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AIBU to tell you I’ve found the miracle cure for excessive sugar consumption

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Thewildthingsarewithme · 18/04/2024 11:26

I am being unreasonable to post it here but I feel like it’s a public service announcement and should therefore be shared as widely as possible!
I have a really healthy diet with little to no processed food in my meals but I have a really terrible sugar addiction. Daily I would probably eat three or four chocolate bars, biscuits and a pudding and probably ice cream or a pastry as well. Because I’m naturally slim and eat well outside of this I’ve been kidding myself it’s ok but it’s really not.
I saw an instagram recipe for peanut butter stuffed dates. I bought some organic ones, filled them with 100% PB and rolled them in melted 80% dark chocolate. I know there is sugar in dates but it’s natural and the fibre in the dates means that your blood sugars don’t shoot up, the dark chocolate is also very low sugar. This has honestly been a miracle cure for me! I’m eating three a day. This has completely cured me of the urge for anything else with sugar in, they are so stodgy that I can’t actually eat more than three and they feel completely decadent. For the first time probably in my adult life I’m not craving sugar all day, I’ve had nothing but these dates for three weeks now and it’s actually feeing like a permanent change!
Just wanted to share because I thought I would never be able to kick the habit but I feel so much healthier!

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Doctorbeach · 18/04/2024 14:07

The problem with dates though is that they make you crave and retain water and feel all bloated.

JosiePosey · 18/04/2024 14:05

I wonder how ferrerer roche like they would be if rolled in chopped nuts.

Or desicated coconut 😄

oakleaffy · 18/04/2024 14:04

I too have a terrible sugar addiction.

I love fresh dates.🌴

Tip: Buying Dates around Ramadan 🌙 brings out some real beauties for sale. Almost like a delicious fudge.

Re chocolate...I used to like British chocolate, but it has changed in taste

Most 'cheap' chocolate is really 'waxy' these days, kind of greasy textured and not nice at all.

Palm oil is probably the culprit.

However....bought one of these yesterday to share with three of us, and oh my goodness.... all 3 said it was the nicest chocolate that they had had in years.

It was just a perfect texture and taste.

AIBU to tell you I’ve found the miracle cure for excessive sugar consumption
EmmaStone · 18/04/2024 14:04

This has inspired me to pop to the shops, and I'm now at my desk having eaten 3 dates and 2 squares of dark chocolate, and perfectly satisfied my sugar craving.

I totally get where you're coming from OP.

Planesmistakenforstars · 18/04/2024 13:59

They sound lovely OP. I have the same problem with chocolate, particularly after dinner, so this is well worth a go.

I now just need a way to drink tea and coffee without a shit tonne of sugar, if you have a cure for that, I'm all ears!

ErrolTheDragon · 18/04/2024 13:58

I've more or less kicked sugar/junk cravings (did Zoe/libre glucose monitoring which was quite enlightening, even moreso for DH who is from a family of T2 diabetics). I managed to do the weaning of chocolate with a progress down to the 'one or two squares of 85% dark chocolate' or even 100% montezuma with 10 g of nuts. So much more satisfyingly chocolatey than crappy cadburys etc.

MumOfOneAwesomeHuman · 18/04/2024 13:56

My cure for eating sugar is similar only without the dates and mostly without the chocolate but it still fills the sweet tooth gap somehow.

Melt peanut butter and coconut oil in pan. Pour into chocolate moulds and freeze. You can fill just short of top then when slightly frozen add melted dark chocolate or raw chocolate for a more decadent fix but the plain peanut butter ones work for me. The taste and fat satisfies my sugar craving.

On a keto diet these work a treat. On a normal diet it might be too much fat. But way better than the sugar.

You do need 100% no sugar added peanut butter (I use organic) and a high quality coconut oil. Delish!

Thewildthingsarewithme · 18/04/2024 13:56

@Sourisblanche they sound amazing, will definitely try!

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BrioNotBiro · 18/04/2024 13:54

dontforgetme · 18/04/2024 11:38

Oh man I can't stand dates or dark chocolate. Shit Grin

Or peanut butter! 😞😀

PineappleTime · 18/04/2024 13:50

Thewildthingsarewithme · 18/04/2024 13:30

@ScienceDragon @PineappleTime but the suggestion is not that they don’t cause your blood sugar to spike at all it’s that in contrast to free sugars they are a far better alternative to manage blood sugar levels and overall health for those with a sugar addiction
Obviously if you eat no sugar then they will cause a spike
Only on MN would three organic dates a day only be marginally better than four chocolate bars, a pastry, a magnum and some biscuits 😂
I get the sentiment, I understand they are not sugar free but that is the point, they are, for me at least, a viable alternative to the above which may help others who have a sugar addiction not those who already have low sugar diets

Hey, I think your strategy is great if it works for you! I'm just commenting on this in your OP the fibre in the dates means that your blood sugars don’t shoot up and commenting that this isn't the case in our experience. Your screenshot above relates to people with diabetes who obviously don't have the same blood glucose response to people without! What our (very small sample size!) experiments indicated is that dates, apricots and prunes all cause blood sugar spikes though not as much as chocolate or Coca Cola which was frankly alarming!

Sourisblanche · 18/04/2024 13:49

I eat dates with peanut butter, not everyday but when I fancy one. I also make chocolate balls for my dc which are whizzed up oats, medjol dates, coco powder, almond butter and cinnamon.

Still sugar/choc but better than processed milky stuff with lots of additives.

Atichen · 18/04/2024 13:49

Huff another its easy jusy 'replace chocolate bars with fruit/nuts combo' :( ... I'm sulking because I'm a sugar addict but I don't like fruit or nuts (i wish i did)

TuesdayWhistler · 18/04/2024 13:42

UnctuousUnicorns · 18/04/2024 13:33

That's it.. it's an old vague reference, but I'm glad someone picked up my choclate salty balls.

UnctuousUnicorns · 18/04/2024 13:33

TuesdayWhistler · 18/04/2024 11:54

Op is basically saying that there's nothing quite like a dark chocolate ball to suck on as a pick me up.

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How rude.😉

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Thewildthingsarewithme · 18/04/2024 13:32

i don’t actually have shares in dates 😂

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Thewildthingsarewithme · 18/04/2024 13:32

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Boating123 · 18/04/2024 13:30

They sound tasty but I think most dates come from Israel and I don't really want to give any money to Israel at the moment.

Thewildthingsarewithme · 18/04/2024 13:30

@ScienceDragon @PineappleTime but the suggestion is not that they don’t cause your blood sugar to spike at all it’s that in contrast to free sugars they are a far better alternative to manage blood sugar levels and overall health for those with a sugar addiction
Obviously if you eat no sugar then they will cause a spike
Only on MN would three organic dates a day only be marginally better than four chocolate bars, a pastry, a magnum and some biscuits 😂
I get the sentiment, I understand they are not sugar free but that is the point, they are, for me at least, a viable alternative to the above which may help others who have a sugar addiction not those who already have low sugar diets

AIBU to tell you I’ve found the miracle cure for excessive sugar consumption
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gamerchick · 18/04/2024 13:27

Proper coco dampens sugar cravings as well..200 ml heated up milk, 1 teaspoon of coco, no added sugar.

Thewildthingsarewithme · 18/04/2024 13:23

@KreedKafer they are actually not bad, around 80 cals each and as @AliasGrape it’s about behaviours. Rightly or wrongly I see this as a ‘good’ food as it’s single ingredient and all components are seen as healthy I therefore feel more virtuous and am less likely to self sabotage versus if I eat free sugars like a crunchie I am more likely to binge as I’ve already been ‘bad’ not the best mindset to have around food but thanks noughties diet culture for that

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PineappleTime · 18/04/2024 13:22

Dates definitely do spike your blood sugar. DH and I have been monitoring blood glucose with libre monitors and trying different foods. DH is mostly sugar free, and ate 2 dates as an experiment which caused a big spike.

ChampagneNightmares · 18/04/2024 13:20

GridlockedKey · 18/04/2024 12:03

I have a really healthy diet with little to no processed food in my meals but I have a really terrible sugar addiction. Daily I would probably eat three or four chocolate bars, biscuits and a pudding and probably ice cream or a pastry as well.

This is a hilarious statement. Any diet with that much sweet stuff is a million miles from "really healthy"

The dates sound nice but would be high in calories.

I read this as 'I basically starve myself at meal times and then binge eat in the evenings to compensate for the lack of calories'.

Funnily enough, when I actually started eating a proper amount of calories and food, I stopped craving sugar without needing to resort to bullshit like this.

FinallyHere · 18/04/2024 13:19

I consider myself to have a sugar addiction.

While I love dates, especially with marzipan and dark chocolate, I just cannot moderate my behaviour around anything sweet. Even if I can start to eat them in a controlled way, over time I find myself eating more and more and more different things, too.

Like many other addictions, cold turkey is the only thing that works for me. And brings unexpected benefits including having my tastes change so that unsweetened rhubarb with plain yoghurt tastes good and carrots appear unreasonable sweet. I'd rather keep than than wrestle having the occasional sweet meant.

Thewildthingsarewithme · 18/04/2024 13:18

@singlemum93 just slice and remove the stone and then fill with peanut butter and close 😊
@AliasGrape i feel this, I’m yet to be treated but if it can even manage the cravings the majority of the time that is a massive improvement!
@Purplepeopleeaterz medjool dates are definitely the best
@TwelveAngryWhiskers @Snippysocks i think it’s really difficult when you’re slim because you’re not actually seeing the physical effects of the sugar which I think makes it’s more difficult to kick the addiction

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BobbyBiscuits · 18/04/2024 13:15

Great plan. I hate dark chocolate sadly. Dates are really high in sugar and pb is over 600cals per 100g. So it's energy dense and less processed which is awesome, and is satisfying. Problem is I'd probably binge on them a bit. But it's more filling than regular chocolate definitely.
I do a spoon of almond butter and a dried fig! Lol, pretty similar really.