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Male Nursery Staff

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herei · 24/04/2024 15:59

My child is in Nursery after my return to work. They nursery chain have been hiring make staff recently. My child's nursery has 3 male staff.

My daughter's nappy was changed by a male member of staff. For my own personal reasons I feel upset about this but not sure if I can even say or do anything. I just don't like it.

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ScarlettOBan · 24/04/2024 16:05

Tandora · 24/04/2024 16:02

Oh for gods sakes

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Sorry, should we be assuming that all males are also paedophiles? Is that the insinuation or is there another reason I am missing?

Warrantedrab · 24/04/2024 16:05

If you’re not happy move nurseries.

Marblessolveeverything · 24/04/2024 16:04

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And this is the reason certain occupations will never flourish. Sexism, spend years telling young girls you may be what you want now we are telling boys you can't work with young children 😭

VainAbigail · 24/04/2024 16:04

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What utter bullshit.

SharedAccountWithMySister · 24/04/2024 16:04

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How is it not safe for the kids?

anchoviesanchovies · 24/04/2024 16:04

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Seriously? Every single man is a threat?

anchoviesanchovies · 24/04/2024 16:03

You are being unreasonable. I agree with ScarlettOBan, would it be a problem the other way round? Obviously they have been crb checked in order to be working there.

Lassiata · 24/04/2024 16:03

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Wow. Bullshit. My brother worked in a nursery for several years.

Tandora · 24/04/2024 16:02

ScarlettOBan · 24/04/2024 16:01

The majority of nursery staff are female and they change boys nappies.

Would you be uncomfortable with a female changing your son’s nappy if you had a son?

Oh for gods sakes

MalibuBarbieDreamHouse · 24/04/2024 16:02

I think it’s great that theres more men in early years. Not happy? Move nurseries.

LambertndButler · 24/04/2024 16:02

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ScarlettOBan · 24/04/2024 16:01

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Why? Genuinely interested to understand that opinion.

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ScarlettOBan · 24/04/2024 16:01

The majority of nursery staff are female and they change boys nappies.

Would you be uncomfortable with a female changing your son’s nappy if you had a son?

Motnight · 24/04/2024 16:00

If you aren't happy with the staff at the nursery, for whatever reason, then remove your child.

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herei · 24/04/2024 15:59

Sorry for spellings I meant Male

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