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'Where was my invite?' is rude and aggressive

57 replies

Wearygirl · 17/04/2024 12:47

I hate it when you are in a group chat online or in person and someone mentions they've been somewhere and someone else 'jokingly' says 'where was my invite'
I think its so rude and aggressive and there's no answer to it. It makes the person being asked so uncomfortable and awkward.

I have 2 different friends who use this line all the time and it drives me mad (maybe also because neither of them ever suggest or organise anything)

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DixonD · 17/04/2024 18:40

This is a new one 🦪

WeShallHaveFogByTeatime · 17/04/2024 18:40

MsFogi · 17/04/2024 12:52

Just reply with a totally and utterly random emoji and then forget about her message whilst she wonders what the emoji means.

🦔

MsFogi · 17/04/2024 12:52

Just reply with a totally and utterly random emoji and then forget about her message whilst she wonders what the emoji means.

MrsMitford3 · 17/04/2024 12:50

I Have a friend who does it all the time. She says it about everything-including things like family meals out etc

The irony of it is that she never keeps any plans made and cancels/bails on every arrangement.

So passive aggressive.

ajlots · 17/04/2024 12:50

It makes the person being asked so uncomfortable and awkward

That's the point isn't it?

Penguinfeet24 · 17/04/2024 12:49

'You didn't get one'. Simples :D

BingoMarieHeeler · 17/04/2024 12:48

YANBU, I can’t imagine being that brazen 😄