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People who drive 40 everywhere

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PeRiO · 23/04/2024 18:26

Sorry this subject has probably been done to death but I let it really annoy me today so just want to get it off my chest 🤣
AIBU to be annoyed at people who drive 40mph everywhere? Following a car home today, I live in a small village of which the road to it varies between 30/60. It isn't a bad road, fairly straight on the 60 bits but I appreciate 60 isn't a target speed but it riles me up when said car is happy to speed in the 30 bits but not willing to go a little faster in the 60 bits.

Anyone else?

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lazyarse123 · 24/04/2024 15:30

My DH s getting a bit apprehensive about driving so doesn't do it any more. But he sometimes says to me "it's not a race slow down a bit" this is when i'm doing about 50 in a 60 which I do if I know I'm not holding anyone up. If it's a good road and busy then I drive to the conditions.
I used to have a 2 litre Mondeo which had a lot of power and so much fun to drive I now have a Fiesta which is fine and nippy but I do miss the power of the bigger car.

Allfur · 24/04/2024 15:28

MockneyReject · 24/04/2024 14:58

Really?
You don't understand why people on a tight schedule get upset when inconsiderate drivers cause them problems?

We're all busy, you make adjustments to your schedule to accommodate, no point in road raging

Allfur · 24/04/2024 15:27

MockneyReject · 24/04/2024 15:11

Or you're a courier, or a carer/district nurse, or you're delivering groceries or driving a taxi or an ambulance, or one of many, many road users whose employer sets the travel times you're allowed, between visits/drops.

Not sure how driving a taxi is affected, you either charge for time or distance

MockneyReject · 24/04/2024 15:11

Allfur · 24/04/2024 11:36

Unless you're performing emergency brain surgery, you could just chill out and accept that's the nature of driving on over crowded roads, getting so impatient and angry is dangerous

Or you're a courier, or a carer/district nurse, or you're delivering groceries or driving a taxi or an ambulance, or one of many, many road users whose employer sets the travel times you're allowed, between visits/drops.

RampantIvy · 24/04/2024 15:00

That makes more sense @VikingLady.
I can't think of many fast roads that have a short uphill slip road to join them. That sounds like poor road planning.

I do a lot of motorway driving and all the uphill sliproads are long enough to build up a bit of speed on.

MockneyReject · 24/04/2024 14:58

Allfur · 23/04/2024 20:25

I don't understand the mindset if people who get so upset about saving a few minutes here and there

Really?
You don't understand why people on a tight schedule get upset when inconsiderate drivers cause them problems?

VikingLady · 24/04/2024 14:40

I just realised going through my post and changing the autocorrects back to real English, I somehow deleted the bit that explained which sliproads I can't get up to speed on - it's just a couple that go uphill on the way to join! I'm fine on the rest, no problem at all. But my car simply does not accelerate uphill, regardless of gear (tested extensively since I drive that way every week).

I couldn't understand why people didn't believe me!

BIossomtoes · 24/04/2024 14:12

taxguru · 24/04/2024 11:55

Is the dashed line at the end of the slip road a single line or a double line of dashes? There's a difference, that lots of people don't understand/notice the difference. On motorways it's a single dashed line as it is on some dual carriageways. At junctions on other dual carriageways it's a double dashed line which means "Give Way" so stopping is actually usually the right thing to do if the major road is busy when there's a doubled dashed line as that means give way just as it would at a normal road junction where you stop and wait for a space on the main road.

It’s a single dashed line. Honestly the road markings are irrelevant, it’s an absolute bastard of an entrance to a very fast dual carriageway, not helped because it’s not also an exit so there are no countdown markers to prompt traffic to move into the outside lane to allow traffic on. It’s a miracle there aren’t more accidents on that stretch.

Soigneur · 24/04/2024 14:07

taxguru · 24/04/2024 11:49

But that's because there'll be a 30/40/50 restriction sign on the other side of the pole. ALL restricted roads must have a restriction sign on ALL side roads leading onto it, so where that happens they have to put another sign on the pole facing the other way to show the restriction/NSL. You make it look like someone has purposely decided that road is "fit" for NLS, whereas it's a consequence of imposing a restriction on the main road right behind the photography.

Yeah, it's a 30 up to there, and then an NSL beyond. It isn't even tarmaced - it's basically foot-deep ruts and boulders and no-one drives up it unless in a tractor or a very serious 4x4. Great on a mountain bike or horse though.

pelotonaddiction · 24/04/2024 12:46

@dustyspring the one I am talking about is a short slip road up a hill
I genuinely rev to the limits of my gears and have had the car 10 years so I know it well!
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MereDintofPandiculation · 24/04/2024 12:09

If you're too nervous to drive - don't That's not realistic though. nearly everyone is nervous when they first pass their test and do their first solo trip - the few that aren't are a menace). And between us in this democracy we have created a society where in most of the country a car is all but necessary. So if that's the way we want to play it, we need to make it possible for almost everyone to be able to drive, which means sometimes being delayed by slower drivers, by keeping a good eye on what other drivers are doing. and by being clear and definite in our own driving so other people can understand what we're doing.

dustyspring · 24/04/2024 12:09

VikingLady · 24/04/2024 09:08

Some of us have cars that take a really, really long time to speed up. I have a 1.2 and there are motorway slip roads I just can't/wont take because it's literally not possible to get up above 40 in my car by the time I hit the motorway. I had no idea of the limitations of a tiny car full of heavy people!

(In the same vein, I can only overtake on motorways on the flat or downhill - seriously. So I allow for that and just don't do it!)

I don't think that's normal, I have a 1.0 litre and I still manage to join the motorway at 70, or just under 70 if I have a lot in the boot.

taxguru · 24/04/2024 12:04

Yesterday had this. Behind some moron who went through the 30mph limit village of Tebay at 40mph and then carried on at 40mph on the NSL straight road towards Kirkby Stephen. The road is the trackbed of the old railway line so basically straight with very good visibility for several miles. Oncoming traffic meant it hard to overtake safely. The road is as below. Absolutely no reason for any half competent driver not to do 60mph. But a half competent driver wouldn't have gone through the 30mph at 40, would they?

https://www.google.com/maps/@54.4379359,-2.5905796,3a,75y,25.77h,92.84t/data=!3m6!1e1!3m4!1spTUG3llXs8tfUYFC-gm0ww!2e0!7i16384!8i8192?entry=ttu

Before you continue to Google Maps

https://www.google.com/maps/@54.4379359,-2.5905796,3a,75y,25.77h,92.84t/data=!3m6!1e1!3m4!1spTUG3llXs8tfUYFC-gm0ww!2e0!7i16384!8i8192?entry=ttu

MereDintofPandiculation · 24/04/2024 12:03

Misthios · 24/04/2024 10:08

Everyone knows that. It's obvious. Today is bright, sunny, dry and warm. Would I drive the same way today as I would on a dark, wet and icy day in January? Of course not. Most drivers have common sense and drive to the conditions.

This whole thread is about drivers who do NOT adjust their driving speed to the conditions or speed limits, but just have 35-38 mph as their default setting.

that's not quite what @blossomtoes was saying. She was saying that there are many NSL roads where it is unsafe to drive anywhere near the NSL road even on a bright, sunny, dry warm day when the road is dry and the sun is not in your eyes.

What bugs me is people pottering at 45 or less on a wide A road with good visibility, who then see the "Slow" sign at a bend and hit the brakes. "They didn't mean YOU!" I find myself yelling.

Bobbotgegrinch · 24/04/2024 12:02

MereDintofPandiculation · 24/04/2024 11:55

Oh goodness! I'd probably do 35 on that. I thought you were going to show us something like this

I was going for something more like that, but the one I was thinking of has actually had the limit changed to 30 recently, so I had to find another option.

The one I posted is probably fine at 35 for most of it, aside from one very sharp right hander that comes out of nowhere. I've seen a few people who've ploughed into the gate of the chicken farm because they've not spotted it in time.

MereDintofPandiculation · 24/04/2024 11:55

Bobbotgegrinch · 23/04/2024 22:46

It entirely depends on the road. There's plenty of tiny little country lanes that are national speed limit, but you'd have to be an absolute nutter to do 40 on them, let alone 60.

Like this one - https://www.google.com/maps/@51.5915376,-4.0687904,3a,75y,110.43h,88.78t/data=!3m6!1e1!3m4!1s9Ok_6pFwhxTwKz9nwGoWAg!2e0!7i16384!8i8192?entry=ttu

You drive to the conditions of the road. If its narrow or winding, you slow down. If it's pissing down, or visibility is bad, or unlit, you slow down.

You might fail your test for driving significantly under the limit when there's no reason to, but it's perfectly legal and even desirable in lots of situations.

Oh goodness! I'd probably do 35 on that. I thought you were going to show us something like this

Before you continue to Google Maps

https://www.google.com/maps/@54.2806702,-2.4500659,3a,75y,291.83h,82.47t/data=!3m7!1e1!3m5!1sfx8nFXtsnv8kMP_GWozFMg!2e0!6shttps:%2F%2Fstreetviewpixels-pa.googleapis.com%2Fv1%2Fthumbnail%3Fpanoid%3Dfx8nFXtsnv8kMP_GWozFMg%26cb_client%3Dmaps_sv.tactile.gps%26w%3D203%26h%3D100%26yaw%3D213.27486%26pitch%3D0%26thumbfov%3D100!7i16384!8i8192?entry=ttu

taxguru · 24/04/2024 11:55

BIossomtoes · 24/04/2024 11:39

All sliproads aren’t equal. I regularly use a very short one with very poor visibility - essentially you can’t see a thing until you’re virtually on the road. It’s a road heavily used by huge lorries. Basically you have to stop completely nine times out of ten or you’d get totalled.

Is the dashed line at the end of the slip road a single line or a double line of dashes? There's a difference, that lots of people don't understand/notice the difference. On motorways it's a single dashed line as it is on some dual carriageways. At junctions on other dual carriageways it's a double dashed line which means "Give Way" so stopping is actually usually the right thing to do if the major road is busy when there's a doubled dashed line as that means give way just as it would at a normal road junction where you stop and wait for a space on the main road.

taxguru · 24/04/2024 11:49

Soigneur · 24/04/2024 10:22

Oh, that's nothing, this is a 60mph limit road near me, note the sign helpfully saying "Unsuitable for motor vehicles beyond this point" right before the national speed limit sign.

But that's because there'll be a 30/40/50 restriction sign on the other side of the pole. ALL restricted roads must have a restriction sign on ALL side roads leading onto it, so where that happens they have to put another sign on the pole facing the other way to show the restriction/NSL. You make it look like someone has purposely decided that road is "fit" for NLS, whereas it's a consequence of imposing a restriction on the main road right behind the photography.

YoureAGoodManArthurMorgan · 24/04/2024 11:44

Allfur · 24/04/2024 11:36

Unless you're performing emergency brain surgery, you could just chill out and accept that's the nature of driving on over crowded roads, getting so impatient and angry is dangerous

I agree with you that getting angry when driving is dangerous. It's natural to get frustrated by bad driving, but actual anger has no place on the road.

That said, I find driving at a speed you fancy, not making effective progress, and then saying everyone else should chill out about it shows an arrogance that shouldn't be on the road either.

BIossomtoes · 24/04/2024 11:39

All sliproads aren’t equal. I regularly use a very short one with very poor visibility - essentially you can’t see a thing until you’re virtually on the road. It’s a road heavily used by huge lorries. Basically you have to stop completely nine times out of ten or you’d get totalled.

Allfur · 24/04/2024 11:36

Unless you're performing emergency brain surgery, you could just chill out and accept that's the nature of driving on over crowded roads, getting so impatient and angry is dangerous

RampantIvy · 24/04/2024 11:24

VikingLady · 24/04/2024 09:08

Some of us have cars that take a really, really long time to speed up. I have a 1.2 and there are motorway slip roads I just can't/wont take because it's literally not possible to get up above 40 in my car by the time I hit the motorway. I had no idea of the limitations of a tiny car full of heavy people!

(In the same vein, I can only overtake on motorways on the flat or downhill - seriously. So I allow for that and just don't do it!)

Many years ago the local police offered free driving courses, so I duly went along to see if I could unlearn some bad habits. At the time we lived near a dual carriageway with a sliproad to join it.

I wasn't driving fast enough and the policeman told me that you should always join a dual carriageway or motorway at the same spred as the traffic on the inside lane. He said it was much safer to brake than to try and speed up.

It sounds like you are changing gear too early.

Ladyj84 · 24/04/2024 10:33

My 2 bugs are drivers doing 30 all the way where we are and people who do not use dual and motorway lanes correctly

Soigneur · 24/04/2024 10:28

Oh, and this one, I would have loved to know what the Google maps car driver was thinking when driving up here.

People who drive 40 everywhere
Teddleshon · 24/04/2024 10:27

This drives me insane but the worst part for me is not the 40 in the 60 zone (although that can be infuriating) but the 40 in the 30 zone. I just can’t stand people driving past playgrounds in villages etc at that speed.

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