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AIBU to try to renegotiate KIT days

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MamaSleep · 22/04/2024 11:27

Hello. I’m after some advice on KIT days.

I am currently on MAT leave and have a series of 8 2-3 hour meetings I want to attend before my return.

My Line Manager agreed I could let these meetings add up to 2 KIT days, however I have just read the following on Maternity Action’s Website:

You can use a KIT/SPLIT day to keep up to date with what has been happening in your workplace while you have been on leave; to attend a training course or staff meeting; to complete a project or to help you settle back into work gradually at the end of your maternity, adoption or shared parental leave.
Even if you only work for part of a day or a couple of hours it will still use up one of your KIT/SPLIT days.

Am I being unreasonable if I go back to my Line Manager and ask if I can use the meetings as individual KIT days rather than adding them together?

I know I should have researched first but… FTM and was slightly overwhelmed in earlier months.

Appreciate any thoughts/advice/experience.

AIBU - you have agreed, leave it.
YANBU - worth asking the question

OP posts:
MamaSleep · 22/04/2024 11:58

Brilliant - thank you.

Do I have any rights if they say no? Does it make a difference the meetings are online?

OP posts:
dementedpixie · 22/04/2024 11:52

Your line manager should have known better.

Yes, make them be 8 individual KIT days as you are in on 8 separate occasions. Just point out what you've read. It shouldn't need a renegotiation as they are in the wrong

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