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To think this was poor from the pharmacist?

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Pharmacy1one · 20/04/2024 11:57

6 weeks or so ago I got two cartilage piercings in my left ear, tragus and helix.

I kept irritating them by turning over in my sleep and my toddler has knocked them a few times too so I was getting those annoying irritation bumps which were tender. I haven't had any pus coming from them, no temperature or discharge, just a bit of clear fluid when i removed them which I know isn't that abnormal.

I went to the chemist and asked to speak to the pharmacist, receptionist asked what the problem was and I briefly explained and said I want to buy something for the inflammation but was hoping the pharmacist could take a look first.

Receptionist relays that to the pharmacist and the pharmacist decided, without looking or even speaking to me at all, that it's infected and I need to go to A&E and get antibiotics and sprays would be no good.

She had her baby with her strapped to her back so I don't think she could have sat down with me in the consultation room in the first place.

I'm a bit miffed as we are routinely encouraged to see a pharmacist for minor ailments to take the strain off of GP's and hospitals, but this is the response I got for trying.

I have PTSD after having sepsis so now I'm scared about an infection that I didn't feel I had in the first place 😔 I can't just rock up to A&E for something like this surely, and there's nobody to have my children anyway.

Do you think I'm being unreasonable for thinking her response was poor?

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WatermelonWaveclub · 20/04/2024 14:42

Geebray · 20/04/2024 13:21

Why are you ignoring what the pharmacist said, OP?

Could she be worried about sepsis?

She has no symptoms of sepsis.

WatermelonWaveclub · 20/04/2024 14:40

chocmatcha · 20/04/2024 13:13

I can't just rock up to A&E for something like this surely, and there's nobody to have my children anyway.

Tough. If you need to go to A&E it isn't normally because it's convenient it's because it's A and or E.

I'm fed up with posters saying they can't go to A&E because they have kids. In that case it isn't an E. Don't expect the NHS to come to your door. It's a mostly free at the point of use, lifesaving medical service.

Sometimes you are in a position where you have been advised to go to A&E because it is potentially an emergency. I had this recently when I had chest pain. I knew it wasn't a heart attack but my GP surgery wouldn't see me. I really wouldn't have wanted to drag my DC down to A&E for hours on end in that situation. When you have noone to have your DC it isn't always black and white.

Debinaround · 20/04/2024 14:40

@TheCatOnTheBedIsAllMineAllMine you thought the OP had a cat in her ear because of an extra S on the word pus? Alright.Confused

Hope you're feeling better soon @Pharmacy1one, some of the reply's on this thread have been bonkers. The same thing happened to me when I got my helix done and I ended up taking it out too.

The pharmacist sounds rubbish. She shouldn't have been at work with her kid strapped to her back, she obviously couldn't do her job properly because of it.

Pharmacy1one · 20/04/2024 14:38

TheCatOnTheBedIsAllMineAllMine · 20/04/2024 14:34

And you

I'm not the one hectoring people about their spelling or literacy and trying to appear intellectually superior am I? 😂

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dimllaishebiaith · 20/04/2024 14:38

TheCatOnTheBedIsAllMineAllMine · 20/04/2024 14:36

It’s not the case that I couldn’t work out what OP was saying is it. I think you just fancy a row. You’re coming across as the type.

From you, seriously 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

You might want to work on your self awareness instead of being pedantic about other people's spelling

TheCatOnTheBedIsAllMineAllMine · 20/04/2024 14:36

dimllaishebiaith · 20/04/2024 14:34

I mean you gave incorrect medical advice on this thread so I'm not sure you have an intellectual high ground here

But if you couldn't work out the OPs meaning from the general sentence then I don't think my literacy is the issue 🙄

It’s not the case that I couldn’t work out what OP was saying is it. I think you just fancy a row. You’re coming across as the type.

TheCatOnTheBedIsAllMineAllMine · 20/04/2024 14:34

Pharmacy1one · 20/04/2024 14:27

You forgot the full stop 😂😂

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And you

Geebray · 20/04/2024 14:34

Both Community Pharmacies (Chemists) and GP practices are private businesses providing NHS services.

Thank you @imparsleythelion

OP has provided some more information now - the ears were so swollen with the new piercings that the metal was sinking into them. On a weekend, it doesn't seem unreasonable for the pharmacist to suggest that more care than she could provide was needed.

dimllaishebiaith · 20/04/2024 14:34

TheCatOnTheBedIsAllMineAllMine · 20/04/2024 14:26

No? Says lots about your literacy too then

I mean you gave incorrect medical advice on this thread so I'm not sure you have an intellectual high ground here

But if you couldn't work out the OPs meaning from the general sentence then I don't think my literacy is the issue 🙄

Pharmacy1one · 20/04/2024 14:34

Noyesnoyes · 20/04/2024 14:32

@Pharmacy1one neither of @TheCatOnTheBedIsAllMineAllMine posts have full stops, not sure her keyboard has one. Grin

I'm laughing into my coffee, what a tonic.. I needed a good giggle after today. Thank you! 🤣

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Noyesnoyes · 20/04/2024 14:32

@Pharmacy1one neither of @TheCatOnTheBedIsAllMineAllMine posts have full stops, not sure her keyboard has one. Grin

SlashBeef · 20/04/2024 14:31

Have you had cartilage piercings before? My body is a bugger for healing them and I just gave up. Those bars do look very short though. I hope it gets sorted for you. Look out for bumps!

oberst · 20/04/2024 14:31

Get some aspirin, crush it up into a powder and make a paste with sea salt/water.

Put the paste on to dry and do this twice a day. I had exactly the same from my nose piercing and this is what they told me to do; it went so fast.

Noyesnoyes · 20/04/2024 14:30

TheCatOnTheBedIsAllMineAllMine · 20/04/2024 14:20

@Pharmacy1one I’m not correcting your spelling. If you’ve a cat in your piercings you’re right. I’m assuming you have pus

You need to finish your sentences with a full stop.

You don't seem to be able to do this, do you have an issue with full stops? Is it missing from your keyboard?

Pharmacy1one · 20/04/2024 14:30

Pickled21 · 20/04/2024 14:27

Are you in the UK? It would be breaking all kinds of rules to have a child in the pharmacy dispensary in the UK and also deeply unprofessional. You also keep talking about a receptionist when we call staff in community pharmacy either healthcare assistants, dispensers or technicians.

Are you being unreasonable? No, I would have wanted to take a look.

I am in the UK yes, and I'll take that on board.

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Pharmacy1one · 20/04/2024 14:27

TheCatOnTheBedIsAllMineAllMine · 20/04/2024 14:26

No? Says lots about your literacy too then

You forgot the full stop 😂😂

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Pickled21 · 20/04/2024 14:27

Are you in the UK? It would be breaking all kinds of rules to have a child in the pharmacy dispensary in the UK and also deeply unprofessional. You also keep talking about a receptionist when we call staff in community pharmacy either healthcare assistants, dispensers or technicians.

Are you being unreasonable? No, I would have wanted to take a look.

TheCatOnTheBedIsAllMineAllMine · 20/04/2024 14:26

dimllaishebiaith · 20/04/2024 14:22

Pedants corner is that way -->

The rest of us weren't confused that the OP might have a cat in her ear

No? Says lots about your literacy too then

Pharmacy1one · 20/04/2024 14:26

TheCatOnTheBedIsAllMineAllMine · 20/04/2024 14:20

@Pharmacy1one I’m not correcting your spelling. If you’ve a cat in your piercings you’re right. I’m assuming you have pus

What a strange person.

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Willmafrockfit · 20/04/2024 14:24

i would just use previously boiled salted water

Jc2001 · 20/04/2024 14:24

Sidge · 20/04/2024 12:09

And I can’t believe your piercer didn’t give you this aftercare advice. That’s rubbish.

Unfortunately this place is full of morons with very small lives.

Pharmacy1one · 20/04/2024 14:22

SwingTheMonkey · 20/04/2024 14:20

All of your replies have been very unpleasant. Perhaps that’s something to reflect on?

Op did seek advice, but didn’t get it because the pharmacist didn’t even interact with op, let alone look at her ear. Her advice is therefore nul and void. There was nothing to ignore because the pharmacist had no idea what was going on with op. Unless she possesses magic powers of diagnosis without speaking to or looking at a patient.

Perhaps it’d have been more useful to op for the pharmacist to just say ‘sorry, I don’t know’.

Exactly this! Thank you very much.

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dimllaishebiaith · 20/04/2024 14:22

TheCatOnTheBedIsAllMineAllMine · 20/04/2024 14:20

@Pharmacy1one I’m not correcting your spelling. If you’ve a cat in your piercings you’re right. I’m assuming you have pus

Pedants corner is that way -->

The rest of us weren't confused that the OP might have a cat in her ear

TheCatOnTheBedIsAllMineAllMine · 20/04/2024 14:20

@Pharmacy1one I’m not correcting your spelling. If you’ve a cat in your piercings you’re right. I’m assuming you have pus

SwingTheMonkey · 20/04/2024 14:20

chocmatcha · 20/04/2024 14:13

I'm not I just can't see the point of seeking advice from a trained professional and then ignore it. I don't mean to come across unpleasant

All of your replies have been very unpleasant. Perhaps that’s something to reflect on?

Op did seek advice, but didn’t get it because the pharmacist didn’t even interact with op, let alone look at her ear. Her advice is therefore nul and void. There was nothing to ignore because the pharmacist had no idea what was going on with op. Unless she possesses magic powers of diagnosis without speaking to or looking at a patient.

Perhaps it’d have been more useful to op for the pharmacist to just say ‘sorry, I don’t know’.