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To leave a work team I love for more money? WWYD?

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Unknownuser2046789 · 22/04/2024 17:27

Hiya!

I wondered if anyone could shed additional perspectives on my dilemma.
I currently work for LG in a core role which every LG has. I earn £32000 per year for this role.
I have been offered a job in another LG, for £15000 more for exactly the same role (it actually seems that due to the way they split the work, it would actually be easier).
In terms of actual wage, I would make the same amount of money on a 3 day contract there, as I did when I was full time in my current role.
It sounds like an amazing opportunity, massively more money and more experience in an area I am passionate about.
BUT. It’s 50 miles away, and I would need to get a train due to fear of driving on a motorway. Although they have said I could have it written into my contact that I only attend once per month (I currently attend 1 day per week in my role).
My current team, including ALL managers are just lovely. Genuinely, they are by FAR the nicest set of people I have ever worked with - I am worried I won’t find this elsewhere. Realistically I just won’t.
Finally, recently I changed my working hours and my job moved around alot to accommodate me. I feel a bit of guilt leaving after they were so good, but this feels like an amazing opportunity.
What would you do? Am I crazy to leave? Or crazy to stay?

OP posts:
PeloMom · 22/04/2024 17:34

You should accept the new job. It will make your life easier / better in the long run. Also at your current job what if people start leaving and the new ones that come in their place aren’t as nice

MILTOBE · 22/04/2024 17:33

I would definitely move if I only had to go there once a month. However, do you think the team is as nice? It might be hard to get to know them all online.

Purplecatshopaholic · 22/04/2024 17:30

Hmmmm. You will get some people who would stay, and some who would go. Defo a personal decision, this. I would go - it’s more money at a time when that is very welcome, and in an area you say you are passionate about. However a team you really like working with is a very precious thing. Only you know if it’s worth the risk.

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