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London FTBs with a DC - to stretch for a mortgage or review my expectations?

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Somethingsgotthagive · 19/04/2024 09:15

Properties we could have easily afforded a while ago are not at the very top end of our budget and would imply we need to compromise to very high monthly payments and cut on other lifestyle expenses (such as traveling and day outs, which for us are important).
I begin to wonder whether being an adult also means I should stop fantasising about the perfect property and instead settle for something more modest and keep our mortgage payments low in this time of high rates and instability. Would it be a mistake in the long run?
We are a family of 3 (1 DC pre school) in the London suburbs, we don’t want to move too far away from current are for a multitude of reasons.

Monthly repayments at top end of our budget would be around £2750ish whereas if we settled for something less “nice” or smaller, it would be more around £2200 (still a lot but feels low in the current rates climate).

We are FTBs in our 40s so not exactly expecting to climb the housing ladder much if ever.

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GracefulGrandma · 19/04/2024 09:20

For our first property, we bought an ex-council house in the roughest part of Bristol (Knowle West for any Bristolians who may read this thread!) It was literally at the top of the budget and all we could afford. Our plan was to overpay like mad to build up equity and it worked because 3.5 years later we bought our dream house in a different area which we could never have afforded otherwise. Think long term and consider a strategy like that.

BTW, Knowle West is so popular with FTB so it sold within a week. Is there an area like that where people possibly do the same thing?

Octavia64 · 19/04/2024 09:18

There is no perfect property.

It's very hard to predict what is the best thing to do in the long run property wise.

At the moment with high interest rates and a tough cost of living I personally wouldn't be stretching but it depends on your jobs, promotion expectations, risk of redundancy etc.

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