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to think cutting benefits will increase crime

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everydaywonderful · 20/04/2024 13:25

because people need money, you know, for food and rent and stuff. I'd be prepared to break the law before seeing my children without food, or homeless, wouldn't you?

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Solgrass · 20/04/2024 20:02

Kpo58 · 20/04/2024 19:40

Most food banks aren't open all week either. For all we know, she could have stolen the food on a Thursday and the next time a non- referral food bank was open could have been Monday. Should she have not eaten until Monday?

For all we know works both ways doesn’t it though?
For all we know it may have been a weekday, there may have been a relative to help, there may have been contacts at the hospital that could have helped.

My point was that not feeling bad in that moment could have been usurped by stress of being caught.

pointythings · 20/04/2024 19:48

2dogsandabudgie · 20/04/2024 19:28

I thought certain companies were part of the guaranteed interview scheme. My son has a disability and that is how he got his job.

Guaranteed interview does not mean guaranteed job, you know. Companies pay lip service and get away with it.

Look, I'm not saying that it is impossible for anyone with a health condition or disability to get a job. It would just be nice for some of the 'just get a job' brigade to acknowledge that there are people for whom the barriers to accessing work are considerably higher than they are for most. The playing field isn't level. We should be looking at levelling that and improving opportunity for all, not at more punitive benefit sanctions that will not work.

2dogsandabudgie · 20/04/2024 19:44

Kpo58 · 20/04/2024 19:40

Most food banks aren't open all week either. For all we know, she could have stolen the food on a Thursday and the next time a non- referral food bank was open could have been Monday. Should she have not eaten until Monday?

It depends on which day of the week she was born because if she was born on a Saturday we all know that Saturday's child works hard for a living, so there would be no need to steal.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 20/04/2024 19:44

2dogsandabudgie · 20/04/2024 19:28

I thought certain companies were part of the guaranteed interview scheme. My son has a disability and that is how he got his job.

Oh, you sweet summer child.

I've completed applications where I exactly matched the job spec and I definitely made sure to tailor the application to show it. I'd used exactly the same bespoke computer systems to perform the same role. The only difference would be the location, being ten minutes away, rather than 40.

Guaranteed interview if you meet the minimum person/essential job specification and declare that you have a disability, they claimed.

Ha ha ha ha. 'You have not been selected for interview because you do not meet the essential criteria for the role'.

I ticked the fucking Disabled box, didn't I?

Kpo58 · 20/04/2024 19:40

Solgrass · 20/04/2024 18:56

You would have felt bad if it had become public knowledge that you stole or if caught and the police wanted to prosecute. With a child in and out of hospital, that’s seems a needless stress to put yourselves under when you most certainly would qualify to use a food bank. Not all food banks need a referral.

Most food banks aren't open all week either. For all we know, she could have stolen the food on a Thursday and the next time a non- referral food bank was open could have been Monday. Should she have not eaten until Monday?

2dogsandabudgie · 20/04/2024 19:33

Luxell934 · 20/04/2024 19:03

Companionate?

As in companionate love? Marriage? A bit weird.

2dogsandabudgie · 20/04/2024 19:28

pointythings · 20/04/2024 18:46

I don't have a low opinion of people on benefits at all. There is however a massive difference between people who have been in work and lose their job (I have been in that position) and who have a CV showing a work history etc., and people who have for whatever reason (physical/mental health etc) not worked or not worked for a long time. Group one is likely to find work quite quickly and easily. Group 2 - not so much. For every employer who is keen to take on people with health issues and disabilities (My DS is lucky enough to have one of these), there are 10 others who will put that application straight in the bin. It's perfectly possible to job hunt actively for 12 months and get nowhere, especially when you have transport and childcare in the mix. It's typical of people like you that you cannot envision scenarios where there are genuine barriers to someone taking on a job, and it's typical that your first impulse is punitive rather than supportive.

I thought certain companies were part of the guaranteed interview scheme. My son has a disability and that is how he got his job.

WatermelonWaveclub · 20/04/2024 19:10

GracefulGrandma · 20/04/2024 17:42

Wouldn’t it be better to just get a job 🙄 A radical idea I know.

The reality is that you can't just get a job instantly. You have no money, your child is hungry - are you not going to feed them til you have a job and get your first pay?

everydaywonderful · 20/04/2024 19:05

caringcarer · 20/04/2024 18:58

Working is always another way. I've never been without a job in my whole life. Sometimes I've worked more than one job to earn more money so I worked full time as a teacher, and I tutored a couple of students each week in the evenings and I examined A level papers twice a year. I would never consider stealing.

but not everyone can find a job. That is exactly what I am saying. its fine if working is an option, but what if there is no work?

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Luxell934 · 20/04/2024 19:03

2dogsandabudgie · 20/04/2024 18:41

What about the far left, what are they called?

Companionate?

caringcarer · 20/04/2024 18:58

everydaywonderful · 20/04/2024 18:44

if it was the only way to pay your rent and keep a roof over your child's head, I am sure you would consider it

Working is always another way. I've never been without a job in my whole life. Sometimes I've worked more than one job to earn more money so I worked full time as a teacher, and I tutored a couple of students each week in the evenings and I examined A level papers twice a year. I would never consider stealing.

Solgrass · 20/04/2024 18:56

NotaNorovirusFan · 20/04/2024 18:48

The only time I’ve ever committed a crime was shoplifting food at the self service checkout when my daughter was in and out of hospital and I was working on a zero hours contract, DWP refused to give me an emergency loan to cover me until I could claim UC. I didn’t feel bad about it at all and even if I’d have been caught I wouldn’t have felt bad although it’s not something I have ever done before or since that time.

So yes I think cutting benefit would almost certainly lead to more shoplifting type crime and wouldn’t be surprised if it pushed people into more serious types of crime too. I think People living in increasing poverty are also less like to feel particularly connected or sympathy to the more affluent in society as well which could increase other crime rates.

You would have felt bad if it had become public knowledge that you stole or if caught and the police wanted to prosecute. With a child in and out of hospital, that’s seems a needless stress to put yourselves under when you most certainly would qualify to use a food bank. Not all food banks need a referral.

tiggergoesbounce · 20/04/2024 18:56

My DH goes to work on the train. Then walks the rest of the way. It's about 20 miles in and 20 miles back. He wants to work and enjoys his job. He works from home sometimes

Thats great that you live close enough for him to leave early enough to have time to walk to the train station and no commitments preventing him to leave that early, then its great he earns enough, in the job he loves, to make it viable to afford the train daily and then have the flexibility to be able to work from home, and then nothing prevevting him doing the same on the way home after work, it sounds like the job is ideal for him. Sadly, not everyone's job opportunities are the same.

everydaywonderful · 20/04/2024 18:51

NotaNorovirusFan · 20/04/2024 18:48

The only time I’ve ever committed a crime was shoplifting food at the self service checkout when my daughter was in and out of hospital and I was working on a zero hours contract, DWP refused to give me an emergency loan to cover me until I could claim UC. I didn’t feel bad about it at all and even if I’d have been caught I wouldn’t have felt bad although it’s not something I have ever done before or since that time.

So yes I think cutting benefit would almost certainly lead to more shoplifting type crime and wouldn’t be surprised if it pushed people into more serious types of crime too. I think People living in increasing poverty are also less like to feel particularly connected or sympathy to the more affluent in society as well which could increase other crime rates.

and personally I don't think you should feel bad about it, you were entitled to eat!

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NotaNorovirusFan · 20/04/2024 18:48

The only time I’ve ever committed a crime was shoplifting food at the self service checkout when my daughter was in and out of hospital and I was working on a zero hours contract, DWP refused to give me an emergency loan to cover me until I could claim UC. I didn’t feel bad about it at all and even if I’d have been caught I wouldn’t have felt bad although it’s not something I have ever done before or since that time.

So yes I think cutting benefit would almost certainly lead to more shoplifting type crime and wouldn’t be surprised if it pushed people into more serious types of crime too. I think People living in increasing poverty are also less like to feel particularly connected or sympathy to the more affluent in society as well which could increase other crime rates.

pointythings · 20/04/2024 18:46

2dogsandabudgie · 20/04/2024 18:28

You and the OP seem to have a very low opinion of people on benefits. Do you really think that if someone loses their job they are going to think, do you know what I have 12 months of getting benefit money, I think I will spend that time doing fuck all, and then when the 12 months is up I might think about getting a job, but what I think is better is I can go out stealing because that's the kind of low life person I am.

Are you for real?

I don't have a low opinion of people on benefits at all. There is however a massive difference between people who have been in work and lose their job (I have been in that position) and who have a CV showing a work history etc., and people who have for whatever reason (physical/mental health etc) not worked or not worked for a long time. Group one is likely to find work quite quickly and easily. Group 2 - not so much. For every employer who is keen to take on people with health issues and disabilities (My DS is lucky enough to have one of these), there are 10 others who will put that application straight in the bin. It's perfectly possible to job hunt actively for 12 months and get nowhere, especially when you have transport and childcare in the mix. It's typical of people like you that you cannot envision scenarios where there are genuine barriers to someone taking on a job, and it's typical that your first impulse is punitive rather than supportive.

Solgrass · 20/04/2024 18:45

2dogsandabudgie · 20/04/2024 18:41

What about the far left, what are they called?

Evidently they are called ….@everydaywonderful

everydaywonderful · 20/04/2024 18:44

caringcarer · 20/04/2024 18:43

It's actually very insulting to suggest most of the population would take to stealing if they lost their job. It would never have even entered my mind that one person would do it, let alone to think most people would do it.

if it was the only way to pay your rent and keep a roof over your child's head, I am sure you would consider it

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caringcarer · 20/04/2024 18:43

It's actually very insulting to suggest most of the population would take to stealing if they lost their job. It would never have even entered my mind that one person would do it, let alone to think most people would do it.

Beezknees · 20/04/2024 18:43

2dogsandabudgie · 20/04/2024 18:41

What about the far left, what are they called?

"Woke" or "snowflakes".

NotAgainWilson · 20/04/2024 18:42

Beezknees · 20/04/2024 18:38

Again, fine if you can get to work on the train! Just depends where the job is and if it is actually accessible via public transport.

...or you can pay for the train at all when earning a meagre minimum salary!

2dogsandabudgie · 20/04/2024 18:41

Beezknees · 20/04/2024 18:37

Used to describe people with far right political views, the "take back our country" types. Usually have a profile pic of the England flag.

What about the far left, what are they called?

NotAgainWilson · 20/04/2024 18:41

Luxell934 · 20/04/2024 15:06

These people are in the extreme minority though, very few people don’t work because they just don’t want too and live on benefits. Rishi will have you believing it’s a huge amount of people but it’s really not. The problem is the amount of corporations and millionaires not paying their fair share, but the tories want to push this narrative of benefit scum bags and illegal immigrants taking your money. It’s all smoke and mirrors.

Agree, there are the ones that play the system, but for everyone of those, quoting a friend who is a benefit advocate, there are 200 who are not claiming support they are entitled to.

In my time working at the job centre, the amount of people who "didn't want to work" was... almost nobody, they wanted to work but they didn't have the skills or the experience or where saddled with a very clear disability.

The ones that broke my heart were old people, over 60 with significant mobility problems being pushed away from part time jobs they could do and were already doing as they were requested to do over 16 hours. Most of them didn't have the qualifications or experience to work in an office but their bodies no longer had the strength to carry out more manual work as they did most of their lives as with knackered knees, hip problems or severe arthritis, it was impossible. Yet they were told that they could do non manual work when realistically, without office experience, nobody would have them!

Most of the people I dealt with had their confidence shattered through continuous failed interviews.

If you could see how happy they were when they secured an interview or got a job, you will know that the rhetoric that people on benefits is lazy is just a nasty piece of false stereotyping to promote the Conservative's agenda.

queenofcruises · 20/04/2024 18:40

i am so sorry

I was just so lucky during my single life bringing up 2 children, i'm so sorry that working was more important to me and important to show my children that the work ethos is good.

no matter what i say, i found a childminder to work out of hours - oh you were lucky, i drive - oh you are so lucky you can drive, oh you are so lucky you have a car, oh you are so lucky you can afford a car!

i am a firm believer that if you want something that bad, then you do everything within your power to get it... just not crime

caringcarer · 20/04/2024 18:40

everydaywonderful · 20/04/2024 18:13

But how would widening the search help if you have 11 000 bits of spam to sort through from a narrower search?

I don't believe there is not 1 so gle job within 20 miles of you. Where do you live I'll find you one?

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