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to think cutting benefits will increase crime

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everydaywonderful · 20/04/2024 13:25

because people need money, you know, for food and rent and stuff. I'd be prepared to break the law before seeing my children without food, or homeless, wouldn't you?

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Beezknees · 20/04/2024 18:38

caringcarer · 20/04/2024 18:35

My DH goes to work on the train. Then walks the rest of the way. It's about 20 miles in and 20 miles back. He wants to work and enjoys his job. He works from home sometimes.

Again, fine if you can get to work on the train! Just depends where the job is and if it is actually accessible via public transport.

Beezknees · 20/04/2024 18:37

2dogsandabudgie · 20/04/2024 18:30

What is a gammon or flag shagger? The mind boggles.

Used to describe people with far right political views, the "take back our country" types. Usually have a profile pic of the England flag.

caringcarer · 20/04/2024 18:35

Beezknees · 20/04/2024 18:14

All good if you can drive and own a car. Not everyone does.

My DH goes to work on the train. Then walks the rest of the way. It's about 20 miles in and 20 miles back. He wants to work and enjoys his job. He works from home sometimes.

caringcarer · 20/04/2024 18:33

Maybemaybeebee · 20/04/2024 18:07

It would NOT pay the bills where my DC works though as often there will be limited hours available. Also, the company works on a system where everyone doing their job is on zero hours so no hope of a permanent hours contract.

Yet they are still removed and earning money each month.

Beezknees · 20/04/2024 18:31

queenofcruises · 20/04/2024 18:25

why was i lucky? i asked.. she offered, there was no luck about it... sometimes we have to stop assuming someone or something won't work just because normally it doesn't.

have you advertised for one? are you prepared to pay out of hours rates? you do know (certainly back in my day) you can offset childcare costs against any Tax Credits... we are talking 20 years ago...

and before anyone jumps on me, i have never said i have never claimed benefits.. i've said that I worked while being single with 2 children.

Also, nowadays you have to pay childcare in advance and claim it back via Universal Credit. For a full time nursery place you'd need to have about £800 to pay upfront.

caringcarer · 20/04/2024 18:30

I'm certain he wouldn't turn to stealing despite what @everydaywonderful thinks.

GRex · 20/04/2024 18:30

I have to take issue with your idea that there are no jobs. In some locations, there may be no jobs. My work has 25 vacancies; only 6 are advertised because we advertise one per job type. The market is moving fast, we lost 3 recently during recruitment. Then there are restaurants and bars near here; I can name you 7 who have signs up looking for staff. Then there are cleaning, gardening and carpentry jobs I've heard of recently where people are struggling to employ (no idea how many). And I've had recruiters contact me looking for interest or leads on at least 10 roles just this week. School are advertising for 3 roles. I would be able to point to minimum 55 open jobs really quickly. I know both siblings and one BIL are currently trying to recruit too. This certainly doesn't mean that all jobs are suitable for all people, but there are definitely a LOT of open jobs, the 1m sounds very low to me.

Now, i don't happen to think it is helpful to cut benefits for those who can't find work. The article does say the benefit cut proposal is only to penalise those actually turning down job offers, but refusal can be a slippery category to pin down e.g. single mum with antisocial hours contract, so I hope that checks and balances are added.

everydaywonderful · 20/04/2024 18:30

caringcarer · 20/04/2024 18:22

The Morrisons close to me hires a person who can't read or write, and has a prison record. I know him. His parents live near me. He collects trolleys and puts them back in the trolly park. I know a plant nursery that employs two person with Downs Syndrome and neither can read or write, but they grow lovely plants and sometimes make you a coffee in the cafe. They are both employed on minimum wage. I know the person who owns the nursery. She employs several people with learning difficulties but I don't know if any of them read but I know the two with Dawn's Syndrome don't because once they have planted a box up someone else comes to write out sticks and then they poke them in each box. I know DHL employs people who have a past criminal record because my son used to work there and told me. That's just 3 people I know. I am not ignorant but perhaps if people don't look they don't find.

You have not read my posts. There are jobs for people who cant read and write. But the competition for them is massive. There is more competition at this level than there is for Oxbridge. And as for "not looking" it is part of my job to help find such placements. The number of people who want them outnumber the placements available perhaps 80 to 1

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2dogsandabudgie · 20/04/2024 18:30

InTheUpsideDownToday · 20/04/2024 18:24

In my local Facebook group I think that the gammons/flag shaggers/Reform supporters actually would prefer people to starve. They have not one jot of empathy and never imagine that it could be them one day.

What is a gammon or flag shagger? The mind boggles.

caringcarer · 20/04/2024 18:29

TheHateIsNotGood · 20/04/2024 17:09

The availability of jobs really does depend on where you live, living in or near a City, where there are more vacancies, definitely helps. If you're in the SE, it's even easier, as long as you have somewhere to live.

Only thing going round here is Care Work and really not everyone is suited to doing that, although that might be what @caringcarer does for a living, given their username.

You would be correct. I'm a Foster Carer to a teen with learning difficulties and who can't read, hence I have bothered to find out where he might gain future employment. I found the plant nursery and Morrisons also employ people who can't read to collect trolleys. I'm sure I will find more as I continue to research for my Foster Son. I won't give up on him and force him into a life on benefits. He does get PIP but I believe he'll get a job once he leaves education. He's polite, helpful and works hard.

Beezknees · 20/04/2024 18:29

queenofcruises · 20/04/2024 18:25

why was i lucky? i asked.. she offered, there was no luck about it... sometimes we have to stop assuming someone or something won't work just because normally it doesn't.

have you advertised for one? are you prepared to pay out of hours rates? you do know (certainly back in my day) you can offset childcare costs against any Tax Credits... we are talking 20 years ago...

and before anyone jumps on me, i have never said i have never claimed benefits.. i've said that I worked while being single with 2 children.

I work full time and I don't need childcare as my DS is 16. I'm just not ignorant to the fact that there are many barriers that make getting back to work difficult. Childcare is a huge one.

2dogsandabudgie · 20/04/2024 18:28

pointythings · 20/04/2024 17:43

No, OP is suggesting that people would get desperate enough to steal. What do you think would happen to a person between the point where there benefits are cut and the point where they get a job? What would they live on, where would they live? There's be a massive increase in homelessness too.

Only thick and callous people would think this policy is a good idea.

You and the OP seem to have a very low opinion of people on benefits. Do you really think that if someone loses their job they are going to think, do you know what I have 12 months of getting benefit money, I think I will spend that time doing fuck all, and then when the 12 months is up I might think about getting a job, but what I think is better is I can go out stealing because that's the kind of low life person I am.

Are you for real?

kelsaycobbles · 20/04/2024 18:26

The luck is in knowing a childminder with space ?

Like how often do you think that happens !

queenofcruises · 20/04/2024 18:25

Beezknees · 20/04/2024 18:19

Yes, it's fine. But you've answered the question there. You were lucky enough to have a neighbour who worked as a childminder! You must realise that not everyone will have that. I don't know of any childminder that works past 6pm to allow for shift work.

why was i lucky? i asked.. she offered, there was no luck about it... sometimes we have to stop assuming someone or something won't work just because normally it doesn't.

have you advertised for one? are you prepared to pay out of hours rates? you do know (certainly back in my day) you can offset childcare costs against any Tax Credits... we are talking 20 years ago...

and before anyone jumps on me, i have never said i have never claimed benefits.. i've said that I worked while being single with 2 children.

InTheUpsideDownToday · 20/04/2024 18:24

PassingStranger · 20/04/2024 17:35

It won't happen. It's trying to scared people.
Nobody would vote for a party that let people starve.

In my local Facebook group I think that the gammons/flag shaggers/Reform supporters actually would prefer people to starve. They have not one jot of empathy and never imagine that it could be them one day.

caringcarer · 20/04/2024 18:22

everydaywonderful · 20/04/2024 16:54

That is just ignorant - sorry, but it is. I know many young people who can't read, have learning difficulties, or whatever. . Jobs for people who can't read are so rare that competition for them is fiercer than competition to get into Oxbridge.

The Morrisons close to me hires a person who can't read or write, and has a prison record. I know him. His parents live near me. He collects trolleys and puts them back in the trolly park. I know a plant nursery that employs two person with Downs Syndrome and neither can read or write, but they grow lovely plants and sometimes make you a coffee in the cafe. They are both employed on minimum wage. I know the person who owns the nursery. She employs several people with learning difficulties but I don't know if any of them read but I know the two with Dawn's Syndrome don't because once they have planted a box up someone else comes to write out sticks and then they poke them in each box. I know DHL employs people who have a past criminal record because my son used to work there and told me. That's just 3 people I know. I am not ignorant but perhaps if people don't look they don't find.

Luxell934 · 20/04/2024 18:21

A child minder who does over nights? You were incredibly lucky then, so not really an option for most people.

blacksax · 20/04/2024 18:21

Are you suggesting that all working class people on a low income are a hair's breadth away from becoming criminals?

Bit of a sweeping judgement there.

Beezknees · 20/04/2024 18:19

queenofcruises · 20/04/2024 18:18

i paid a childminder...

my neighbour trained as a childminder as she needed a job and i needed a childminder...

is that ok?

Yes, it's fine. But you've answered the question there. You were lucky enough to have a neighbour who worked as a childminder! You must realise that not everyone will have that. I don't know of any childminder that works past 6pm to allow for shift work.

Whateveer · 20/04/2024 18:19

Cygnetmad · 20/04/2024 17:01

Some people will never be able to work. Not everyone who depends on benefits is a refusenik. Believe it or not, for some there is just no way.

I said people who refuse, not people who can't

Luxell934 · 20/04/2024 18:19

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 20/04/2024 17:41

Just putting the reality of this here.

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Yes this is the real issue but of course they don’t want people to kick up a fuss so they pit normal people against other normal people and sit back and watch the rich get richer. And even some poorer working people even agree with them because they have been brainwashed to think it’s the people on benefits fault.

queenofcruises · 20/04/2024 18:18

Beezknees · 20/04/2024 18:15

Who looked after your children when you worked shifts?

i paid a childminder...

my neighbour trained as a childminder as she needed a job and i needed a childminder...

is that ok?

Beezknees · 20/04/2024 18:15

queenofcruises · 20/04/2024 16:01

i was a lone parent with 2 young children... i worked shifts! there are day shifts as well as night shifts.

i did whatever it took to work and provide for my kids.. i did not resort to crime!

where hubby works there are night shifts, day shifts theres even what they call a 'mums shift' which is 9 til 3...

Who looked after your children when you worked shifts?

Beezknees · 20/04/2024 18:14

caringcarer · 20/04/2024 18:11

Many people travel far more than 10 miles to work. I used to drive 22 miles each way because I wanted the job.

All good if you can drive and own a car. Not everyone does.

everydaywonderful · 20/04/2024 18:13

caringcarer · 20/04/2024 18:11

Many people travel far more than 10 miles to work. I used to drive 22 miles each way because I wanted the job.

But how would widening the search help if you have 11 000 bits of spam to sort through from a narrower search?

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