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AIBU to tell you I’ve found the miracle cure for excessive sugar consumption

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Thewildthingsarewithme · 18/04/2024 11:26

I am being unreasonable to post it here but I feel like it’s a public service announcement and should therefore be shared as widely as possible!
I have a really healthy diet with little to no processed food in my meals but I have a really terrible sugar addiction. Daily I would probably eat three or four chocolate bars, biscuits and a pudding and probably ice cream or a pastry as well. Because I’m naturally slim and eat well outside of this I’ve been kidding myself it’s ok but it’s really not.
I saw an instagram recipe for peanut butter stuffed dates. I bought some organic ones, filled them with 100% PB and rolled them in melted 80% dark chocolate. I know there is sugar in dates but it’s natural and the fibre in the dates means that your blood sugars don’t shoot up, the dark chocolate is also very low sugar. This has honestly been a miracle cure for me! I’m eating three a day. This has completely cured me of the urge for anything else with sugar in, they are so stodgy that I can’t actually eat more than three and they feel completely decadent. For the first time probably in my adult life I’m not craving sugar all day, I’ve had nothing but these dates for three weeks now and it’s actually feeing like a permanent change!
Just wanted to share because I thought I would never be able to kick the habit but I feel so much healthier!

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OnHerSolidFoundations · 19/04/2024 18:11

Tessisme · 18/04/2024 11:54

I'm interested but I'm definitely not googling Bliss Balls

😆😆

I googled it for you! It's fine....

www.kaylaitsines.com/blogs/recipes/bliss-balls

OnHerSolidFoundations · 19/04/2024 18:09

TuesdayWhistler · 18/04/2024 11:54

Op is basically saying that there's nothing quite like a dark chocolate ball to suck on as a pick me up.

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How rude.😉

You might wanna add some salt to that!

OnHerSolidFoundations · 19/04/2024 18:08

Yum!

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Thewildthingsarewithme · 19/04/2024 18:03

@YeahComeOnThen did you mean to be so rude 😋 they are fruit, as above, people on MN are a different breed, three dates a day would be deemed healthy by any measure. I can see that if you literally have no sugar at all then your blood sugars might rise but it’s all so hyperbolic, the hysteria is crazy all these people’s blood sugars rocketing from eating three dates a day 😂

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Thisismynewname23 · 19/04/2024 18:01

Thewildthingsarewithme · 18/04/2024 11:33

@Neverawildchild you pop them in the freezer for thirty mins to harden the chocolate and then in an airtight container in the fridge for three to five days! Ooh thank you @Feelingstrange2 I will have a look 😊

My daughter saw these online and started making them and she’s been exactly the same no craving sweets!

Thewildthingsarewithme · 19/04/2024 18:00

@Karmaisagod they are so surprisingly great aren’t they 😂 I’ve found the trick is to get the large medjool dates, like the size of your thumb so they are super stodgy and almost like a pudding, this has stopped me bingeing on them!

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YeahComeOnThen · 19/04/2024 17:58

People can bang on about low glycemic or 'natural sugar'🙄🙄 but my blood sugars would sky rocket eating these.

@Thewildthingsarewithme they're undoubtably better for YOU than the shite you're replacing!!

but sadly it's not a miracle solution for all of us.

WhatWouldJeevesDo · 19/04/2024 17:21

TwelveAngryWhiskers · 18/04/2024 11:37

Three a day is still more sugar than 3x Wispa bars. I'd rather have the Wispas followed by a handful of bran flakes for the fibre Grin

Bran flakes are the devil.

Mirabai · 19/04/2024 17:16

Love a date or prune stuffed with marzipan.

bostonchamps · 19/04/2024 16:00

Purplepeopleeaterz · 18/04/2024 12:01

Medjool dates are the best for this and though totally missing the point are even better with a small bit of marzipan rather than nut butter in the centre!

Long story but I've got about 5kg of marzipan to use up and you might have just made my day with this suggestion

Karmaisagod · 19/04/2024 15:51

@Thewildthingsarewithme I made this on your advice and just had my first one, and can confirm it was DELICIOUS! Thank you. And whoever suggested adding salt - thank you, too).

The litmus test will be this evening after dinner.🤞

Purpleandredandyellow · 19/04/2024 14:54

I am actually going to try this thank you!

Zhampagne · 19/04/2024 10:26

INeedToClingToSomething · 19/04/2024 06:51

Ooo I love Campari. I like it with just soda 😀

I love Campari and soda. I can only have one negroni as I find them a bit sweet. I don’t have a sweet tooth at all, however - it’s butter that is my downfall!

Crikeyalmighty · 19/04/2024 10:11

When I need a sugar hit I halve 3 red grapes, half a banana and a tablespoon of full fat Greek yoghurt and grate a little bit of dark chocolate over the top - I was pre diabetes a year ago so have been very careful on sugar ever since. I don't like peanut butter, but I do like dates!

DataColour · 19/04/2024 10:07

I bought some lovely medjool dates on the way home yesterday and had 3 stuffed with peanut butter and dark choc for my pudding. So yummy. I think I could easily miss out the dark choc though as the dates were sweet enough.

Mercurial123 · 19/04/2024 09:54

There are so many people with weird attitudes to food. Anyway, I'm off to eat some perfectly healthy dates despite shock horror the sugar.

silically · 19/04/2024 09:22

Depressing, I opened this thread full of hope and wonder but I hate dates and peanut butter :(

I suppose I could just stuff some chocolate with more chocolate and then dip it in chocolate, would that work?

Mirabai · 19/04/2024 09:13

PaminaMozart · 19/04/2024 08:58

Does it really matter whether sugar is addictive, or habit forming, or many people merely find it hard to resist sweet things, or 'we' (as a nation, along with most in the West) simply eat (far) too much of it.

And I agree with @ErrolTheDragon that Dates are healthy despite the sugar rather than because of it.

I used to be 'addicted' to ice cream. Because I exercise a lot and the rest of my diet is very healthy, I remained fairly slim. But some years past the menopause I was found to be pre-diabetic. This happens to many as we age.

By giving up almost all sugar - and also reducing wine... - I was able to normalize my HbA1c. And I no longer actually miss sugar! I still eat fruit and that's enough sweetness for me.

What helped me wean myself off sugar was Dr Mark Hyman's The Sugar Solution, which not only explains the problem succinctly but also offers solutions. His companion diet book contains lots of tasty recipes (though I chose not to go full non- carb...)

I also listened to lots of short pep talks from Dr Becky Gillaspy on YouTube. Dr Hyman also has lots of talks on YouTube, if you don't have time to read his book. There are many others: Michael Moseley, Tim Spector, Eric Berg, etc. Find an expert whom you can relate to and kick the sugar habit - it's so worth it.

I agree. People can be addicted to anything - it doesn’t have to be an addictive substance.

The thing that makes people crave sugar is eating sugar. If you stop eating it you stop craving it.

I don’t eat much sugar and when I want something sweet I eat fresh/dried fruit or my cacao energy balls, recipe above etc.

There‘a nothing wrong with eating dates if you don’t eat a huge amount of other sugar. I find them very sweet but balanced with other things they’re fine. They’re a better form of sugar than the refined stuff or corn syrup or fructose.

MichelleMcBelle · 19/04/2024 09:04

Sounds delicious,OP!

PaminaMozart · 19/04/2024 08:58

VestibuleVirgin · 19/04/2024 07:24

Sugar is not an addictive substance.
Saying you have an addiction is disingenuous

Does it really matter whether sugar is addictive, or habit forming, or many people merely find it hard to resist sweet things, or 'we' (as a nation, along with most in the West) simply eat (far) too much of it.

And I agree with @ErrolTheDragon that Dates are healthy despite the sugar rather than because of it.

I used to be 'addicted' to ice cream. Because I exercise a lot and the rest of my diet is very healthy, I remained fairly slim. But some years past the menopause I was found to be pre-diabetic. This happens to many as we age.

By giving up almost all sugar - and also reducing wine... - I was able to normalize my HbA1c. And I no longer actually miss sugar! I still eat fruit and that's enough sweetness for me.

What helped me wean myself off sugar was Dr Mark Hyman's The Sugar Solution, which not only explains the problem succinctly but also offers solutions. His companion diet book contains lots of tasty recipes (though I chose not to go full non- carb...)

I also listened to lots of short pep talks from Dr Becky Gillaspy on YouTube. Dr Hyman also has lots of talks on YouTube, if you don't have time to read his book. There are many others: Michael Moseley, Tim Spector, Eric Berg, etc. Find an expert whom you can relate to and kick the sugar habit - it's so worth it.

Mirabai · 19/04/2024 08:43

NigelHarmansNewWife · 18/04/2024 23:01

Where have I suggested they are? Plenty of people count calories and macros. Some to bulk up, some to maintain and some to lose weight. There are people who are fine without and that's all good.

Indeed it is. Most people don’t count calories at all.

Mercurial123 · 19/04/2024 08:36

Mirabai · 19/04/2024 08:13

Because they eat far too much of it.

Exactly. Everything in moderation is an alien concept to some posters.

BlackeyedSusan · 19/04/2024 08:27

I found that eating sugar leads to wanting to eat more sugar...

Oh and less stress makes it easier

ErrolTheDragon · 19/04/2024 08:20

Mercurial123 · 19/04/2024 07:38

Why is MN so obsessed with sugar? Dates are amazing AND healthy.

health.clevelandclinic.org/benefits-of-dates

Dates are healthy despite the sugar rather than because of it.

Fruits have nutritional benefits - fibre, antioxidants etc. It's a bit of a no brainer that if you want something sweet they'll be better than sugary junk food.

Of course sugar is fine if you're active, as fuel (see Duke of Edinburgh awards food and snack recommendations!Grin) but too many of us eat sugary crap while sedentary. Hence the rise in type 2 diabetes etc.