area of the city but did I expect her to be exposed to drug paraphernalia in the toilets on a daily basis? No, I honestly didn't. I expected rude customers yes, but not this. It's shocked us both, and as I said, she's actively looking elsewhere and also is going to request move to a different Greggs branch

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notedbiscuits · 25/04/2024 06:21

My hairdresser’s DD works in a Greggs in the city centre (their largest one in the county) shopping centre. They wear body cams yet the one about 7 mins walk from me - the staff don’t.

i agree with the code on the door changing or lock it at all times but unlock it when someone purchases something or collects a TooGoodToGo bag.

As it’s a customer toilet, not a public toilet.

The supermarket where I work has a toilet- don’t have a cafe. Many years ago we kept it locked unless a customer requested it. As a woman used to drink vodka and wine in there, leaving the empties. It was a combination of booze nicked from other shops (had competitors name on label) stuff she nicked from the store. Unsure what happened to her - died, rehab, moved away (own choice or forced by courts), prison etc.

Subway in the area of shops where my work is keeps their toilet door locked.

Lokipokey1 · 25/04/2024 06:10

My brother worked in a library and had the same problem. They also used to have sex workers using the toilet as a place of work and had to play the fun game of ‘is it water or urine on the seat?’

Simonjt · 25/04/2024 05:39

I worked as a waiter when I was younger in a very expensive two star restaurant, needs in the toilets were common place, toilets in nicer places are often more popular as you’re less likely to be caught etc.

They just need to go in a sharps bin, most places of work will have them.

sunights · 25/04/2024 05:19

Also as without more resources to tackle issues (not just policing but backlogs in courts, overcrowded prisons, underfunded health care which is where addiction would be treated) - businesses are left to take responsibility.

This means they need put enough staff on duty to monitor goods (so they don't get nicked) and or put security guards.

For Contextual, can you imagine Arkwright in Open All Hours letting someone get away with shoplifting?

We've moved to a consumerist culture where we want things on show and fast-yself service (or where business prioritise cheap prices or profits over having more staff) and then complain about the consequences!

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=HVFtyGAYaEw

Open All Hours - s01e06 - Apples And Self Service

Open All HoursSeason One, Episode Six - 26 Mar. 1976Arkwright has bought too many apples and desperately tries in vain to persuade each successive customer t...

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=HVFtyGAYaEw

sunights · 25/04/2024 05:07

whatinthenameofcrapisthis · 24/04/2024 19:01

I’m not actually sure what constitutes a crime that the police attend these days but it’s a great time to be a criminal.

For me, this has hit the nail on the head. I was shocked that this isn't considered a police matter, that the staff are told just don't even bother calling the police for either the class A drug use or the theft. 🙁

Town centre locations with higher levels of crime and antisocial behaviour often have crime and disorder reduction partnerships schemes where shops and businesses input information to an app to help identify repeat shoplifters so that multiagency plans can be put in place to tackle their offending and the underlying needs that are driving it. This is probably the Greggs online reporting tool she is using.

This is needed because of the law and prosecution thresholds mentioned further up (e.g. it allows offences in multiple locations to be considered)/because the law makes it hard to prove some of the things OP is talking about (e.g. coming out of a toilet that had no needles in prove cannot prove drug use within the toilet so there) AND because supports like drug treatment legally have to be entered into voluntarily and helping to show a homeless person a pattern of their behaviour and its impact can help them to make those choices.

Staff handling needles should have been risk assessed and given training and personal protective equipment (or the employer could face a lawsuit if there was contamination and injury) - and ime this is valuable work and life experience for your DD on an issue which is becoming more and more serious and prevalent I'm very sorry to say.

Wishing DD the best of luck and hope she feels able to continue in the role.

Fraaahnces · 25/04/2024 03:41

Surely sharps containers would make everyone’s employment safer…

dessyh · 25/04/2024 03:12

This greggs needs to offer the local police freebies or huge discounts. Then they'll never be out of there.

BathshebaEverdene1 · 25/04/2024 03:08

I don't know why you're so shocked and surprised.
You can't even use the loo in our local library any more and it had UV lights...
It's not just about jacking up its crack smoking etc.
Have you not noticed the blue lights and sloping cistern covers in pub bogs at all over the last 30 years?

TempestTost · 25/04/2024 03:01

youspinmerightround22 · 24/04/2024 21:12

The language on this thread is abhorrent. Druggies/junkies, crack heads. These are real human people. The majority who have suffered incredible trauma which has led them down the path they are on. Very few people actively chose to wake up one day and have an addiction to drugs. Yes some addicts are arseholes but they would be arseholes either way.

Being an addict absolutely makes many people, who would not otherwise be arseholes, into arseholes.

TempestTost · 25/04/2024 02:51

I work in a library, this is a huge issue there. We do have sharps bins in the toilets, and many do use them, but not all.

Many people working in libraries, and it seems all the people working in the differernt government departments and charities, seem to take the view that this needs to be accommodated because addicts are marginalized. The area around the church I attend has a needle exchange nearby and so we find them all over - the workers will come out to do clean-ups periodically but of course it's never enough.

I feel sad for the addicts, I'm not unacquainted with what a burden it is, and I like many of the ones I see regularly as people - but increasingly I feel like non-addicts just living their lives, wanting to have their kids play in the neighbourhood (or even at the library, where we found a needle that had fallen out of someone's stuff in the children's area,) are given zero consideration by those making best practice recommendations, or creating services.

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