Had my third and last baby this week. I just want to recover and quietly enjoy him. So far just my mum and dad have met him. My sister has asked to come but also she takes zero interest in my 2 other children so I don’t see why i should jump to her wishes when she’ll literally forget he exists a week later anyway - my mum seems to think my feelings on this aren’t valid. The other person is my grandma. I can’t drive atm, I can’t fit all the children in my dad’s car - it would be 2 trips to get us all there. She’s happy to get a taxi all over the place except when she wants to meet my baby I’m tutted at for saying no to being the one to make the effort. Probably pnd starting or whatever I know but aibu???