Hi, for background- I'm single in my (very!) late 30s. I travel alone for a couple of city breaks a year. I don't live with my elderly parents but spend a lot of time at their house (e.g. I've been staying with them this weekend)- not just to help with household jobs but because I get along really well with them and enjoy their company. Every time I mention that I've booked a trip my Dad makes me feel guilty by saying that I should be taking my mother (and by default him) with me. We've holidayed together many times in the past but it's become difficult in recent years due to some health issues my mum has- she tires quickly and has quite specific dietary requirements makes eating out quite stressful. After yet another comment from my dad today I'm feeling guilty about not inviting either of them on my next trip. Am I being mean? In all honesty, I just want to chill out and not worry about anyone else on holiday.