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Or does this Labour Party meme display all we need to regarding about how they feel about women?

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Lion400 · 19/04/2024 19:59

Those silly little women. Apart from the ones with penises. They’re just like us men.

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NoSnowdrop · 20/04/2024 17:35

#Labourlosingwomen

They just love women in the Labour Party! That’s why they’ve had so many female leaders, and yes of course having a penis means they can be women!! Actual real life ladies.

AdultReindeer · 20/04/2024 16:29

NoSnowdrop · 20/04/2024 16:03

The women with penises? Or the other kind?

News flash: the Labour Party hates women* and chooses a crass and sexist meme to be down with the kids that they later have to delete to save the looming reputational crisis

*the ones without penises

It's not that deep.

Or if it is, I now hate all women too and actively want to destroy them and here's the evidence because I shared this meme.

PS - I don't.

NoSnowdrop · 20/04/2024 16:03

AdultReindeer · 20/04/2024 00:09

So you'll vote for one that fucks women instead?

The women with penises? Or the other kind?

News flash: the Labour Party hates women* and chooses a crass and sexist meme to be down with the kids that they later have to delete to save the looming reputational crisis

*the ones without penises

Lion400 · 20/04/2024 15:46

ilovesooty · 19/04/2024 23:32

I'm a member too and I agree with you.

I know they’ve removed it (well I haven’t checked but read somewhere that they have).

Did they apologise?

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Lion400 · 20/04/2024 15:43

NoWordForFluffy · 19/04/2024 23:14

'The GC'?! Gender critical women are not an homogeneous mass you know, or a hive mind. We're all individuals who probably disagree on as many things as we agree. It's best you don't say we all think and act the same.

Plus, it's women's sex-based rights we're fighting for. It's not a 'trans issue'. That minimises what's at stake. It's the usual ploy from those people on the left who don't want it talked about too much in case it actually does have an effect on people's votes.

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Lion400 · 20/04/2024 15:42

Nubbled · 19/04/2024 23:13

I will never vote for a party who says
women can have a penis

Same.

Or does this Labour Party meme display all we need to regarding about how they feel about women?
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Lion400 · 20/04/2024 15:40

FlirtsWithRhinos · 19/04/2024 21:56

I really don't understand the mentality that thinks it's ok that women (female pople) are expected to suck up being literally undefined as a distinct political and social group as the price we have to pay for defeating the Tories.

Would the same posters demand people ignore racism or anti Semitism for the greater good? Indeed, why isn't it trans identifying people being told to park their needs for now and trust they'll be treated fairly at some unspecified later date? Why is it just women being told there are more important things to worry about than their political and social rights so just shut up and submit?

Would the same posters demand people ignore racism or anti Semitism for the greater good? Indeed, why isn't it trans identifying people being told to park their needs for now and trust they'll be treated fairly at some unspecified later date? Why is it just women being told there are more important things to worry about than their political and social rights so just shut up and submit?

Exactly.

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Lion400 · 20/04/2024 15:26

Youcannotbeseriousreally · 19/04/2024 20:14

I’ve not decided. I’d like to vote Lib Dem. But it won’t make a difference. Tbh ( and MN will hate this) I’m screwed in the middle. The Labour Party offers nothing for me general and nor do the Tories really. But I’m never ever voting labour. They don’t even need women, they think men can do a better job of being women than women. It’s a firm no from me.

They don’t even need women, they think men can do a better job of being women than women.

Yes. Yes they do. The more evidence of having a woman problem they shower on us from their lofty confident we’re going to not lose this election cos the Conservatives are so crap heights, the more I can’t stand them.

In contrast to you, I’ve only ever voted Labour (although a couple of times - Corbyn / Ed Milliband offerings, I didn’t vote at all).

This time I will vote, but not sure for who yet. Obviously not Labour.

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WhisperGold · 20/04/2024 11:30

Are the Labour Party perfect? Nope.
Are they better than this current government. You betcha!

johntorodesfatcheeks · 20/04/2024 10:57

Cringeworthy and deeply offensive.

Another Labour exercise in self sabotage. It’s as if they are determined to threaten what should be an unassailable position against the rabble currently posing as a government.

Theeyeballsinthesky · 20/04/2024 09:26

VickyEadieofThigh · 20/04/2024 08:15

I wouldn't vote Tory with a gun to my head. You're mistaking criticism of Labour for endorsement of their opposition.

We should not accept overt misogyny from Labour. How will they ever change if we do?

This! Im baffled that no one even vaguely thought “is this is a little sexist ?” before they put it out

NashvilleQueen · 20/04/2024 09:16

Here's lifelong Labour voter @Lion400 again with another thread.

It's a really rubbish advert.

I'm still voting to get the Tories out. The GE can't come soon enough.

HarryUnicorn · 20/04/2024 09:11

I don’t like it, and have commented to say so, but no I don’t think it ‘tells us all we need to know’. It’s one silly meme, not something I’ll make my political choices based on.

ATerrorofLeftovers · 20/04/2024 09:07

PamPamPamPam · 20/04/2024 09:01

This. And I'm so sick of Labour et al following childish social media trends for likes. Stick to the day job, be adults and tell us how you will run this country if you're given the chance. Stop pandering to the lowest common denominator.

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PamPamPamPam · 20/04/2024 09:01

ATerrorofLeftovers · 19/04/2024 20:15

Just because something’s used a lot, doesn’t make it any less egregious.

It’s particularly ill-timed at present, given the spotlight on the misogyny that’s been so rife within Labour. Really ham-fisted of the Labour comms team to let this one through.

This. And I'm so sick of Labour et al following childish social media trends for likes. Stick to the day job, be adults and tell us how you will run this country if you're given the chance. Stop pandering to the lowest common denominator.

ATerrorofLeftovers · 20/04/2024 08:58

VickyEadieofThigh · 20/04/2024 08:15

I wouldn't vote Tory with a gun to my head. You're mistaking criticism of Labour for endorsement of their opposition.

We should not accept overt misogyny from Labour. How will they ever change if we do?

Exactly this. Criticising Labour does not imply endorsement of the Tories.

Labour should do better. We need to keep demanding they do, rather than accept unacceptable treatment, just because they’re better than the alternative. Otherwise, there is no incentive to change and they never will. How is that a good outcome?

EasternStandard · 20/04/2024 08:51

On the thread title glad to see majority yanbu

EasternStandard · 20/04/2024 08:50

ilovesooty · 19/04/2024 23:42

I agree. They all go the same way. I expect this thread will be no exception.

Tbf I can predict your posts on those threads

itsgettingweird · 20/04/2024 08:46

ghostyslovesheets · 19/04/2024 20:46

Look I have been a party member since 1985 I will be honest - there are a lot of left wing men who don't like women - they don't like to be challenged or pulled up on anything by women - BUT do I think right wing men are better? Nope I think they are worse. Labour still fields lots of women candidates and actively encourages women to stand locally and nationally. My daughters 22 year old friend is standing in the local election coming up.

BUT if you actually really care about women then vote for a party that will improve their lives - will fund healthcare, family support, education, police, social housing, tackle poverty (because it actually gives a shit about it) and improve lives - don't vote Tory just because - what? Rushi decided saying what a woman was is a vote winner - don't be that blind

Excellent post.

I - for 1 - won't be letting an ill judged use of a meme transform my whole vote.

I wont be allowing it to cloud every single thing the Tory's have done the past 14 years to ruin the lives of - well everyone - except their rich mates.

valensiwalensi · 20/04/2024 08:36

That’s a really popular meme.

not everything is that deep.

VickyEadieofThigh · 20/04/2024 08:15

skippy67 · 19/04/2024 22:53

Are you under the impression that we only know Labour are a misogynist party because the Tories told us?

Are you under the impression that the Tories are are not demonstrably proven liars? They've shielded sex offenders in their midst. They've misused party funds. They've accepted millions of pounds from racist doners. These are facts. Plenty more where they came from too. But yeah, crack on and vote for them because you feel Labour are misogynist.

I wouldn't vote Tory with a gun to my head. You're mistaking criticism of Labour for endorsement of their opposition.

We should not accept overt misogyny from Labour. How will they ever change if we do?

Mrttyl · 20/04/2024 07:30

It is a stupid meme with an added dose of sexism. It represents the Labour Party perfectly.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 20/04/2024 04:22

Sunquest · 19/04/2024 22:29

But the other issues are mostly ignored by the GC on MN. I do get the safe guarding of children in the Cass report, but as far as I can see on MN all the other issues women and children face are never ever mentioned. It's like the trans issue is the only thing that matters to them.

Do you really mean MN, or do you just mean the specifically feminist sections of MN?

MN is a site about women by women for women. That is what makes it so great. On almost any other forum, things that impact only or mostly women are ignorede or shunted into a Feminism thread, or even worse, a Women's Chat thread.

But on MN, where women's concerns are front and centre, the topics you are flagging aren't specifically in Feminism because they are all over the site, turning up in education threads, in relationship threads, in AIBU threads, in property threads, in legal threads.

This is, if you like, small-f feminism. It's women supporting women by dealing practically with the specific instances of shit that impact women's life. When shit is hitting the fan the underlying Why this happens (women's lesser voices and lesser political, economic and cultural power, the asymetric impact of parenthood etc) is less important than the What needs to be done right now.

And of course the women who comment under one name in FWR may well have another name they use in the rest of the site, because too many nasty men consider it a sport to identity women with whom they disagree online IRL and harass them.

And then there is big-F Feminism, the social and political analysis and activism that links all that small-f shit together and aims to tackle the source it springs from. On MN, the Feminist boards tend to be more big-F feminism not because that's all MN feminists care about but because unlike male-dominated sites, on MN the small-f feminism happens under the specific topic for each problem. And right now, redefining womanhood itself, unwriting the impact of biology and patriachy and replacing it with the idea of "womanny minds" is a pretty huge social change that big F feminism needs to understand and (IMO) challenge. Even if your view is it is a good thing, there's still a load of big-F questions raised that GAFs (gender accepting feminists) need to grapple with to work out how feminism and women's supports can best accomodate male women without disadvantaging the female ones.

FictionalCharacter · 20/04/2024 01:47

ATerrorofLeftovers · 19/04/2024 20:15

Just because something’s used a lot, doesn’t make it any less egregious.

It’s particularly ill-timed at present, given the spotlight on the misogyny that’s been so rife within Labour. Really ham-fisted of the Labour comms team to let this one through.

Exactly.
Even if it's meant to be a hilarious "joke", the fact is it's a man having serious intelligent thoughts and a woman being shallow.
After a lifetime of sexism and misogyny my tolerance for such jokes has worn thin.

anothernamitynamenamechange · 20/04/2024 01:14

I already posted this on a different thread but I like it so I'm posting it again.

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