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AIBU to try to renegotiate KIT days

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MamaSleep · 22/04/2024 11:27

Hello. I’m after some advice on KIT days.

I am currently on MAT leave and have a series of 8 2-3 hour meetings I want to attend before my return.

My Line Manager agreed I could let these meetings add up to 2 KIT days, however I have just read the following on Maternity Action’s Website:

You can use a KIT/SPLIT day to keep up to date with what has been happening in your workplace while you have been on leave; to attend a training course or staff meeting; to complete a project or to help you settle back into work gradually at the end of your maternity, adoption or shared parental leave.
Even if you only work for part of a day or a couple of hours it will still use up one of your KIT/SPLIT days.

Am I being unreasonable if I go back to my Line Manager and ask if I can use the meetings as individual KIT days rather than adding them together?

I know I should have researched first but… FTM and was slightly overwhelmed in earlier months.

Appreciate any thoughts/advice/experience.

AIBU - you have agreed, leave it.
YANBU - worth asking the question

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Revelatio · 28/04/2024 20:06

We did shared parental after maternity so I got all my KIt days and Split days, and my husband got all his split days too. It worked out really well for us. I’d encourage every father to take leave and have sole charge of the baby for a while. It gives them a great understanding of what’s it’s like for us and ensures they are completely capable going forward in terms of all the organisational prep like packing bags for days out etc! It’s meant we do a proper 50/50 mix now of childcare and housework and our lives feel pretty easy with no resentment!

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MamaSleep · 28/04/2024 19:45

dementedpixie · 28/04/2024 19:00

@Calamitousness did she not say she'd take advantage of the 20 SPLIT days to do the other courses rather than other working during her parental leave?

Yes - this is indeed now the plan :)

interesting about the 20 being in addition to the 10 - I’ll look into it

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dementedpixie · 28/04/2024 19:02

P.s. @MamaSleep I think the 20 SPLIT days are in addition to the 10 KIT days

dementedpixie · 28/04/2024 19:00

@Calamitousness did she not say she'd take advantage of the 20 SPLIT days to do the other courses rather than other working during her parental leave?

Calamitousness · 28/04/2024 18:39

@dementedpixie no. I’m not wrong. You have misunderstood what I have said. You really cannot work during parental leave which is what I said.

if she plans on working while her partner is on parental leave and she is back at work then clearly that’s fine but it’s back to scheduled rostered work at that point and not up to the OP to decide what hours she will work or what tasks she will do ie. Work from home to do a course. But it remains that you cannot take parental leave and work during it.

ThinWomansBrain · 28/04/2024 11:30

8 2-3 hour meetings - assume an average of 2.5 hours, that's 20 hours?
Plus presumably you need some time to make notes, follow up plans.
It's not unreasonable to ask you to schedule two meetings a day, but no way does this fit into two days.

dementedpixie · 28/04/2024 11:22

@Calamitousness you are wrong. Shared parental leaves can be taken in blocks; up to 3 I think; so you can have periods of working and not working

Calamitousness · 28/04/2024 11:09

@MamaSleep you cannot use shared parental leave like that. You are not allowed to work during any parental leave.

Shinyandnew1 · 26/04/2024 23:10

MamaSleep · 26/04/2024 21:29

Thank you everyone for your replies!

I think I’m going to do what a PP did and change to Shared Parental Leave and have 20 days. That means I can attend my training meetings from home (which works so much better for me with the cost of commuting and childcare arrangements) and then also go into the office for some more full days (certainly not 20!!) when Lao is a bit older. That means I can use 8 for my meetings and then have 12 left for anything else I might need.

How does that work? Your partner will take leave and earn the £187 a week instead of you? Will you take less maternity leave?

PointyMcguire · 26/04/2024 22:37

Ineffable23 · 26/04/2024 21:41

Won't you have to actually share your leave to do that though?

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Yep, or at least that was the case last year when DH & I looked into it.

ShalommJackie · 26/04/2024 22:36

MamaSleep · 26/04/2024 21:29

Thank you everyone for your replies!

I think I’m going to do what a PP did and change to Shared Parental Leave and have 20 days. That means I can attend my training meetings from home (which works so much better for me with the cost of commuting and childcare arrangements) and then also go into the office for some more full days (certainly not 20!!) when Lao is a bit older. That means I can use 8 for my meetings and then have 12 left for anything else I might need.

Dont you have to actually do shared leave though?

Ineffable23 · 26/04/2024 21:41

MamaSleep · 26/04/2024 21:29

Thank you everyone for your replies!

I think I’m going to do what a PP did and change to Shared Parental Leave and have 20 days. That means I can attend my training meetings from home (which works so much better for me with the cost of commuting and childcare arrangements) and then also go into the office for some more full days (certainly not 20!!) when Lao is a bit older. That means I can use 8 for my meetings and then have 12 left for anything else I might need.

Won't you have to actually share your leave to do that though?

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MamaSleep · 26/04/2024 21:32

I have actually just found another course I would like to do and I can attend the meetings/training for that remotely as well so that might be something to consider

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MamaSleep · 26/04/2024 21:29

Thank you everyone for your replies!

I think I’m going to do what a PP did and change to Shared Parental Leave and have 20 days. That means I can attend my training meetings from home (which works so much better for me with the cost of commuting and childcare arrangements) and then also go into the office for some more full days (certainly not 20!!) when Lao is a bit older. That means I can use 8 for my meetings and then have 12 left for anything else I might need.

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MamaSleep · 26/04/2024 21:18

GinLover198 · 25/04/2024 07:48

I wasn’t paid for my KIT days during my first mat leave, I queried this with HR but received no payment instead they tried to bamboozle my line manager & I with HR jargon. Days were agreed in consultation with my line manager. I gave up arguing with HR. I didn’t do KIT days after my 2nd & 3rd because of this.

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This is absolutely awful

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MamaSleep · 26/04/2024 21:16

Nervousdave · 25/04/2024 15:31

This is the same as my (large global) company. The UK maternity leave policy states that any hours worked during one of the 10 KIT days will be entitled to a full day's pay.

I have used these 10 full days pay for sporadic meetings, or online learning, email clearing up etc on both maternity leaves, and only hiccup was that my "full day" is longer hours than full time staff, so they'd underpaid slightly, which HR sorted out on my return to work. I just had to log exactly what I'd done so my manager had proof I'd done some work and not Just logged on and off again.

Good luck! It does sound however that as a small start up, there may not be a comprehensive maternity leave policy in place, or potentially an hr department to query with x

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Yes no mat leave policy as such as definitely no HR. I don’t want to rock the boat either as like working there and want to return!!

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SistaPB · 26/04/2024 16:57

I work in HR - we only pay for hours worked. Otherwise surely it’s inequitable- one person may come in for one hour and another seven and they would both get paid the same?!
when I did KIT days - I attended a meeting and my manager gave me some reading etc to take home so that I could make up the whole day. I didn’t necessarily have to read it on that day - so that sort of thing is one way that flexibility can work and you can maximise the KIT days.

ColourChick · 26/04/2024 13:51

Wotchaz · 22/04/2024 13:14

Look at what @Revelatio posted from maternity action:

Working for part of a day or even a couple of hours will use up one of your 10 KIT days or 20 SPLIT days. You will usually only be paid for the hours worked and you need to agree what you will be paid with your employer in advance. A day's work will be the normal hours or shift patterns at your workplace.

Basically, while on maternity leave you can take up to 10 KIT days without being considered “back to work”. And a KIT day is defined as “any day that you do some work”, it doesn’t matter if you work for 15 mins or 8 hours it’s one of your KIT days gone. So by working 2-3 hours over 8 days, you have used 8 days of your KIT day allowance and only have 2 days left when you can do any work. If your partner’s taking SPL then you have 20 days split between you, but I assume that’s not relevant for you.

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This is also true even if your partner doesn't take any Shared Parental Leave. I just had to formally switch over to SPL to open up the ability to do SPLIT days as well as KIT, but he physically didn't have to take the time off.

ColourChick · 26/04/2024 13:47

Depending on your contract, you will only get paid for the hours worked. So by all means, take them as individual KIT days, but you will likely only get paid for the 2-3 hours.
If this is ok with you, then crack on. You have the law on your side if you wanted to change it.

Shinyandnew1 · 26/04/2024 12:46

Check your company’s policy

I think this is the only relevant advice here, to be honest!

Justanothermum42 · 26/04/2024 11:54

Surely if you are there/online for a couple of hours, you don’t expect to be paid for a full day’s work?

Imisssleep2 · 26/04/2024 11:15

I don't think your HR department would allow them to roll the meetings into 2 days. I would ask to work the full day on the meeting days to maximise kit day pay personally. I only plan to do full kit l days to help boost maternity pay

Kathryn1983 · 26/04/2024 09:41

MaltipooMama · 22/04/2024 12:15

Yes absolutely you should be taking each meeting as an individual KIT day! It's a legal requirement for you to be able to use any individual day that you're undertaking work tasks to be paid as a day's work, but I would give your line manager the benefit of the doubt, as perhaps they don't know the legislation around it, and just email your HR department and ask for email confirmation for the information you've posted on here.

This isn't entirely true
each time you work (at home or online or in person on site doesn't matter) it is counted as one of your days
BUT there is no legal requirement to pay you a days pay for it if you work less than a days hours
you'll just get 2-3 hours pay each time

Kathryn1983 · 26/04/2024 09:40

Technically you have to use them as individual kit days
you can't add 2 hours a day over 8 days together to make 2 kit days so she is wrong anyway
however you also can't expect to get a full days pay for 2-3 hours work you'll only get paid for 2-3 hours but will still be counted as a kit day
you could have a company that would fudge it but none I've ever managed in would do so

can you include any other activities to make up a full day on those occasions?

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