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To not want induction in these circumstances

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Toinduceornot · 16/04/2024 23:28

I’ve been offered an induction at 39 weeks with these circumstances and wondering what you would do and if IABU to decline?

Low risk first pregnancy no complications.

34 weeks - referred for growth scan by midwife, bump measured small but this coincided with baby changing to head down

Growth scan showed no problems baby on 50th centile.

35 + 4 - saw a new midwife as usual one was on holiday. She didn’t realise it hadn’t been two weeks since my growth scan and bump was 1cm smaller than the tolerance level so referred me for another.

At the scan sonographer could only get 1 measurement of the femur, which was measuring smaller than the first growth scan? Doctor and midwife said to disregard this scan as it was clearly inaccurate although they did plot the measurements on my chart.

They asked for me to come back for a scan now, at 38 + 4. Today I saw the same sonographer who again struggled to get a measurement but has deduced baby is on the 10th centile for femur length. Estimated weight is 6lbs.

Midwife and doctor want me to have an induction within the next 72 hours. They haven’t done any monitoring and they didn’t check the placenta or cord flow at the scan today, midwife wasn’t sure why.

I’m really skeptical about the measurements given the errors previously and feel really pressured into the induction. AIBU to refuse and what else can I do eg can I ask for a second opinion? I’ve had no sign of labour so far but haven’t been examined at all.

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RandomMess · 16/04/2024 23:48

I'd be asking to be rescanned etc and then reconsider your options.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 16/04/2024 23:48

I was induced with DS bang on 40 weeks due to short measuring femurs. Turned out they weren’t short at all, and he was 6 lbs 7, so not even that small.

But the induction all went fine with no problems. DS did come out looking rather “over done” - with very dry skin - so they could well have got the dates wrong.

TheShellBeach · 16/04/2024 23:45

I wouldn't be induced for these reasons. I also wouldn't ask for a CS.

Sloelydoesit · 16/04/2024 23:44

From experience.... Ask for a c section and get baby out safely.
Inductions when not ready aren't great