Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

People who drive 40 everywhere

333 replies

PeRiO · 23/04/2024 18:26

Sorry this subject has probably been done to death but I let it really annoy me today so just want to get it off my chest 🤣
AIBU to be annoyed at people who drive 40mph everywhere? Following a car home today, I live in a small village of which the road to it varies between 30/60. It isn't a bad road, fairly straight on the 60 bits but I appreciate 60 isn't a target speed but it riles me up when said car is happy to speed in the 30 bits but not willing to go a little faster in the 60 bits.

Anyone else?

OP posts:
New posts on this thread. Refresh page
Thread gallery
7
lazyarse123 · 26/05/2024 10:26

I had this on Friday, managed to not let it outwardly aggravate me. But then on the way back I got another one and overtook it, car coming the other way flashed me even though he was nowhere near because I'm not an idiot unlike 50% of the other twats on the road.
DH decided to say "we're not in a rush" so he got shouted at "this car's got 5 fucking gears I'd like to use them all. Some people shouldn't be allowed to drive.

fliptopbin · 26/05/2024 10:18

I think the only time it is understandable is on those really annoying roads that change speed limit every 5 minutes, and half of the speed signs are obscured by bushes. And if you join it from a country road, well you just have to guess. Of course, the road like that near me is the one where police speed detector vans like to hide out.

herecomesthesun24 · 26/05/2024 10:13

I got stuck behind one of these fools yesterday- exactly that 40 on normal rd, dry conditions in daylight(with stuff coming the other way so not safe to overtake for a while) then they sped through a village!

It’s actually harder to drive so slowly on the open rd, I don’t understand what is wrong with them? Unless they have reduced or impaired reaction times, in which case they shouldn’t be driving at all!

BingoMarieHeeler · 07/05/2024 07:56

taxguru · 06/05/2024 12:21

Even worse are the fools who are the last car in a line of traffic who flash to let you in/across! Just why? They're the last car and you can easily/safely move once they're passed which is probably the same timescale as them slowing down to let you in!

Ugh yes I hate that so much. Get that all the time coming out of our driveway. Totally clear behind the flasher 🙄 and then by the time I’ve actually started pulling out (as was expecting to let the flasher go ahead of me as per the rules, so not fully prepared to pull out myself), a car has come from the other direction!!! 😤

taxguru · 06/05/2024 12:21

Teddleshon · 06/05/2024 08:32

@Porridgeislife couldn’t agree more on the flashing to tell you to go hence ignoring road rules. I’ve seen a couple of bad accidents happen as a direct result of this, one at a junction and one at a pedestrian crossing.

It is so much safer if everyone sticks to the road rules.

Even worse are the fools who are the last car in a line of traffic who flash to let you in/across! Just why? They're the last car and you can easily/safely move once they're passed which is probably the same timescale as them slowing down to let you in!

Teddleshon · 06/05/2024 08:32

@Porridgeislife couldn’t agree more on the flashing to tell you to go hence ignoring road rules. I’ve seen a couple of bad accidents happen as a direct result of this, one at a junction and one at a pedestrian crossing.

It is so much safer if everyone sticks to the road rules.

TimeForTeaAndG · 05/05/2024 13:05

Porridgeislife · 05/05/2024 12:56

The problem is that people start to expect it and lose the ability to “merge like a zip” and you end up with the motorway slowing down to a crawl at each junction.

See also: people turning right out of an intersection across a busy road. The number of people locally who try to force their way out when they don’t have right of way is insane.

I hate it when drivers slow down and flash me to let me out because a) the road rules exist for a reason and b) it’s going to be entirely my fault if something goes wrong.

Edited

Exactly. A courtesy is nice but if I can see someone coming up the outside I'm not moving over, it may look clear to the one on the slip road. So I don't accept the pp assertion that drivers who don't move over are weirdos.

Porridgeislife · 05/05/2024 12:56

Shade17 · 05/05/2024 12:25

No, but if you can it’s a nice bit of courtesy

The problem is that people start to expect it and lose the ability to “merge like a zip” and you end up with the motorway slowing down to a crawl at each junction.

See also: people turning right out of an intersection across a busy road. The number of people locally who try to force their way out when they don’t have right of way is insane.

I hate it when drivers slow down and flash me to let me out because a) the road rules exist for a reason and b) it’s going to be entirely my fault if something goes wrong.

BIossomtoes · 05/05/2024 12:53

TimeForTeaAndG · 05/05/2024 11:22

People already on the main carriageway do not have to move over for those joining. It is up to those joining to do so safely and to merge with the traffic.

No they don’t but I was taught to do so and am intensely grateful when other drivers are thoughtful enough to do it.

Shade17 · 05/05/2024 12:25

TimeForTeaAndG · 05/05/2024 11:22

People already on the main carriageway do not have to move over for those joining. It is up to those joining to do so safely and to merge with the traffic.

No, but if you can it’s a nice bit of courtesy

TimeForTeaAndG · 05/05/2024 11:22

Moreorlessmentallystable · 04/05/2024 22:02

People often do not know what's the speed limit so they just do a flat 40 everywhere. I dont agree with people in the comments saying it's ok to do 40 in a 60, perfect example is people doing 40 or even 35 some.times when trying to join a 60-70 mph road, it can cause accidents, they should be matching the speed of cars already on that road to join safely. Don't even get me started with the weirdos that won't move to the right hand lane when they see a car trying to join the road... completely unaware of their surroundings....

People already on the main carriageway do not have to move over for those joining. It is up to those joining to do so safely and to merge with the traffic.

Purplegrapejuicefan · 05/05/2024 09:41

Also annoys me when people do 20 in a 30 zone because they assume all city roads are 20 now. It’s 20 where it says it’s 20, not where it doesn’t!!

Moreorlessmentallystable · 05/05/2024 09:36

taxguru · 05/05/2024 09:01

If they don't know the speed limit, they shouldn't be driving. It's not difficult to observe the speed limit signs and remember some pretty basic rules about speed limits when there are no signs!!

Of course I agree 💯

taxguru · 05/05/2024 09:01

Moreorlessmentallystable · 04/05/2024 22:02

People often do not know what's the speed limit so they just do a flat 40 everywhere. I dont agree with people in the comments saying it's ok to do 40 in a 60, perfect example is people doing 40 or even 35 some.times when trying to join a 60-70 mph road, it can cause accidents, they should be matching the speed of cars already on that road to join safely. Don't even get me started with the weirdos that won't move to the right hand lane when they see a car trying to join the road... completely unaware of their surroundings....

If they don't know the speed limit, they shouldn't be driving. It's not difficult to observe the speed limit signs and remember some pretty basic rules about speed limits when there are no signs!!

Moreorlessmentallystable · 04/05/2024 22:02

People often do not know what's the speed limit so they just do a flat 40 everywhere. I dont agree with people in the comments saying it's ok to do 40 in a 60, perfect example is people doing 40 or even 35 some.times when trying to join a 60-70 mph road, it can cause accidents, they should be matching the speed of cars already on that road to join safely. Don't even get me started with the weirdos that won't move to the right hand lane when they see a car trying to join the road... completely unaware of their surroundings....

PotatoPudding · 04/05/2024 21:48

AngeloMysterioso · 04/05/2024 21:30

You have no business being behind the wheel of any car, much less a large, powerful one.

Couldn’t agree more.

AngeloMysterioso · 04/05/2024 21:30

Popetthetreehugger · 24/04/2024 07:39

No I don’t . In honesty I don’t like even being driven on a motorway. This isn’t some game I’m playing , I don’t behave in this way by choice. My body reacts in a mad way , I start shaking , I can’t get my breath . I’m fighting not slamming on the breaks . God knows why I’m triggered by speed 🤷‍♀️. Iv been to the best people and spent a packet ( years ago ) I drive early to work and am looking to get a job closer to home so I don’t have to drive that far ( I moved ) I know I piss people off . But now I drive a car the size of a tank ( my daughter laughed her socks off and said I look like a drug dealer) people are less inclined to drive up my tail.

You have no business being behind the wheel of any car, much less a large, powerful one.

RampantIvy · 03/05/2024 21:34

@FourLeggedBuckers when I say I drive to the road conditions, that includes the type of users who use our roads. It's not just about the type of road or the weather conditions.

Our windy, narrow roads are used by cyclists and horse riders as well, so I drive assuming I might meet one on the road as well as other road users.

FourLeggedBuckers · 03/05/2024 19:43

PeRiO · 03/05/2024 19:28

The irony, there's probably a thread out there somewhere about me. Moaning about the woman who slows down round the blind corners of a national speed limit road 🤣🤣

Looking at some of the posts on here and how I see people drive regularly in real life, I’d bet there are also posts about me.

But I’d say that those people are probably not used to being vulnerable road users (pedestrians on country roads / cyclists / riders) or driving different vehicles (HGV/livestock/tractors etc) and have no concept of how dangerously they’re driving.

The trouble with driving to the road conditions is that it’s a judgement - if you know you could hit your mate’s kid cycling round the next bend, you drive slower than if you don’t realise people actually live in the area and use the road other than in cars. Or if you were hit by an idiot speeding round a blind bend a couple of weeks previously you’re probably going to be a bit cautious… despite what some posters on here are saying, that doesn’t mean you’re not fit to be on the road.

People just need to remember that their judgement isn’t necessarily more correct than the person they perceive to be holding them up. Sometimes they might be right, other times, they may lack local knowledge etc. It’s annoying to be held up, but it’s just a part of life.

(And still that’s not relevant to the original comments about people doing 40 everywhere, even in 30s.)

RampantIvy · 03/05/2024 19:28

PeRiO · 03/05/2024 19:24

Totally agree with you there. There is another way out of my village which I try to never use unless the main road out is blocked etc. Which is mostly national speed limit and it is pretty much a single track road, 2 normal sized cars can go past at a squeeze but there are several blind corners and every single time I've used it I've either had someone come round the corner at me going way faster than they should or I've had somebody so close behind me egging me on to go faster at the corners which I refuse to do as the corners are so blind. There are regular crashes down this road.

It's the same in our village. I drive to the road conditions.

PeRiO · 03/05/2024 19:28

The irony, there's probably a thread out there somewhere about me. Moaning about the woman who slows down round the blind corners of a national speed limit road 🤣🤣

OP posts:
PeRiO · 03/05/2024 19:24

FourLeggedBuckers · 03/05/2024 15:27

It’s the people who think NSL means “drive at 60” regardless of the road which scare the crap out of me.

Round here, that’s mostly lanes - single car width, passing places, high hedges, blind bends, tractors, wildlife, walkers, cyclists and horse riders.

And yet absolute muppets - some of whom are probably posting on this thread - try to drive around them at 60. Even 40 is fucking dangerous. But no, it’s NSL so anyone doing 30 is dangerous 🙄

As for the poster who mentioned going around a blind bend at 59 and rear ending someone - that would not be the fault of the person doing 40, ever. If it’s a blind bend, you cannot drive around it faster than you can stop if there’s an obstruction. People driving slowly may be irritating, they may be legitimate (tractor / trailer / whatever) or they may be a shit driver - but they’re less dangerous than a fuckwit taking a blind bend at 60mph.

Not that this is relevant to the OP, because if you’re doing 40 in 30s, you’re definitely in the wrong and driving like a twit.

Totally agree with you there. There is another way out of my village which I try to never use unless the main road out is blocked etc. Which is mostly national speed limit and it is pretty much a single track road, 2 normal sized cars can go past at a squeeze but there are several blind corners and every single time I've used it I've either had someone come round the corner at me going way faster than they should or I've had somebody so close behind me egging me on to go faster at the corners which I refuse to do as the corners are so blind. There are regular crashes down this road.

OP posts:
FourLeggedBuckers · 03/05/2024 15:27

It’s the people who think NSL means “drive at 60” regardless of the road which scare the crap out of me.

Round here, that’s mostly lanes - single car width, passing places, high hedges, blind bends, tractors, wildlife, walkers, cyclists and horse riders.

And yet absolute muppets - some of whom are probably posting on this thread - try to drive around them at 60. Even 40 is fucking dangerous. But no, it’s NSL so anyone doing 30 is dangerous 🙄

As for the poster who mentioned going around a blind bend at 59 and rear ending someone - that would not be the fault of the person doing 40, ever. If it’s a blind bend, you cannot drive around it faster than you can stop if there’s an obstruction. People driving slowly may be irritating, they may be legitimate (tractor / trailer / whatever) or they may be a shit driver - but they’re less dangerous than a fuckwit taking a blind bend at 60mph.

Not that this is relevant to the OP, because if you’re doing 40 in 30s, you’re definitely in the wrong and driving like a twit.

SinnerBoy · 03/05/2024 15:07

I had one earlier today, 50mph dual carriageway. A car ahead was tailgating the one in front of it at under 40, in the right hand lane. The car ahead pulled off and the one in front of me went to the left hand lane. I went to pass and it immediately pulled in front of me and went at 35, for a couple of miles.

Eventually, she pulled over, I looked as I passed, which was when I realised that it was a woman. In a burka! 2 little slits to see out of - surely that can't be safe?

PeRiO · 28/04/2024 20:41

Caerulea · 28/04/2024 17:03

Ooo I'm glad this is still going!

Just got stuck behind a brand new Cooper S going 20 in a 30. Hit the 60mph two lane road & sped up to 25! The CARAVAN between us overtook him. We overtook after a while. Then the caravan proceeded to drive at 35mph & in the middle of the road. We got to the next 20mph village & guys, guess what...

I feel your pain!

OP posts: