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Cash - am I out of touch?

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Anewuser · 20/04/2024 08:49

AIBU thinking I should still be able to use cash?

I accept that most places, and people, find it easier using cards but shouldn’t you still be able to use cash occasionally?

Went out for lunch the other day. The bill came to over £100 but as it was something planned, I had cash. The pub said whilst they can take cash, they don’t give change. Since when was this a thing.

At work, when people get married/have babies/leave etc, we do a collection. You always used to stick your contribution in a pot or envelope but now you have to do it online. Not everyone gives now because it’s obvious how much they’ve contributed.

AINBU, that I should still occasionally be able to use cash or AIBU cash has had its day.

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asdfgasdfg · 27/04/2024 19:07

Both my daughters sell goods at craft fayres/Sci fi conventions. They use zettle and sum up to take card payment through their mobile phones, even for less than a pound. They take cash but most customers pay with a card or their phones, regardless of their age.

NoisySnail · 23/04/2024 10:49

Most people do not give a shit about vulnerable people. Peoples reaction to keeping cash shows this. If you care about vulnerable people, you fight to keep cash.

PastorCarrBonarra · 23/04/2024 10:02

It’s great that incidences of armed robbery will reduce/have reduced for obvious reasons. Although other types of crime (cyber) have obviously increased in recent years, and cause real distress, at least they don’t involve a knife in the chest.

But I can see how a cashless society would cause people on tight budgets to suffer, along with vulnerable adults who struggle to open bank accounts. I think it’s important for neurotypical, comfortably-off people to use cash every so often to show that there’s still an appetite for it.

LakieLady · 23/04/2024 09:13

BUT- it still makes me annoyed that so many places are cash free now because it removes access to vulnerable people- elderly people or people without bank accounts for example. It can also be easier for people with learning disabilities or brain injuries to budget using cash they can see rather than a card where they have to remember.

As well as welfare rights, my job involves helping people manage their money. This is so true, and also applies to a fair few people with MH issues.

With cash, they can draw out what they can afford to spend that week/fortnight/month and actually see how much they have left whenever they spend some. Some people don't have the ability to think to themselves "I've got X pounds in direct debits coming out in the next 2 weeks, and I spent £9.50 on my card which hasn't come out yet, so I can only afford to spend Y" and then add up the cost of their shopping as they go round the supermarket to make sure they don't overspend.

Cash is also better for those with MH conditions that give them poor impulse control, they can't spend more than they have in their pocket or purse when it's cash. And then there are those who won't use online banking or pay by card, because they don't want the state to know what they're doing with their money...

swapcicles · 23/04/2024 09:09

If a business is card only they can't just "take cash" if a customer demands it.
At the very least there isn't a drawer full of change to give back to the customer, so I'm pretty sure the pub wasn't refusing to give out change more that they didn't have any!!
I used to work in a cashless business, occasionally we'd be stuck as a customer only had cash, more than once staff had to use their own card to pay for food then take cash from the customer if it was the correct amount or they could scrabble some change together from their purse, bag or other staff.
Businesses can't simply take cash if a customer demands it.
However it should be clear that card only places are card only.
( Where I worked it was clear and stated many times as it was pre book only but there's always one!)

MexicanFeast · 23/04/2024 07:42

Jenry · 20/04/2024 09:17

YANBU. For some people especially vulnerable people cash is their only option

This.

I only use cash once a fortnight to pay for my nails (she does accept bank transfers but I don’t have the app thing)- otherwise I use Apple Pay on my phone for everything… I don’t even have a debit card.

BUT- it still makes me annoyed that so many places are cash free now because it removes access to vulnerable people- elderly people or people without bank accounts for example. It can also be easier for people with learning disabilities or brain injuries to budget using cash they can see rather than a card where they have to remember.

BobnLen · 23/04/2024 07:32

I use cash occasionally but mainly use credit cards to pay for things, I never use my debit card from my main bank account as that is a bit foolish because of fraud, it's quite easy to manage if a credit card gets used fraudulently as you just use another one and wait for it to be sorted out but a bank account being frozen can be problematic. People that only have a one basic bank account are probably sensible using cash, credit cards are unfortunately not available to everyone.

BedknobsNoBroomsticks · 23/04/2024 07:02

Over the past month or so I have seen a few posts on Facebook from businesses saying 'Cash is King'.
Although they do accept card they would prefer people paid with cash.

NoisySnail · 22/04/2024 22:26

Yorkshire

Howblueisthesky · 22/04/2024 22:25

@NoisySnail Where are you?

NoisySnail · 22/04/2024 22:20

@Howblueisthesky I see more places where I live taking cash only. Generally interesting independents.

Howblueisthesky · 22/04/2024 22:07

@Simonjt I’d hate that

Howblueisthesky · 22/04/2024 22:06

It’s the other way round where I am.
Recently went to a cafe/restaurant with my sister and she was gobsmacked that the didn’t take card, only cash…she just never uses cash

Allfur · 22/04/2024 22:05

NoisySnail · 22/04/2024 22:04

Big companies want cash abolished as it will benefit them.

And small companies

NoisySnail · 22/04/2024 22:04

Big companies want cash abolished as it will benefit them.

threatmatrix · 22/04/2024 21:59

Simonjt · 22/04/2024 21:13

Where I live is largely cashless, around 2% of transactions involve cash, and the majority of those are at the airport. Its great never needing cash.

Time will tell.

Allfur · 22/04/2024 21:58

PrincessTeaSet · 21/04/2024 22:40

Cash is freedom. The internet went down in Sainsbury's a few weeks ago, they were taking cash only. It was chaos . It's going to be more likely that card payment systems go down or are attacked by criminals for ransom as they become relied upon to the exclusion of other payment methods. Everyone should keep cash at home as a minimum. If the banks go bust or get hacked you won't be able to pay for anything and imagine the queues at the few remaining cash points in that scenario.

Plus every time you pay by card, visa plus possibly also Google or apple take a cut too. Pay by cash the recipient gets the lot. I know there are charges to handle cash too of course - but that's only if the recipient wants or needs that service, not a tax on every transaction.

Those talking about robberies of pubs etc, true but it must be vastly outnumbered by the amount of card fraud or online scams.

Was in a major city centre on Fri and had to visit 5 cash points before finding one that was working. It's a slippery slope

So what you're saying is we need to keep our money under the bed?

Allfur · 22/04/2024 21:55

celticprincess · 21/04/2024 22:40

This was a massive issue for my late father during Covid and the time post Covid before he died. He didn’t have a bank account. He had a building society account with passbook and took cash out weekly. He had no cards at all. He didn’t have internet either. He had a smart tv but never actually got to use the smart functions. He didn’t have a mobile phone. His landline wasn’t even portable. There were places he had to stop visiting as they wouldn’t accept cash. He didn’t cook - had no school working kitchen appliances other than a microwave and kettle - so he would eat out every day for lunch. He’d keep a load of bread and use that with tinned soup for meals or tinned stew. I did his shopping and he paid me back in cash. I ended up having to deposit cash when I could get to a bank but that wasn’t always possible with my working hours. Lots of banks have closed or are open funny hours. I used to be able to deposit cash into a cash machine outside the bank but they changed that to withdrawals only and you would have to go inside the bank to use a different on to deposit. Only open between 9-3 which isn’t much use for a teacher.

It is a shame. I use cash for our weekly church collection but some do have a direct debit. I used to tip my hair dresser in cash but I don’t always have cash on me now my dad is no longer alive. The only time I have cash is when my kids get random birthday/xmas/pocket money off a relative and they give it me so I can transfer them money to their bank account online. They prefer to use cash. Teens.

Although recently there was an issue in macdonalds when their systems went down and as we entered we were told cash only. Luckily you could also use the app and pay online via that bit some people left as they didn’t have cash or the app set up. Same with Sainsbury’s recently when their systems crashed too and they went to cash only and people were abandoning trollies. So cash IS still needed as an option.

I can live without going in either if those places

JenniferBooth · 22/04/2024 21:31

Glass113 · 20/04/2024 15:07

Yes with the cash they're declaring. It doesn't mean they're declaring it all 🤣

A good way of bullying people to go cashless is to accuse them of being criminals if they only want to deal in cash.

NoisySnail · 22/04/2024 21:28

@Simonjt that is extraordinarly low. The national average is 17%.

snowlady4 · 22/04/2024 21:23

I'm a cash person. I really don't want to see a cashless society. Plus, I think it helps to manage your money better if you physically have it in your hand, rather than the constant card tapping.
I have noticed pubs often come at you with the card reader without asking if you're paying card. But I've never been told, we don't give change! (Yet, anyway!) I think if I would underpay them rather than overpay them if they did this. So if the bill was £93 and they wouldn't give change, I'd just give them £90 rather than £100. Who do they think they are, thinking they can just keep people's money like that!- outrageous! We need to stand up to this sort of nonsense!

Simonjt · 22/04/2024 21:13

threatmatrix · 22/04/2024 21:02

Wait for all these card users start moaning when we go completely cashless people have no idea what will happen.

Where I live is largely cashless, around 2% of transactions involve cash, and the majority of those are at the airport. Its great never needing cash.

Floortile · 22/04/2024 21:03

Babysharkdoodoodood · 22/04/2024 19:54

For emergencies?.

Yes 😀. But if "nobody" uses cash it's pointless as nobody will accept it. However, most shops do accept cash!

Although if people keep using other forms of payment in the end cash might become obsolete. So if you want to be able to use your emergency tenner in an emergency it's best to also use cash in non- emergencies as well ( at least occasionally)!

threatmatrix · 22/04/2024 21:02

Anewuser · 20/04/2024 08:49

AIBU thinking I should still be able to use cash?

I accept that most places, and people, find it easier using cards but shouldn’t you still be able to use cash occasionally?

Went out for lunch the other day. The bill came to over £100 but as it was something planned, I had cash. The pub said whilst they can take cash, they don’t give change. Since when was this a thing.

At work, when people get married/have babies/leave etc, we do a collection. You always used to stick your contribution in a pot or envelope but now you have to do it online. Not everyone gives now because it’s obvious how much they’ve contributed.

AINBU, that I should still occasionally be able to use cash or AIBU cash has had its day.

Wait for all these card users start moaning when we go completely cashless people have no idea what will happen.

Babysharkdoodoodood · 22/04/2024 19:54

Floortile · 21/04/2024 23:01

Well, why do you have an emergency tenner if nobody uses cash?

For emergencies?.

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