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Secret Snapchat

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witmum · 21/04/2024 23:58

To ask you to tell me all I need to know about Snapchat and cheating husbands?

I have just found my 'DH' secret Snapchat.including messages about making girls his sugar babies 🤢.

I have print screened. He has been chatting with exclusively women/girls for the whole 5 years of our marriage (probably longer).

Hidden on his work phone.

Annoyingly I can't get into his fake email address. I only found it as he fell asleep with stories running.

He is a CFO with poor hygiene and I have been putting up with poor behaviour for too long.

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Testina · 22/04/2024 00:03

What more do you need to know?
Too many women think they need watertight evidence, like divorce is something you need to prove in court.
You don’t.
You know what you saw, and you don’t need screenshots of every message to prove his inevitable lies and minimising is bullshit.
You don’t need anything more to end this, than what you already know.

LTB.

Although if you actually mean girls, I’d be taking his phone to the police station.

GrazingSheep · 22/04/2024 00:03

I think divorce is the best option.

witmum · 22/04/2024 00:02

Accountant - Chief Financial Officer.

A professional man on a power trip

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CaraMiaMonCher · 22/04/2024 00:01

Well first of all, all those people he’s been talking to are going to see that you’ve screenshotted the posts as snapchat alerts them, so if any of them message your husband asking why he’s screenshotted then he’ll probably be onto you, so be prepared for this.

Pottedpalm · 21/04/2024 23:59

CFO??

witmum · 21/04/2024 23:59

His snap score is 23,000 and he claimed to not have it.

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